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posted May 03, 2012 01:19 AM            

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Hi, so I have been wondering what transits and natal placements are related to affairs. Would affairs be related to Venus as love, or Neptune for illusion? Would the 12th house or 7th house?

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posted May 03, 2012 02:00 AM            

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Uranus/Venus perhaps?

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posted May 03, 2012 02:01 AM            

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5th house rules affairs. Plus I think a person would have to have it nataly as well. Such as, Venus in hard aspect to personal planet AS well as outer planets.

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posted May 03, 2012 02:19 AM            

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Originally posted by 5Gemini:
5th house rules affairs. Plus I think a person would have to have it nataly as well. Such as, Venus in hard aspect to personal planet AS well as outer planets.

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You also think that fears are irrational.

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Originally posted by 5Gemini:
Wow thanks for the info!

Could also be Venus Opposite Uranus. Fears are irrational and mostly to do with the mind, no?

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I fear rattlesnakes because they can kill me.
That's not irrational.

@topic: 5th for shallow affairs that are about having fun. 12th for affairs you find yourself in because deep down you don't believe you're worthy of being openly loved.

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posted May 03, 2012 03:10 AM            

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A don't have definite opinion on fears and phobias, that's why I stated that with a question mark.

Quit breaking my balls

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posted May 03, 2012 03:20 AM            

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Btw I'm sure anybody that comes across a rattle snake will fear it knowing it could do serious harm. Therefore it is an instinctual fear that serves to keep one from harms way. The fears of animals I posted in ANOTHER thread which for some reason u decided to bring into here has to do with more of a fear that has psycholpgical roots.

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posted May 03, 2012 03:37 AM            

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:edit: -wrong thread-

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posted May 03, 2012 03:38 AM            

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posted May 03, 2012 04:14 AM            

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Betty why do you have to bring out the big guns (!)
o' mah lord

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posted May 03, 2012 06:51 AM            

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Personally I would look at 8th house (secrets and sex).

Here is a good analysis of why affairs are 8th house: http://sasstrology.com/2010/04/sex-changes-everything-the-5th-and-8th-houses-of-astrology-part-4-of-a-series.html

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posted May 03, 2012 08:13 AM            

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I don't agree with how you are talking in either thread.
She opened up to try to gain understanding and support. Simply dismissing her phobia and telling her feelings aren't valid is no help. If you comprehended phobias on an "intellectual level" you would know that being hard on her isn't going to make it magically disappear. I promise she's heard it before.

And why in the world anyone would quote ANOTHER thread in this one to undermine her efforts to offer her ideas is beyond me and quite frankly - downright rude. Grow up

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posted May 03, 2012 08:29 AM            

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thank you

kinda was surprised by that subtle attack trynna dismiss my input in this thread like that.

plus for anyone's concern I have been creeping this board for 3/4 years, I already know some people on here are stingy without merit. Frankly, I have come here to learn and offer observational input, if you wanna challenge that, do it! I love banter but I don't like people acting like that!

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posted May 03, 2012 08:17 PM            

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In response to the OP, I started having an affair when transiting Uranus was squaring my Venus.

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posted May 03, 2012 08:20 PM            

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I F**king hate snakes, if you want to make me scream like a little girl bring a snake around me.

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posted May 03, 2012 08:38 PM            

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:edit: nvm...

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posted May 03, 2012 08:40 PM            

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haha Ok Aqua.. Maybe revise the Aussie-vist plans..

jk jk..
You'd never see a snake in the metro areas.

@ Lonake. I don't even have small guns lmao

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posted May 03, 2012 08:42 PM            

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:edit:

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posted May 03, 2012 08:43 PM            

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:edit:

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posted May 03, 2012 08:51 PM            

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Oh Brother!

Ok _ I must apologise.... as I did something incredibly stupid and I was somehow under the impression that I posted this in the "fear of animals" thread.
I think I had both threads open at the same time.

I didn't realise this was the 'affairs' thread.. Capriquarius' post seems like something on the "phobia of animals" thread.

sigh

NVM

I completely understand the confusion now. But I was not attacking anyone.

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posted May 03, 2012 09:06 PM            

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I think there was confusion too because of not addressing posts to members by name, or by quote. It happens.

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posted May 03, 2012 09:10 PM            

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Actually I'll delete the posts.. and put them on the animals thread.

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posted May 03, 2012 09:12 PM            

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I was not addressing you Betty Boop, sorry for the confusion

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posted May 03, 2012 09:14 PM            

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I do realise that now ^ Gemini

It just didn't click that you were annoyed with Capriquarius, because I thought I was on the other thread *face palm* lol

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posted May 03, 2012 09:42 PM            

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haha Ok Aqua.. Maybe revise the Aussie-vist plans..

jk jk..
You'd never see a snake in the metro areas.


@ Lonake. I don't even have small guns lmao

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Haha i couldnt do that,it would break your heart :P

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posted May 03, 2012 10:13 PM            

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I missed all these replies

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