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Topic: Synastry Aspects
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Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 03:33 PM
  
We have:Sun in Cancer (her)/ Sun in Aries (him)
Moon in Virgo (her)/ Moon in Cappy (him)
Mercury in Leo(her)/ Mercury in Aries (him)
Venus in Leo (her)/ Venus in Aries (him)
Mars in Cappy (her)/ Mars in Virgo (him)
Saturn in Sagittarius (her)/ Saturn in Aries (him) Main question: such aspects in a synastry would work? Here is the thing: I love Aries people and fire sign people in general but all the Aries males I have met except this one were having Pisces influence in their chart (a lot). Obviously they werent typical Aries as I not a typical Cancer either. I have too much fire in the chart to cope with watery people. Now, I have studied a lot of synastry charts were the couple had Sun in square but the other planets in good aspects not to forget the karmic connections which I already talked about in the other topic. My second question is: Am I weird? Why I am not impressed by water signs or earth signs since I am a Cancer sign? I'm not romantic, not oversensitive, shy and subtle. I totally the opposite. My Venus is in Leo at 29 degrees which would make it A Virgo Venus but thats another story. Venus is weak at 29 degrees but still in Leo. In my opinion. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2012 04:13 PM
Moon/Mars DW! That points to a super emotional/physical connection.Based on the elements, looks like it could work. I can't tell you more because there are no orbs and aspects are what matters the most.
Well, you only have Sun in Cancer so that may be why you don't relate to it that much.
Does Saturn actually square Moon?
And Virgo Moons aren't famous for romance, either. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 04:23 PM
Without his birth time is hard to tell. I have tried to guess his Ascendant but I cannot be sure. He has the most beautiful blue eyes I ever seen in my life. My guess was a Scorpio Ascendant but his skin is white (ivory) and not olive like mine. Also he is taller than me. Judging by the eyes, he can have a water ascendant but its not the only indicator. Can be a lot of things involved.PS: My best friend has a Virgo Moon with Sun in Sagittarius, Mercury/Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Pisces. She is the most romantic person I ever met in my life. Often she tells me that she loves romantism and romantic men. I seriously, don't. Whats the difference? IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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posted April 05, 2012 04:40 PM
Showing the signs is not enough to read synastry with.... we need the degrees of the planets to see whats really going on. Please post a chart so that we can see the degrees of the planets and give a proper reading.If you don't know bithtimes, just create a birthchart based on a noon time of birth. That way, at least we will know where all the other planets are except the Moon and Asc... IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted April 05, 2012 04:46 PM
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My Venus is in Leo at 29 degrees which would make it A Virgo Venus but thats another story. Venus is weak at 29 degrees but still in Leo. In my opinion.
Venus is at a critical degree when at 29, so no, I don't think it's "weak" in fact, the energy will be more apparent. I don't believe in cusps. You have a Leo Venus. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted April 05, 2012 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
I don't believe in cusps. You have a Leo Venus.
Agreed.
You are quite Leonine, that's probably why you're attracted to fire influenced people.
Maybe your house placements can explain why're not "romantic", actually the aspects, too. There are many possibilites here, maybe the transits or progressions point to a moment in life where you don't feel romantic. But look at your natal, it should show there.
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Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 04:52 PM
There you go:  Many thankies. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 04:57 PM
About that:I have Saturn in 1st house in Sagittarius (house of Mars)
Moon and Venus are in 10th house (house of Cappy)
Mars is in third house (house of Gemini)
Sun is in 9th house along with Mercury.
Ascendant is in Scorpio but Scorpio is not a romantic sign even though is a water sign. Another thing: Since 1998, my progressed Sun and Moon are in Leo and will remain there another 17 years. Any influence from? IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 05:01 PM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
Venus is at a critical degree when at 29, so no, I don't think it's "weak" in fact, the energy will be more apparent. I don't believe in cusps. You have a Leo Venus.
Agree. Even though I never understood why so many modern astrologers are keep saying is weak and bad. I feel more the energy from Leo than from Virgo. And yes, I feel Leonine. I love writing, acting and speaking in a dramatic way.
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Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 05:09 PM
His birthchart:  My birthchart:  The first chart posted was the Synastry without the time of course. Sorry for the error. IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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posted April 05, 2012 05:31 PM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
We have:Sun in Cancer (her)/ Sun in Aries (him)
Moon in Virgo (her)/ Moon in Cappy (him)
Mercury in Leo(her)/ Mercury in Aries (him)
Venus in Leo (her)/ Venus in Aries (him)
Mars in Cappy (her)/ Mars in Virgo (him)
Saturn in Sagittarius (her)/ Saturn in Aries (him) Main question: such aspects in a synastry would work? Here is the thing: I love Aries people and fire sign people in general but all the Aries males I have met except this one were having Pisces influence in their chart (a lot). Obviously they werent typical Aries as I not a typical Cancer either. I have too much fire in the chart to cope with watery people. Now, I have studied a lot of synastry charts were the couple had Sun in square but the other planets in good aspects not to forget the karmic connections which I already talked about in the other topic. My second question is: Am I weird? Why I am not impressed by water signs or earth signs since I am a Cancer sign? I'm not romantic, not oversensitive, shy and subtle. I totally the opposite. My Venus is in Leo at 29 degrees which would make it A Virgo Venus but thats another story. Venus is weak at 29 degrees but still in Leo. In my opinion.
Are you kidding!! I myself have Venus at 29 degrees of Sagittarius and I don’t feel it’s ‘weak’ at all… in fact I identify very strongly with it. I don’t believe in cusps… I think that unless you were born at the exact moment that a planet changes signs than the planet is in the sign that it is in…. However, I do also take not of decans and duads (this is a whole other huge topic). Each sign of the zodiac is divided into 3 decans, and 12 duads. If you haven’t studied these already, I highly recommend it… it’s very illuminating. For every 2 ½ degrees of a sign there is a different sub influence effecting that small section of the sign…. For instance, my Venus at 29 degrees of Sagittarius is in the Leo decan, and Scorpio duad of Sagittarius…. Giving a little bit of a Leo influence on my Venus, and a touch of a Scorpio influence on it too… Rosalind, in your case Venus at 29 degrees of Leo is in the Aries decan, and Cancer duad…added a few Aries and Cancer traits to your Venus to go along with the Leo ones. Rosalind, you remind me a little of myself…in the sense that I’m a Capricorn Sun, Moon in Cancer, with a bunch of planets in fire signs and I’m a lot more attracted to fire signs then other to earth signs. I don’t go for the type Capricorn is traditionally supposed to be attracted to at all…. I love positive, outgoing energy coming from a mate. And the signs Aries and Sagittarius are an especially big weakness for me… My romantic tastes show in my chart… I have Sag rising with Aries on the 5th house cusp (5th house rules romance, and who you adore), and Gemini on the 7th house cusp, ruled by Mercury in Sag, with Jupiter in early Cancer in the 7th house (7th house rules who you like, and long to be with)… checking out the signs on the cusps of the 5th, 7th, and 8th house cusps (the 8th house rules private intimacy, and merging with another), and the rulers of those house cusps show a lot about the type of energy you are attracted to in others… if you have your own birth time, it’s really worth checking this information out just for your personal self knowledge, even if you don’t have his birth time. Just judging from the sign combinations in your synastry with your Aries love, so far it looks really good. The majority of your planets are in the same element…you both have earth Moons, and an earth Mars, and both of you have Mercury, Venus, and Saturn all in fire signs…. This means that in a very general sense the two of you share a lot of similar attitudes towards things. As for your Suns being square by sign…. A little bit of difference can be a good thing, and I think it makes life more interesting to be with someone who is different from yourself in certain ways…. It helps you to see alternatives to your usual way of thinking, and to learn and grow together, if there are few challenges in the synastry to go along with the harmonious connections. Still, to see the picture more clearly it’s necessary to see the degrees of your planets.
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Rosalind
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posted April 05, 2012 05:44 PM
I have to add something: Due the age gap, I don't want him as a possible lover (I want to end up alone) but as a work collegue or friend. My main concern wasnt if the synastry works as possible lovers but as a general synastry or a karmic one. I am really interested to know about the people who come into my life.
For example: My best friend. We know each other since 2005. Thats 7 years. In this time we fought a lot and we didnt speak like 4 years. Yet we have an excellent relationship. Her Ascendant is conjuncting my NN. We share the same NN and Moons and her Mercury and Venus are conjuncting my Asc.Many thankies! IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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posted April 05, 2012 06:08 PM
My apologies, I assumed the connection was a romantic one as that’s what most people ask about. One thing that stood out to me when I looked at your chart was the Sun/Mars opposition in your chart…. This could incline you to be quite assertive and direct in your dealings with others. You would be one not afraid to get straight to the point… and you’d prefer this type of response from others in return. Despite being a Cancer, too much indirectness would drive you up the wall. It also shows that you can be quite passionate and energetic in your approach to life, and that you appreciate others who share this attitude…. Although I’d watch out for a tendency to get involved in arguments form time to time. You’d have more courage and daring in your nature then the average Cancerian… I also noted that you have Jupiter in the 5th house, and Venus and Mercury in Leo ruling the 7th and 8th houses… meaning that you very much would enjoy ‘fiery’ types as a partner as well…. Although, with a Taurus Dsc, and a Pisces 5th house cusp… a caring nature and some stability in a partner is important to you as well. In your synastry with the Aries in question they have their Mercury in Aries trine to your 7th house ruler Venus in Leo… This is a good sign for liking each other and getting along on a daily basis, if this is your concern…
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Rosalind
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posted April 06, 2012 02:46 AM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
My apologies, I assumed the connection was a romantic one as that’s what most people ask about. One thing that stood out to me when I looked at your chart was the Sun/Mars opposition in your chart…. This could incline you to be quite assertive and direct in your dealings with others. You would be one not afraid to get straight to the point… and you’d prefer this type of response from others in return. Despite being a Cancer, too much indirectness would drive you up the wall. It also shows that you can be quite passionate and energetic in your approach to life, and that you appreciate others who share this attitude…. Although I’d watch out for a tendency to get involved in arguments form time to time. You’d have more courage and daring in your nature then the average Cancerian… I also noted that you have Jupiter in the 5th house, and Venus and Mercury in Leo ruling the 7th and 8th houses… meaning that you very much would enjoy ‘fiery’ types as a partner as well…. Although, with a Taurus Dsc, and a Pisces 5th house cusp… a caring nature and some stability in a partner is important to you as well. In your synastry with the Aries in question they have their Mercury in Aries trine to your 7th house ruler Venus in Leo… This is a good sign for liking each other and getting along on a daily basis, if this is your concern…
Yes you are right about everything you have said. Indirectness kills me. To me, everything is black or white. I hate games and subtleness. I like people who know what they want. Also I have no patience with those who try to test me to see if i can read their thoughts through gestures. I may be a psychic but I don't want to live my life making use of my abilities to understand what my partner wants. To be honest, I was quite shocked to see that those Aries males I have met were SHY. Aries should be anything but shy.
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