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posted April 14, 2012 04:12 PM            

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i've been reading about potentially dangerous aspects in a synastry and im a little obsessed with knowing more as you can see from my posts. So what aspects would be deemed dangerous or violent? as far as i've learnt i can see they usually involve venus and pluto some can be karmic involving saturn and mars.

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posted April 14, 2012 04:23 PM            

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Usually,yes,but the native also has to have hard aspects natally,which can be triggered by synastry.

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posted April 14, 2012 06:06 PM            

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I would say venus-pluto aspects and mars-pluto in syanstry, if it involves all three then even more so. Usually one or both people have it natally though like just mentioned.
I have venus pluto natally and my man has mars pluto natally. In synastry we have venus square pluto and mars sextile pluto, of course he has never raped me, but we Both like rough, agressive sex together, especially him.

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posted April 14, 2012 06:08 PM            

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I think mars and saturn in natal or syanstry involves more general violence than rape in paticular. A man with mars saturn natally can be a real "woman beater".

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posted April 14, 2012 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
I have venus pluto natally and my man has mars pluto natally. In synastry we have venus square pluto and mars sextile pluto, of course he has never raped me, but we Both like rough, agressive sex together, especially him.

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Yea I have Venus sq Pluto & often attract men who have Mars opp my Venus or Pluto. There's mutual attraction but no rape

I see Neptune as more connected to rape from what I've seen. Venus or Mars/Neptune. Venus/Neptune to me is the classic loss of boundaries w.relationships, not seeing things clearly, wanting to believe & having those dreams crushed. Mars/Neptune equates to drugs/alcohol/intoxication, violent sexual fantasies -- so you can see my reasoning here.

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posted April 14, 2012 07:18 PM            

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Your onto something Lonake, mars-neptune in synastry can lead to one person being high/intoxicated and the other person taking advantage/raping them.
Natally they do tend to have violent sexual fantasies, im not sure if they usually act on them, but I believe they fantasize about it definately.

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posted April 14, 2012 07:47 PM            

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Natally they do tend to have violent sexual fantasies, im not sure if they usually act on them, but I believe they fantasize about it definately.

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If it's true what they say - before anything manifests in our lives, it must first be created/fantasized/dreamt up in our minds. Someone who has violent sexual fantasies will for certain find themselves in a real life violent sex scenario.

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posted April 14, 2012 07:53 PM            

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posted April 14, 2012 07:54 PM            

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nessus and dejanira in synastry--very close aspects

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posted April 14, 2012 07:59 PM            

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Ouch, I have nessus square my sun-pluto conj 1*. But you cant ignore pluto and only pay attention to asteroids either, pluto rules crime and the underworld and specifically rape, kidnapping, murder. I have put a lot of study into the astrology of crime and pluto is a Huge significator.

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posted April 14, 2012 08:02 PM            

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Usually,yes,but the native also has to have hard aspects natally,which can be triggered by synastry.

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This.

She has Venus conj Pluto. He has Mars conj Pluto. His Sun opposes her Venus-Pluto. His Mars conj her Venus.

She wanted a relationship with him and was willing to put in the work. But in a sober moment she reflected - a lot of the things he does to me is considered rape.

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posted April 14, 2012 08:36 PM            

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posted April 14, 2012 09:48 PM            

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Peach, I hope u pressed charges against that sicko and I am sorry that that happened to u hon.

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posted April 15, 2012 05:21 AM            

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Moon-Pluto square.

Mars-Pluto square.

Moon-Uranus-Pluto harsh aspects

Moon-Saturn-Pluto harsh aspects.

I always think that Pluto deals with psychological crises. As rape is more psychologically consequential over time, I think this has more to do with Pluto than Mars.

Mars can be something that happens suddenly. Uranus can be something that happens randomly.

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posted May 07, 2012 11:23 PM            

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posted May 08, 2012 06:19 AM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Your onto something Lonake, mars-neptune in synastry can lead to one person being high/intoxicated and the other person taking advantage/raping them.
Natally they do tend to have violent sexual fantasies, im not sure if they usually act on them, but I believe they fantasize about it definately.

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too correct

being one of a rape victim i read your thought on mars - neptune aspect and immediately looked at that f.. man's chart (i know since ... is a relative)
it is so true that i both have mars/neptune opp. aspect nataly and in synastry with him

p.s. in synastry we have pluto square venus too

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posted May 08, 2012 01:51 PM            

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Yes it was probably a combination of the two together and also the fact that it was being played out natally in your own charts.
For rape/sexual abuse in synastry starting from worse im gonna say.
1. venus square/opp pluto
2. mars square/opp pluto
3. mars conj/square/opp neptune
4. moon square/opp pluto
5. sun square/opp pluto

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posted May 08, 2012 03:22 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Your onto something Lonake, mars-neptune in synastry can lead to one person being high/intoxicated and the other person taking advantage/raping them.
Natally they do tend to have violent sexual fantasies, im not sure if they usually act on them, but I believe they fantasize about it definately.

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i had that aspect in my marriage and actually, it was more like a solft, non-animal sex. i guess that if one of the planets is afficted may have to do with acting on the fantasy, but i dont remember that type of fantasy. i was neptune.

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posted May 09, 2012 05:50 AM            

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I had Mars Neptune trine in synastry. Their Mars also opp my Pluto. Heaven.
But their Neptune on my Mars, conj, is not for me. REALLY not for me. Those were actually creepy.

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posted May 09, 2012 10:36 AM            

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Yes, unfortunately I have mars in sag in my natal so any guy who is 8-10 years older than me, their neptune usually closely conj my mars and they always try to take sexual advantage of me in some way. And Lie. Oh boy do they try to lie to me.

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