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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2012 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Every meet someone that wasnt really your type?
Yet there's that special something about that person that your attracted to?

Now Im not really talking about looks, its "something" about that person that just attracts your attention...

Can you look at their natal and see if it makes sense.. Maybe something about them that attracts you!

I will start..


Fishy... He's not physically my type.. He's short,stocky, no facial hair. His face is as soft as a babies butt.. His eyes are just so deep and dark (love the eyes)
Anyways..
He doesnt look like it at all, he looks soft. But as soon as you speak to him, you know he's not.
He packs a bunch and Im very attracted to his power and his inner strength...
His aura just screams I will take care of you. (which my venus cancer likey)
So what in his natal is giving him this power/his strength.
He has mars conjunct sun (lil wide 6orbs)
He has mars conjunct DSC..

I think this is what Im attracted to about him..

I asked him what he's attracted to about me.. He said your confidence.
He told me your confidence is so sexy.
He said your the strongest female I have ever met.. He said I have more back bone than some of the male mgrs..
So he's attracted to my Leo Stellium, and all that fire in my chart.

So now what are you attracted to?? Why is that person attracted to you??


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posted April 13, 2012 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The last person I was attracted to was just plain desperate and I was simply the only girl who paid attention to him. He's looking to hook up with women from the ages of 21-42....'nuff said.

He's probably pathetic enough to wonder why I was attracted to him. So that he could use that knowledge to get laid by others. Haha. I was just going through a Neptune transit thru the 5th and wasn't seeing clearly where romance was concerned that's all. So if he can figure out which girls are having that transit, maybe he'll get some.

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posted April 13, 2012 09:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars

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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2012 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars

Sexy huh!
Im love the power and the strength.

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Capriquarius
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posted April 13, 2012 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars

Yeah, my ex has that. Decidedly masculine. Unlike some guys with the square.

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Lioness
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posted April 13, 2012 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
The last person I was attracted to was just plain desperate and I was simply the only girl who paid attention to him. He's looking to hook up with women from the ages of 21-42....'nuff said.

He's probably pathetic enough to wonder why I was attracted to him. So that he could use that knowledge to get laid by others. Haha. I was just going through a Neptune transit thru the 5th and wasn't seeing clearly where romance was concerned that's all. So if he can figure out which girls are having that transit, maybe he'll get some.


SO it was only a transits?
There was "something about him that you were attracted to?
The way he talked, walked? Anything??

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posted April 13, 2012 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lonake:
[b]O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars


Yeah, my ex has that. Decidedly masculine & straight. Unlike some guys with the square.[/B][/QUOTE]

Yeah with fishy..
His mars in late Aqua conjunct his Sun in late Pisces.

He's soft, yet aggressive. Very masculine..

I like this better than Aries Sun's. They are just straight out aggressive..
This is more on the down low, not as in your face, unless it needs to be.

He put me on the spot and asked me what I was attracted to about him..
I said your SWAG baby!!!
I didnt know what to say.. hehehehe

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posted April 13, 2012 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fondue Knight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lonake:
[b]O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars


Yeah, my ex has that. Decidedly masculine & straight. Unlike some guys with the square.[/B][/QUOTE]

I have Sun conj Mars, except I'm decidedly masculine and gay.

On topic, my last ex was sooooo not my type physically. He dressed really flamboyantly... purses and jewelry, etc. He looked like a fricken Stepford wife. But I think I was attracted to his Mars in Aqua; he didn't give a single f about what anyone thought of his get ups. I believe his Mars was conjunct my Jupiter.

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posted April 13, 2012 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ok

quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
SO it was only a transits?
There was "something about him that you were attracted to?
The way he talked, walked? Anything??


No, the synastry came into play too. I was suppressing certain parts of my psyche, parts that he let dominate in his. I read up on some Jung and it helped me to realize this, and rationalize away "feelings" I thought I had for him. A learning experience. Now I'm trying to embrace these repressed areas of my psyche and integrate them into my consciousness.

What did I find attractive? It was so long ago that it's been drowned in all that Neptunian fog.

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posted April 13, 2012 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like total sweetie pies. Moon in Taurus or Pisces or cancer. Libra Venus. I bet if I check for affinities I will find a few more commonalities with those placements and my partners. None of mine were ever really my type so maybe I am not as shallow as I thot ehehe!

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posted April 13, 2012 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww I feel bad. I never did your compatibility report with Fishy, did I?

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posted April 13, 2012 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No..No worries.. If u ever have time..
It's becoming very intense... It's a very slow process though.. We are going very very slow.....
He admitted he's afraid of becoming addicted to me.

But he already is.... He just won't admit it yet... We are both addicted to each other.

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posted April 13, 2012 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starzy54     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find my fish's tenderness completely spellbinding.The way he kisses me, just sends me over the moon. I love the way he talks quietly and softly, the gentleness of his eyes and hands.That tender smile. His kind heart is what i love about him, and find so endearing.

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posted April 13, 2012 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:

He admitted he's afraid of becoming addicted to me.


That's bull. He's just stalling because he wants to keep his options open. He must be rolling in dough, or just plain deluded.

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posted April 13, 2012 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness:
[b]
He admitted he's afraid of becoming addicted to me.


That's bull. He's just stalling because he wants to keep his options open. He must be rolling in dough, or just plain deluded.[/B][/QUOTE]

I understood what he means by it..... There is a dependency nature to the energy.... I'm afraid of losing myself and being consumed by it...
but I guess that's moon/pluto venus/pluto or moon/neptune....
I'm not sure what it is....

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posted April 14, 2012 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars

What about the trine? Lmao I have the trine exact.

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posted April 15, 2012 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone else

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posted April 15, 2012 02:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
I like total sweetie pies. Moon in Taurus or Pisces or cancer. Libra Venus. I bet if I check for affinities I will find a few more commonalities with those placements and my partners. None of mine were ever really my type so maybe I am not as shallow as I thot ehehe!

Aww moon pisces, venus libra here X] lol

Personally I've been attracted to guys with venus or neptune aspected to mercury. I think it makes there voices sound pleasant and soothing, love that :]

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posted April 15, 2012 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's, really cool..... I like that

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posted April 15, 2012 02:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
Every meet someone that wasnt really your type?
Yet there's that special something about that person that your attracted to?

Now Im not really talking about looks, its "something" about that person that just attracts your attention...

Can you look at their natal and see if it makes sense.. Maybe something about them that attracts you!

So now what are you attracted to?? Why is that person attracted to you??


Yes, I met such people but I am the type of person I would NEVER go out with someone I don't like physically. I know, its shallow but whatever. He may be the best man in the world, if I don't feel attracted in any way by him, he doesnt stand a chance. The perfect man doesnt exist but that doesnt mean I have to go out with the one who likes me but I don't like back. No spark, no date. Simple as the daylight.

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posted April 15, 2012 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pennylane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes! I'm usually attracted to lean, white, hipster (<--for lack of a better word) looking guys. I once had a huge crush on this guy I worked with who was slightly chubby and had very dark features. Not my type at all. But he was so... I don't even know how to explain it! He was hilarious, charming, would unabashedly check me out and was such an aggresive flirt.

We had the same birthday, too (but diff year)so that might have had something to do with it

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posted April 15, 2012 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All the guys I am attracted to all have Sun-Mercury conjunction. Interestingly is that I have venus in Gemini, ruler being mercury.. Wonder if it means anything.

I like a confident guy with an interesting mind. I am attracted to the mind of a person.

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posted April 15, 2012 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's tough talking from my standpoint because my wife and all ex-girlfriends are stunning in appearances and I always come off looking like a hypocrite when talking about intellect, values and character. My male friend used to tell me: "yeah. I read Playboy for the articles.".

So, I'll discuss from my wife's standpoint. I'm definitely nothing to look at. I've always been a tad overweight even during my prime in the military. But I've always been fit. Any person can look fabulous in nice clothes but apparently my wife likes the conservative businessman look and she remembers me as a first encounter in a navy pinstripe suit. I still have that in my closet.

She says she likes that I am respectful, honest, caring and responsible. She likes the ambition and drive to succeed. She likes the diligence. She likes the street smarts, in addition to the education credentials. She likes that I had no qualms standing up to her dad when questioned about my background. I won't fake. She likes the career and paycheck too. We live in the real world here. She liked that I went over to her parents home and cooked them dinner on the first meeting and cleaned up their kitchen. Am I an a$$kisser? Strategically yeah. But that wouldn't have been much good unless I'm genteel, soft spoken and well mannered. My downsides are that I'm also reticent, analytical, observing and demure. But I'm human and I have my faults. I'm also the Godzilla Goat Rabbit. Don't think that being two passive animals means that I don't have sharp horns, lethal front teeth and massive speed to whoop your a$$.

Other than that, I'm just like every other schmuck.

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posted April 15, 2012 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm attracted to kindness, humility and a good sense of humor, which leads me to getting together with people not physically "my type."

After years of the above,
I realized that the romantic notion of a tall, dark and mysterious prince with long wavy black hair is just a stupid idea. I never met my physical "ideal" who also possessed the other 90% of required qualities.

Once I let go of my ideas, I found a man who was the complete package with a glorious red mane and a short but perfect stature (and, of course, all the desired qualities, described above.)

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posted April 15, 2012 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JoJo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm attracted to how a person makes my soul feel when I'm with them. I have dated some of the most physically beautiful men you could hope to lay eyes on, but what was on the inside eventually made the outside ugly. I've also dated men who were averaged on the outside, but their inside was so beautiful that it spilled out and made me weep with joy.

I'm in love with a man who physically isn't my type at all. I even admitted to him that if he'd tried to meet me in a bar, I wouldn't have given him the time of day. But he makes me feel happy in a way I've never felt before and that makes me very physically attracted to him. He becomes more beautiful to me every day.

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