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Topic: Moon/Neptune in synastry
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Lioness
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posted April 11, 2012 11:26 PM
  
I'm trying to get an understanding of this energy... If anyone has any experiences to share....If so what signs and were you moon or neptune?
I'm especially interested in the conjunction.. But any and all experiences welcome.
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Delilah
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posted April 12, 2012 12:04 AM
I had this recently with someone. Not sure about the distant past because enough time has gone by to forget. His Neptune is at 29 deg. Sagittarius and my Moon is at 4 deg. Aries. At first there was a great connection. I couldn't get enough of him and thought I could sense how he felt, but he had a harder time reading my emotions. The typical thing of not seeing the other for who they are happened even though I knew when he was lying. I felt like I could provide him with this environment where he could be himself and not feel as if he had to be deceitful when it came to who he was, but I don't think he saw that and continued to pretend to be what he wasn't. He would concoct stories that made me feel that I had to protect him from horrible women. The last story he told me involved a suicide attempt, where he tried to subtly hint at needing money. I didn't give in and it was the last time that we talked.I guess, to sum up this experience, I would say that the possibility of emotional deceit is HIGH. Whichever person has prominent Neptune in their chart (him) is prone to building him/herself up as the victim. Once you show signs of not giving in to what they want most, poof! They're gone, maybe to write a new drama to break you down. He needed to play the role of invalid (sorry, there's no better way to describe the piece of flint). He was always sick, one way or another, exaggerated his condition, tried his hardest to make me believe that he was father/mother of the year to his child. When the rose-coloured glasses finally came off I saw everything he hid from me and all of the things I wouldn't allow myself to see. He lied about why his ex took their child away (he's a drug addict), his height, job, education, and single status (the douche was wearing a wedding band in his recent pictures). Btw, we met online and he somehow seemed the least like a con-artist out of all the con- artists I blocked. Oh, his Neptune was in my 12H and my Moon is in my 3H. Our communication was never stable and I was always trying to figure out where I stood with him. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 12:11 AM
Past couple of days, I've been thinking of this aspect in synastry. In our synastry his moon is conjunct my Neptune & my moon opposes his Neptune. It's strange...we have a strong spiritual connection & we are of like mind. When he thinks of me, I will call & vice versa. His line would always be to get out of his head as he felt that I could read his mind. We could finish each others thoughts & sentences. We had a sort of intuitive communication where we just understood each other. We would have the same dreams & my dreams of him would be very vivid as where I could feel & smell him. He admitted to me that he felt a very strong spiritual bond with me. I think the only problem that lies with this aspect is that the moon person has nowhere to hide from Neptune. Neptune gets into the thoughts of moons & can see into their emotions. Nothing is sacred. I know for me since it is opposite for my moon, was I felt there was emotional dishonesty on his part. He would be stoic & hardheaded about his feelings for me not wanting to admit (or at least give in) to feelings but he has the twinkle in his eyes and the way he looked at me...or was that part of the delusion with my rose colored glasses? Lol- who knows? I won't speak to him now because things ended badly but he still pervades my thoughts & he still comes to me in my dreams. I'm trying to give him the mental block but he always finds a way back in...lol. like the other day while switching channels, it seemed like every show I turned on, they had a character with his same name. I know I sound crazy but I blame it on Neptune. There is no rationality to it - it just seems to be that way.
His Sagittarius moon in 12th house conjunct my Neptune in 7th house
His Neptune Sagittarius in 12th house opposing my moon in 1st.
And to top it, he has the moon/Neptune conjunction in 12th too so I wonder if it is worse for him? I hope so...lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 12:37 AM
@Delilah.. That was a really bad experience. I wonder if Neptune hit other planets in hard aspects are what was Neptune doing in the composite..
My experience has been a bit different.. @cappy1277
YES.. Sadly I understand, and I know exactly what you mean... Im Neptune he is Moon. But his Neptune also trines my moon.. So its a DW. There is that knowing what the other person is thinking.. We can talk with our eyes. Just by a simple look..
I feel like I know what he feels (the fog) I feel what he feels.. I know when hes sad,upset, stressed what ever. I just feel it.
We also seem to have this I will take care of you.. But its like we are starting to relay on it... The "I need you" feeling is really bad (at least for me) I feel lost when he's not around.
He use to come to me in my dreams and "save me" (again the fog??)
I dont dream about him anymore though.. The dreams have stopped.. I only dream about him, when we stop talking.We talk every day, so the dreams have stopped.
I do get the sense he wants to "father/mother" me.. But I have a cancer venus so I like it... lol
I worry about what he's feeling...
If he's feeling bad, I will go out of my way to make it better.. I just have this urge to support him, and encourage him..
When I see him stressed out.. I feel it in my gut.. For me to feel better I have to make him feel better. ( CRAZY FOG) I worry so much about what he's feeling...
But if he asks me how I feel.. I just say ahhh you know Im cool... Dont worry.. YES there is a show on TV where the 2 main characters are his and my name.. I see the damn preview every 5 flipping minutes...
Drives me nuts..
I also feel there is no escape.. That Im lost and only he can put me in the right direction.. IF only he would tell me, but he doesnt..
I have found it very spiritual and binding, and confusing, and unconditional.... I think we both have are having a hard time with it.. He told me you know I hate you so much right now... He said his head is all Fkd up because of me...
He wasnt saying this in a bad way.. But I understood what he meant.. Because its the same..
Its like. I hate to like you,cause you see me, but Im glad you see me, but dont see me cuz Im hiding me... LOL
Its the same for me.. I hate to care.. I try to say I dont, but yeah its not working... Make any sense???
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cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 01:06 AM
It all makes complete sense to me...lol. Neptune is a tricky fella.  One night a few months back, I had a dream in which he kept telling me that he had a headache & I kept telling him to take something. Now it was only a dream but knowing about this aspect being telepathic in nature, I figured that I would play on it to see if it was true. So I waited for him to call & when he did, the first thing i asked is why he didn't take anything for his headache the night before. Mind you, I didn't speak to him at all the night before this call...lol. he says how did you know I had a headache? He said he didn't think he spoke to me but he felt like he did speak to me even though we really didn't physically. It was spooky...lol. then I decided to experiment. I meditated on the thoughts that he really wanted to see me & that he would need to pick me up...lo & behold - he calls me & tells me he has overwhelming desire to see me & is coming to get me...needless to say, I laid off the telepathic communication with him. Its creepy but sometimes especially now that we aren't speaking to each other I find myself having these "conversations" with him in my head...it almost makes me feel schizophrenic. Maybe Neptune in synastry wants me to go crazy but I know with this aspect it goes both ways...lol. Its hard to rationalize this aspect and I'm sure that others who weren't or aren't keen on astrology would believe that we need to have our heads checked & be medicated....lol. Its hard to for me believe that I can have this connection with someone (my Gemini moon wants to rationalize everything!) and it leaves me disillusioned in some ways but it's very real and can become emotionally consuming when you feel that you dont get enough of them. It touches you to your soul & holds on....
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cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 01:23 AM
I have to add that main reason I feel so disillusioned with this aspect is that I realized I put him on a pedestal & created him to be some kind of superhuman...lol.
It could be from the fact that his sun mercury and Venus conjunct my MC so I idealized him but i gave him no room for human error & he never did me. I saw him turn into a monster & it shattered all my thoughts of him that made me feel like he was the ideal sensitive man I once thought he was. It's hard to explain but hopefully I make some kind of sense...lol  IP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted April 12, 2012 01:44 AM
Lioness, I don't know if anything good can happen with the square. His Neptune also squared my Sun and was conjunct my Neptune. In the beginning, it felt like we had this amazing connection. Honestly, it felt like we had a soul meeting. There was no evidence of this being mutual and what we "had" began to unravel quickly. His Uranus squared my Venus, which I have natally, so on some level I knew it was going to fizzle out, from experience. My Moon rules my 7H and Sun rules my 8H. When he told me that he was hoping that we would marry each other and have kids somewhere down the road, he was seeing other women and probably telling them the same. Money would come up a lot. He would tell me that in his past, women tried to use him to pay their bills. But he doesn't and didn't have the kind of job where you would think he made enough to give away like that. Anyway, these are the only planets that his Neptune was in aspect to. I can't remember what was going on with the composite. IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted April 12, 2012 11:05 AM
I have this with my best girlfriend. We have an extremely karmic connection, we met whn she was 7 and I was 16, were extremely close for 10 years, I practically helped raise her, she was an abused child. We got seperated and then "found" each other again. We are like soul sisters, even though we are bestfriends we call eachother family.
Im moon and she is neptune conj in cappy 1* in her 1st h and my 8th h. There is such deep understanding and love between us, we can speak to eachother with our minds.IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted April 12, 2012 08:28 PM
Pisces and I have Moon conjunct Neptune 1 degree in our Composite.
I loovve the absolute true understanding between us. It is comfort to my soul. Does that sound corny?! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 09:41 PM
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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
Pisces and I have Moon conjunct Neptune 1 degree in our Composite.
I loovve the absolute true understanding between us. It is comfort to my soul. Does that sound corny?!
No it makes sense 
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cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 10:28 PM
I think that is the whole thing with neptune...it just makes sense even when it doesn't make sense. Lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 10:39 PM
Yeah neptune really messes with your head... I just wonder if what I feel is correct.. Or is it just what I think.....
So confusing...
Today fishy didn't call me..when I was driving home.. I kept saying omg omg why didn't he call me today.. Was he just super busy or is he mad at me over something that happen yesterday.....
Just then I got a text from him saying It's freaken busy today....lol
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cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 11:09 PM
It really creates feelings of paranoia. Makes me feel like an insecure little girl. Like I am expecting the worse. I always think something is going on and my mind plays tricks on me. I count how long it takes for him to call me back and then I create these scenarios in my head & then he will call.I can't trust my intuition with this guy. I try to match the behaviors with the actions but I always get these nagging feelings & it haunts me. His Pluto also trines my moon & my Pluto sextiles his moon. Sometimes he has literally locked me in the house so I would still be there when he got home. We didnt live together but i would stay over often. SMH...you so badly want to keep this person under your thumb & watch their every move because you JUST know they're going to deceive or lie to you...you become hypervigilant because you are so afraid of being hurt. You demand the truth when they are telling you the truth but you just can't believe them. Its that nagging little voice in your head... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 11:28 PM
Wow I'm really impressed.....
That's exactly what has been going on with me and fishy....
He's really paranoid about me... It's gotten to the point that he's made up some pretty crazy assumptions... I'm mean I'm left there standing there saying wtf.. How in the world did u come up with that.... No matter what I say it just seems to back fire on me...
As for me, I'm always worried abt what he is feeling..is he mad, upset, sick, stressed...... I worry so much that it's hard to focus on anything else.....
I hurt his feelings yesterday... So now I'm so worried abt it.... Sux...
We also have a dw moon/pluto....
I'm always re assuring him....
I told him ..u know ur the only man I have eyes for... He didn't talk to me for a day... He finally called and told me what was bothering him.....
He.said u said I'm the only "man" y did u say man for????? Do u have something going on with women?????? I had to actually explain I'm straight and not into women....lol....where he got that is beyond me. Lol......he asked if I was doing something wit this one girl, cuz he always sees me talking to her...
He said ok..I'll drop it, and chalk it off......Wow really.... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 11:30 PM
Sorry if it didn't come out right.. I'm on the cell..IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 11:38 PM
Woot woo... He just texted me.. He's not mad anymore.. HeheIP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 11:43 PM
Wow...that is far fetched. But you know what? I went through the SAME EXACT scenario. I was dumbfounded to say the least? It really made me feel some type of way because it felt like he was assassinating my character. I was speechless & hurt. It depleted all my energy to even argue with him about it. He has been the only man I touched since we have been together..I can't be with anyone else because I am so emotionally involved with him but he can't see it.IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 11:46 PM
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cappy1277
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posted April 12, 2012 11:49 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Woot woo... He just texted me.. He's not mad anymore.. Hehe
Yay!! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 12, 2012 11:58 PM
Yeah he's telling me I hurt his feelings.... But thats mars sq moon....IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted April 13, 2012 12:03 AM
Lol...he's the moon I assume? Mars doesn't care about hurt feelings and doesn't even realize it happens...lolIP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted April 13, 2012 12:36 AM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Lol...he's the moon I assume? Mars doesn't care about hurt feelings and doesn't even realize it happens...lol
Yeap.. I was in one of my leo moods yesterday..... I'm forgiven
He.can't stay.mad at me...... Hehehehehe Ahh... We had a really nice conversation..
But its sad to..
He told me he's afraid of getting addicted to me...
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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2012 01:04 AM
Euhhh.. I really really really dont know what to do about him...
I asked him if he wants me to step back and give him space, he said no. He asked me if I loved him.. I said I care I feel a bond, but IDK what love is.. I told him I have mixed emotions about him.. sighhhh... Hes confusing me.. He said he's afraid to get addicted to me, so he's having a hard time being with me, but when I asked him if he wanted space he said no... What does that mean??? I asked him what do you want me to do here he said..
I DONT KNOW!!!!! LOL geez thanks for clearing that up for me IS this moon/neptune doing this????????? IP: Logged |
Delilah
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posted April 13, 2012 01:48 AM
This might help to explain Moon-Neptune a little more, if you haven't already read it: http://www.scribd.com/Moonlightshadow/d/8219806-Neptune-in-Synastry-and-the-Composite-Chart Have you had a tarot reading for your relationship? I think it can help to clear some things up for you. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted April 13, 2012 08:50 AM
Lol...it seems to be. A while ago he asked me how I felt...I told him I felt ambiguous.
that pretty much sums it up. I feel like I can't live without him, don't want to give it up and neither does he. He has admitted in the past that it is like a drug addiction for him and he goes thru withdrawal. And I have to admit, I feel the same way. lol IP: Logged |
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