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Topic: is this cancer faithful?
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pisceanscorpion
Newflake Posts: 15
From: CALI
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 04, 2012 01:17 AM
  
He is a great guy, comes off as faithful..though, he is a bit of a flirt. and he checks out other ppl which gets me extremely jealous since I am a sunpluto mercury mars in scorpio stellium.his mars/venus/moon in 5th shows he likes to hook up and have fun..which is true. he was pretty promiscuous before we got together. also his venus/mar/moon/ascendant are in masculine signs... my chart lacks fire/air, my venus/mars are femenine signs. wondering if a relationship is likely to last with that type of contrast?
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5Gemini
Knowflake Posts: 110
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posted April 04, 2012 01:52 AM
Venus Gemini...he might like to dip his fingers into different pies. variety?If you are unsure, keep guarded and dont invest you emotions until you know you can trust him IP: Logged |
birdy
Knowflake Posts: 506
From: Sunny
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 04, 2012 02:03 AM
I think he has a hard time committing. It's not something he even registers. Its not on his radar. I wouldn't be surprised if he stayed a bachelor most of his life. He likes his freedom too much. He might seek out someone far away so he won't have to deal with the day to day workings of a real relationship.IP: Logged |
pisceanscorpion
Newflake Posts: 15
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 04, 2012 02:10 AM
long distance huh? we live 45 minutes apart but see eachother almost everyday but yeah I totally get the variety thing. he denies it thoughwould mars square mercury ruling venus in gemini indicate a cheating nature in relationships? IP: Logged |
birdy
Knowflake Posts: 506
From: Sunny
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 04, 2012 02:23 AM
All I can say in my opinion, this guy will have difficulty with LONG term relationship, not impossible though. I wouldnt picture the white picket fence and 3.5 kids with him. There is endurance shown by 7th being squared by Saturn. His chart shows someone who doesn't like to give up easily. He might get discouraged a lot but eventually he gets back up and keeps trying in whatever area of his life.IP: Logged |
pisceanscorpion
Newflake Posts: 15
From: CALI
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 04, 2012 02:43 AM
damn. lol and I just read up on venus in gemini unaspected... description fits him like a glove.IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 2393
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posted April 04, 2012 03:24 AM
Fire mars- aries - like the chase
Gem venus- Flighty and likes to flirt and juggle women.
In combo with aqua moon?
Yeah I'd say this guy has a strong chance of cheating.
He also has a libra rising. Libra placements aren't great with gem ones, esp moon/venus/mars bc it makes a person charming but very very flirtatious and fickle. Libra needs something earthy to ground it imo. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 04, 2012 04:26 AM
Run for the hills, girl!  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 04, 2012 05:03 AM
you said he is a big flirt and has been promiscuous and people usually dont change ,so i would be very careful if i were you...IP: Logged |
psytaurus
Knowflake Posts: 145
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posted April 04, 2012 05:17 AM
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Originally posted by pisceanscorpion:
He is a great guy, comes off as faithful..though, he is a bit of a flirt. and he checks out other ppl which gets me extremely jealous since I am a sunpluto mercury mars in scorpio stellium.his mars/venus/moon in 5th shows he likes to hook up and have fun..which is true. he was pretty promiscuous before we got together. also his venus/mar/moon/ascendant are in masculine signs... my chart lacks fire/air, my venus/mars are femenine signs. wondering if a relationship is likely to last with that type of contrast?
This bugs me so much especially in the beginning.
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RegardesPlatero
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posted April 04, 2012 05:26 AM
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1954
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 04, 2012 02:34 PM
Checking out bothered me in the beginning, but now I think it's funny. I trained him over the years. He's grown a lot more subtle  Sure, your guy has quite a few likes-to-start-things-but-not-great-at-finishing-them influences, but he's still a Cancer, so ya never know. I guess only time will tell. IP: Logged |
pisceanscorpion
Newflake Posts: 15
From: CALI
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 05, 2012 02:49 PM
thats exactly what I would expect from those placements but you're right. i guess there really is no 'cheater aspects' or placements.. everyone is different. i'm thinking now that maybe i just need to lighten up & not let insecurity get the best of me and our relationship. too much saturn/pluto in my chart. hehe.and even if he is a cheater, hes not the last man on earth :-) IP: Logged |
VenusConjunctMars
Newflake Posts: 17
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 07, 2012 12:08 PM
Hmmm, the 3 Cancers in my life [all female family members] are all cheaters. Seems to cheat for advancement, like a step up or upgrade of man, etc. I dont think this is in line with the typical Cancerian traits. Maybe it's something in their charts? I havent look so not sure.IP: Logged |
Sashar
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Alternate timeline future
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 07, 2012 12:37 PM
Cancer in general isn't faithful by traditional standards. (Aspects may change that, but I'll leave that to the experts). The thing is, there's a difference between having sex with someone who isn't your partner and emotionally cheating... and that difference is where Cancer exists.Something to keep in mind, for every sign and planet, there is a higher self and lower self. Nature/Nurture along with aspects to the planets/signs/houses tend to effect which route the particulars in question have taken. So by looking a chart, people can give you a pretty good idea on the answer, but if something out of the ordinary happened in this person's life which caused a dramatic shift from the lower to higher, or higher to lower... they won't really be able to tell 100%. ------------------
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YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4079
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posted April 07, 2012 11:33 PM
Once again, we have the ever willing executioners willing to defame and impugn the character of a man behind his back on the basis of some dratted chart and some stereotypical notions of what some chart aspects appear to be.I like his full 10th House and his 4th House. This man is committed to family life and his home. He is committed to his career and works hard for his wealth. Whatever. The only person who knows this man is the Original Poster. No one else knows him from Adam. And yet, everyone seems to be a thorough expert with a definitive assessment of who this man is. IP: Logged |
5Gemini
Knowflake Posts: 110
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posted April 07, 2012 11:47 PM
Nothing's written in stone these are observational speculationsIP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 2393
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posted April 08, 2012 12:30 AM
quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Once again, we have the ever willing executioners willing to defame and impugn the character of a man behind his back on the basis of some dratted chart and some stereotypical notions of what some chart aspects appear to be.I like his full 10th House and his 4th House. This man is committed to family life and his home. He is committed to his career and works hard for his wealth. Whatever. The only person who knows this man is the Original Poster. No one else knows him from Adam. And yet, everyone seems to be a thorough expert with a definitive assessment of who this man is.
But the fact is the OP already has stated the guy had a past AND is flirty n checks out other people... Lol. Past behaviour is best indication of future behaviour. One's character doesn't change. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
Knowflake Posts: 2393
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posted April 08, 2012 12:37 AM
Also sb that has mars in 5th house views sex really casually. So... Be careful?IP: Logged |
Sashar
Knowflake Posts: 333
From: Alternate timeline future
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 08, 2012 12:42 AM
quote:
Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Once again, we have the ever willing executioners willing to defame and impugn the character of a man behind his back on the basis of some dratted chart and some stereotypical notions of what some chart aspects appear to be.I like his full 10th House and his 4th House. This man is committed to family life and his home. He is committed to his career and works hard for his wealth. Whatever. The only person who knows this man is the Original Poster. No one else knows him from Adam. And yet, everyone seems to be a thorough expert with a definitive assessment of who this man is.
Everyone?
Including the post directly before yours? Hrmmm?People see what they want to see. ------------------
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