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Topic: Destined to be a singleton?
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Azakeal
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Belfast
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 06:40 AM
  
Hey guys! Anyone have opinions or insight on chart factors that might suggest no long-term relationships?Im 30 and the longest relationship I've had was 2 years but even that was an on-off one! Ive tried monogamous and open relationships but they both seem to backfire. So Im thinking maybe Im just not meant to settle down? Right now Im just refusing to even date because Im so confused as to what I want (or need?). What's confusing is that my chart has factors that you'd think would point to serious relationships (Venus in Cancer, 5th sextile Saturn in Virgo 7th, Sun conjunct Juno in Virgo, 7th).
Johnny
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T
Knowflake Posts: 7246
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 19, 2012 06:42 AM
Save yourself the trouble and become a hermit.  j/k......... sort of.  IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1954
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 19, 2012 06:47 AM
What is your sun sign,Johnny?IP: Logged |
Azakeal
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Belfast
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 06:49 AM
lol @ T. I was a hermit in my teens! I even had a t-shirt with the hermit tarot card on it!Im Virgo Sun, Aquacheeka (in stellium with Mercury, Saturn, Jupiter and Juno in Virgo 7th). Also should've prob mentioned that my Venus conjuncts Moon and squares Mars in Libra 7th! Johnny
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Faith
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posted April 19, 2012 07:46 AM
So you have moon square Mars? That might be part of it.Also as a Virgo you are probably 1) picky, and 2) attractive. So, no worries, just give it time....with Saturn in your stellium, things may just take a long time. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted April 19, 2012 08:46 AM
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Azakeal
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Belfast
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 09:13 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
So you have moon square Mars? That might be part of it.Also as a Virgo you are probably 1) picky, and 2) attractive. So, no worries, just give it time....with Saturn in your stellium, things may just take a long time.
Thanks Faith! Yeah, I have Moon in Leo 6th but conjunct Venus at the last degrees of Cancer in 5th! So they both square my Mars (Scorpio, 7th). Here's hopin old Saturn has something in store yet! lol
Johnny
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PS I agree I can be picky!
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Azakeal
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: Belfast
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted April 19, 2012 09:43 AM
Thanks so much for your insightful reply RegardesPlatero! There's a lot of wisdom and truth in what you say, which I probably already know but sometimes my Pisces rising just likes to forget it all and dream a little dream! lol I agree there's a lot of pressure on people today to find someone and it creates this idea that you're a failure or that something's inherently wrong with you if no one wants have a relationship with you. I'm not even sure about the idea of marriage anyway! lol I like the idea of meeting someone to share my life with, although I've a lot of friends but of course most of them are settling down/having babies etc. Also agree that I'd rather be single than with the 'wrong person' or in a bad relationship. I ended my last one even though it was lovely and I was treated so well but I just knew deep down it wasn't what I needed. And the most recent (open) one was a disaster! But I'm glad I at least tried it. Johnny
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