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Topic: I'm attracted to you because---------?
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 08:49 PM
Every meet someone that wasnt really your type? Yet there's that special something about that person that your attracted to?Now Im not really talking about looks, its "something" about that person that just attracts your attention... Can you look at their natal and see if it makes sense.. Maybe something about them that attracts you! I will start.. Fishy... He's not physically my type.. He's short,stocky, no facial hair. His face is as soft as a babies butt.. His eyes are just so deep and dark (love the eyes) Anyways.. He doesnt look like it at all, he looks soft. But as soon as you speak to him, you know he's not. He packs a bunch and Im very attracted to his power and his inner strength... His aura just screams I will take care of you. (which my venus cancer likey) So what in his natal is giving him this power/his strength. He has mars conjunct sun (lil wide 6orbs) He has mars conjunct DSC..
I think this is what Im attracted to about him.. I asked him what he's attracted to about me.. He said your confidence. He told me your confidence is so sexy. He said your the strongest female I have ever met.. He said I have more back bone than some of the male mgrs.. So he's attracted to my Leo Stellium, and all that fire in my chart. So now what are you attracted to?? Why is that person attracted to you??
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Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1678 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 08:55 PM
The last person I was attracted to was just plain desperate and I was simply the only girl who paid attention to him. He's looking to hook up with women from the ages of 21-42....'nuff said. He's probably pathetic enough to wonder why I was attracted to him. So that he could use that knowledge to get laid by others. Haha. I was just going through a Neptune transit thru the 5th and wasn't seeing clearly where romance was concerned that's all. So if he can figure out which girls are having that transit, maybe he'll get some. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 7077 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2012 09:00 PM
O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 09:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars
Sexy huh! Im love the power and the strength. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1678 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 09:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars
Yeah, my ex has that. Decidedly masculine. Unlike some guys with the square.IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 09:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: The last person I was attracted to was just plain desperate and I was simply the only girl who paid attention to him. He's looking to hook up with women from the ages of 21-42....'nuff said. He's probably pathetic enough to wonder why I was attracted to him. So that he could use that knowledge to get laid by others. Haha. I was just going through a Neptune transit thru the 5th and wasn't seeing clearly where romance was concerned that's all. So if he can figure out which girls are having that transit, maybe he'll get some.
SO it was only a transits? There was "something about him that you were attracted to? The way he talked, walked? Anything?? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 09:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lonake: [b]O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars
Yeah, my ex has that. Decidedly masculine & straight. Unlike some guys with the square.[/B][/QUOTE]Yeah with fishy.. His mars in late Aqua conjunct his Sun in late Pisces. He's soft, yet aggressive. Very masculine.. I like this better than Aries Sun's. They are just straight out aggressive.. This is more on the down low, not as in your face, unless it needs to be. He put me on the spot and asked me what I was attracted to about him.. I said your SWAG baby!!! I didnt know what to say.. hehehehe
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Fondue Knight Knowflake Posts: 783 From: NY Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 13, 2012 09:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lonake: [b]O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars
Yeah, my ex has that. Decidedly masculine & straight. Unlike some guys with the square.[/B][/QUOTE]I have Sun conj Mars, except I'm decidedly masculine and gay. On topic, my last ex was sooooo not my type physically. He dressed really flamboyantly... purses and jewelry, etc. He looked like a fricken Stepford wife. But I think I was attracted to his Mars in Aqua; he didn't give a single f about what anyone thought of his get ups. I believe his Mars was conjunct my Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1678 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 09:36 PM
^ok quote: Originally posted by Lioness: SO it was only a transits? There was "something about him that you were attracted to? The way he talked, walked? Anything??
No, the synastry came into play too. I was suppressing certain parts of my psyche, parts that he let dominate in his. I read up on some Jung and it helped me to realize this, and rationalize away "feelings" I thought I had for him. A learning experience. Now I'm trying to embrace these repressed areas of my psyche and integrate them into my consciousness.What did I find attractive? It was so long ago that it's been drowned in all that Neptunian fog. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 3394 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted April 13, 2012 09:52 PM
I like total sweetie pies. Moon in Taurus or Pisces or cancer. Libra Venus. I bet if I check for affinities I will find a few more commonalities with those placements and my partners. None of mine were ever really my type so maybe I am not as shallow as I thot ehehe! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 2958 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 10:10 PM
Awww I feel bad. I never did your compatibility report with Fishy, did I? IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 10:30 PM
No..No worries.. If u ever have time.. It's becoming very intense... It's a very slow process though.. We are going very very slow..... He admitted he's afraid of becoming addicted to me.But he already is.... He just won't admit it yet... We are both addicted to each other. IP: Logged |
starzy54 Knowflake Posts: 388 From: CA Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 10:34 PM
I find my fish's tenderness completely spellbinding.The way he kisses me, just sends me over the moon. I love the way he talks quietly and softly, the gentleness of his eyes and hands.That tender smile. His kind heart is what i love about him, and find so endearing.
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Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1678 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 10:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness:
He admitted he's afraid of becoming addicted to me.
That's bull. He's just stalling because he wants to keep his options open. He must be rolling in dough, or just plain deluded.IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 13, 2012 11:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness: [b] He admitted he's afraid of becoming addicted to me.
That's bull. He's just stalling because he wants to keep his options open. He must be rolling in dough, or just plain deluded.[/B][/QUOTE]I understood what he means by it..... There is a dependency nature to the energy.... I'm afraid of losing myself and being consumed by it... but I guess that's moon/pluto venus/pluto or moon/neptune.... I'm not sure what it is....
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aquaguy91 Knowflake Posts: 1249 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 14, 2012 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: O god I love a man with Sun conj Mars
What about the trine? Lmao I have the trine exact. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 01:56 AM
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 1919 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 02:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: I like total sweetie pies. Moon in Taurus or Pisces or cancer. Libra Venus. I bet if I check for affinities I will find a few more commonalities with those placements and my partners. None of mine were ever really my type so maybe I am not as shallow as I thot ehehe!
Aww moon pisces, venus libra here X] lol Personally I've been attracted to guys with venus or neptune aspected to mercury. I think it makes there voices sound pleasant and soothing, love that :] IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4435 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 15, 2012 02:06 AM
That's, really cool..... I like thatIP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 356 From: Someday in London... Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 02:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Every meet someone that wasnt really your type? Yet there's that special something about that person that your attracted to?Now Im not really talking about looks, its "something" about that person that just attracts your attention... Can you look at their natal and see if it makes sense.. Maybe something about them that attracts you! So now what are you attracted to?? Why is that person attracted to you??
Yes, I met such people but I am the type of person I would NEVER go out with someone I don't like physically. I know, its shallow but whatever. He may be the best man in the world, if I don't feel attracted in any way by him, he doesnt stand a chance. The perfect man doesnt exist but that doesnt mean I have to go out with the one who likes me but I don't like back. No spark, no date. Simple as the daylight.
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Pennylane Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 15, 2012 02:52 AM
Yes! I'm usually attracted to lean, white, hipster (<--for lack of a better word) looking guys. I once had a huge crush on this guy I worked with who was slightly chubby and had very dark features. Not my type at all. But he was so... I don't even know how to explain it! He was hilarious, charming, would unabashedly check me out and was such an aggresive flirt. We had the same birthday, too (but diff year)so that might have had something to do with it IP: Logged |
lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 812 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 08:52 AM
All the guys I am attracted to all have Sun-Mercury conjunction. Interestingly is that I have venus in Gemini, ruler being mercury.. Wonder if it means anything.I like a confident guy with an interesting mind. I am attracted to the mind of a person. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2334 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 09:45 AM
It's tough talking from my standpoint because my wife and all ex-girlfriends are stunning in appearances and I always come off looking like a hypocrite when talking about intellect, values and character. My male friend used to tell me: "yeah. I read Playboy for the articles.". So, I'll discuss from my wife's standpoint. I'm definitely nothing to look at. I've always been a tad overweight even during my prime in the military. But I've always been fit. Any person can look fabulous in nice clothes but apparently my wife likes the conservative businessman look and she remembers me as a first encounter in a navy pinstripe suit. I still have that in my closet. She says she likes that I am respectful, honest, caring and responsible. She likes the ambition and drive to succeed. She likes the diligence. She likes the street smarts, in addition to the education credentials. She likes that I had no qualms standing up to her dad when questioned about my background. I won't fake. She likes the career and paycheck too. We live in the real world here. She liked that I went over to her parents home and cooked them dinner on the first meeting and cleaned up their kitchen. Am I an a$$kisser? Strategically yeah. But that wouldn't have been much good unless I'm genteel, soft spoken and well mannered. My downsides are that I'm also reticent, analytical, observing and demure. But I'm human and I have my faults. I'm also the Godzilla Goat Rabbit. Don't think that being two passive animals means that I don't have sharp horns, lethal front teeth and massive speed to whoop your a$$. Other than that, I'm just like every other schmuck. IP: Logged |
Yin Moderator Posts: 2405 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 15, 2012 10:13 AM
I'm attracted to kindness, humility and a good sense of humor, which leads me to getting together with people not physically "my type."After years of the above, I realized that the romantic notion of a tall, dark and mysterious prince with long wavy black hair is just a stupid idea. I never met my physical "ideal" who also possessed the other 90% of required qualities. Once I let go of my ideas, I found a man who was the complete package with a glorious red mane and a short but perfect stature (and, of course, all the desired qualities, described above.) IP: Logged |
JoJo Knowflake Posts: 266 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 15, 2012 11:10 AM
I'm attracted to how a person makes my soul feel when I'm with them. I have dated some of the most physically beautiful men you could hope to lay eyes on, but what was on the inside eventually made the outside ugly. I've also dated men who were averaged on the outside, but their inside was so beautiful that it spilled out and made me weep with joy. I'm in love with a man who physically isn't my type at all. I even admitted to him that if he'd tried to meet me in a bar, I wouldn't have given him the time of day. But he makes me feel happy in a way I've never felt before and that makes me very physically attracted to him. He becomes more beautiful to me every day. IP: Logged |