posted May 04, 2012 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by sexyaqua30:

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So don't believe their BS. They may delude themselves and think they're being honest, but their actions and life situation will tell all.

And most guys will choose, not be chosen. If a guy doesn't like you as more than a friend, that won't change unless you somehow get a few points hotter.[/B][/QUOTE]

So my my boyfriend of 2 years is BSing me by being in a committed relationship even though we live together and he's never once gave me an indication that he's unfaithful? I'm confused. O_o

When I say a sag chooses you I mean just that. When they want you as more than a friend or a screw buddy they will literally drain you with attention. They always want to talk, text and make plans with you before anyone else tries to. They will open up to you emotionally. Bring you into their inner circle and let the world know this is my woman while still maintaining an aire of independence. Even the quiet ones possess the hunting attitude towards the woman they perceive as their conquest. You know when a sag wants more because he tells you flat out no guessing.

posted May 04, 2012 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
My advice to your friend would be to not play any games - if she wants a relationship, tell him straight-up - and to not ever, EVER under any circumstances - reveal self-doubt. She's gotta seem super-confident, (he WANTS her to make other guys drool/envious) and she's gotta act like he needs her more than she needs him... even if this is not, strictly speaking, actually true. LOL.

Basically, act like an Aries, but dress like a Scorpio .

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So freaking true

posted May 04, 2012 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Sags....I have a odd habit of attracting them but most of the relationships with them need to be kept at a distant. >_>. Especially Sags with pisces moons or venus....

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I didn't think a Sag sun could have a Pisces venus. But hey, please elaborate more. I dated someone with a Sag sun and a Pisces moon.

posted May 04, 2012 09:47 PM            

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Basically, act like an Aries, but dress like a Scorpio .

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posted May 04, 2012 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
I didn't think a Sag sun could have a Pisces venus. But hey, please elaborate more. I dated someone with a Sag sun and a Pisces moon.

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posted May 04, 2012 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:

I really need to re-read what I type. Sorry I meant mars in pisces. Personally for me Sags with that pisces moon I really don't mesh well with them. Its like extreme passive one moment then Extreme aggressive the next. There just too emotionally needy and indecisive.

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posted May 04, 2012 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
You're fine I see what you mean.
Sagittarius and emotionally needy in the same sentence? lol I thought I'd never see the day. I experienced the passivity and indecisiveness. The Sag was aggressive with wanting to go out, but then...he became curiously passive and "whatever" about everything. I agree with you.

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posted May 05, 2012 01:04 AM            

I'm dating a Sag right now, and have dated one in the past. They are quite different, but both definitely have their own lives and like you to be doing the same. And then they pounce you whenever they see you. :P

If they like you more than a sexual partner or a friend, they will invite you almost everywhere with no hesitation. I've already been invited to meet my guy's family and friends a couple of times after just one month of dating. Me being me, I said no, because I'm really not ready yet.

The sag I'm dating now is a lot more romantic than you'd think a he would be, but his fifth is ruled by Taurus and his Venus is in Scorpio He also has mars in Capricorn. So he's very sensual and he likes courting. I'm not so much into that (to an extent), so it's a lot more playful than maybe he'd normally be dating someone else. My fifth is ruled by Gemini, mercury in Scorpio. My ex has his fifth in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Cap in the fifth as well. His Venus and Mars were both in Aqua. He was a lot more "friendly" and our relationship was a lot less emotionally involved. When I was with him, it was a lot more like being with a friend. He invited me to do things with his friends all the time. More so than the time we spent alone together. Got annoying after awhile.

posted May 05, 2012 01:38 AM              

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And then they pounce you whenever they see you. :P

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posted May 05, 2012 02:31 AM            

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[QUOTE] Just look at how their ruling deity, Zeus, behaved.

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As opposed to Mars, the god of war, who was said to be a murderous coward?

Or maybe Venus who caused the Trojan war, because she wanted a mortal to tell her she was pretty?

Or Mercury who presented Pandora with the box and then told her she could never open it?

Or Apollo (Sun) who immortalized Corvus as a constellation and placed Hydra Between Corvus and Crater (the cup constellation) to keep Corvus in perpetual thirst?

Or Selene (Moon) who fell in love with a sleeping mortal, so had him put to sleep for eternity and proceeded to play with his mind and rape him repeatedly?

Or Saturn, who juuuust couldn't seem to shake the urge to eat his kids?

Or Uranus, who repeatedly had sex with Gaia and whenever she birthed a child he didn't like, he shoved it back inside her?

Or Neptune who would cause earthquakes and ship wrecks any time he got mad?

Or perhaps Pluto who abducted Persephone in a fit of lustful pedophilia?

Yeah, that Zeus sure did stand out with all his bad behavior...

I'm glad to hear Sag is crossed off your list. It sounds as though you should have never attempted a relationship with one in the first place.

posted May 05, 2012 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
You're fine I see what you mean.
Sagittarius and emotionally needy in the same sentence? lol I thought I'd never see the day. I experienced the passivity and indecisiveness. The Sag was aggressive with wanting to go out, but then...he became curiously passive and "whatever" about everything. I agree with you.

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I didn't experience this because it's a sun-moon conjunction with my Sag. If it were a square he'd be a lot more indecisive/unsure of what he wants. I find this with all sun/moon square or opposition people. They seem so in love one day and dumping the next.

posted May 05, 2012 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
And then they pounce you whenever they see you. :P

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HA!! I WISH!! Mine's sex drive died with the novelty of the relationship, sadly Not much after the end of year 1. Very faithful and honest, though.

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
If they like you more than a sexual partner or a friend, they will invite you almost everywhere with no hesitation. I've already been invited to meet my guy's family and friends a couple of times after just one month of dating. Me being me, I said no, because I'm really not ready yet.

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posted May 05, 2012 08:01 PM            

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I'm glad to hear Sag is crossed off your list. It sounds as though you should have never attempted a relationship with one in the first place.

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lol!

posted May 05, 2012 11:49 PM            

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I didn't experience this because it's a sun-moon conjunction with my Sag. If it were a square he'd be a lot more indecisive/unsure of what he wants. I find this with all sun/moon square or opposition people. They seem so in love one day and dumping the next.

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Yeh, if his sun is conjunct his moon then he's a guy who knows EXACTLY what he wants. Also, the Sag with the Pisces moon, his Sun and moon didn't actually contact each other,I think his moon was on the Aries cusp which is why. His sun was actually the only planet w/o an aspect so I wonder if that could also be an indecisive aspect. But I do know what you mean, having a Sun/Moon square myself.

posted May 06, 2012 09:56 AM            

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As opposed to Mars, the god of war, who was said to be a murderous coward?

Or maybe Venus who caused the Trojan war, because she wanted a mortal to tell her she was pretty?

Or Mercury who presented Pandora with the box and then told her she could never open it?

Or Apollo (Sun) who immortalized Corvus as a constellation and placed Hydra Between Corvus and Crater (the cup constellation) to keep Corvus in perpetual thirst?

Or Selene (Moon) who fell in love with a sleeping mortal, so had him put to sleep for eternity and proceeded to play with his mind and rape him repeatedly?

Or Saturn, who juuuust couldn't seem to shake the urge to eat his kids?

Or Uranus, who repeatedly had sex with Gaia and whenever she birthed a child he didn't like, he shoved it back inside her?

Or Neptune who would cause earthquakes and ship wrecks any time he got mad?

Or perhaps Pluto who abducted Persephone in a fit of lustful pedophilia?

Yeah, that Zeus sure did stand out with all his bad behavior...

I'm glad to hear Sag is crossed off your list. It sounds as though you should have never attempted a relationship with one in the first place.

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posted May 06, 2012 09:57 AM            

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I find it ridiculous to throw a blanket assessment. I know two Saggie men. One is a late Saggie, as in late teens December, and he is extremely Capricorn like. Serious, committed, headstrong and conscientious. The other one is a late November and he's a drunk womanizing fun-loving bum with no life plans. Always criticizes me for being boring. Guess which one I can relate to.

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I see what you are saying here...but in a way, isn't this an indirect generalization...or...an implication about two decantes of Sagittarius based of your experiences?

Based on this, what I might think is that late December Sags (perhaps because they are closer to Capricorn) are more grounded and perhaps even more serious in relationships compared to earlier Sags (even though close the Scorpio Cusp). So, even though you aren't saying this directly, it sort of seems like you are implying that...or maybe I'm inferring it (and perhaps others as well). Idk. We all do this on some level. I think the generalizations can be more or less specific, but we all do it regardless of whether or not it is even based on our experiences.

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Just like any sign, Sagittarians come in all shapes and sizes and just like any sign, overwhelmingly negative reports tend to come from those who have not had the opportunity or interest in a closer assessment.

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Yes!

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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:

When they want you as more than a friend or a screw buddy they will literally drain you with attention. They always want to talk, text and make plans with you before anyone else tries to. They will open up to you emotionally. Bring you into their inner circle and let the world know this is my woman while still maintaining an aire of independence. Even the quiet ones possess the hunting attitude towards the woman they perceive as their conquest. You know when a sag wants more because he tells you flat out no guessing.

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Nice!

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Yeh, if his sun is conjunct his moon then he's a guy who knows EXACTLY what he wants.

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posted May 06, 2012 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
Why bother responding? I don't think it will accomplish much (though, you know how much I enjoy your writing).

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With so much Aries influence it takes effort to neglect my combative nature, once ignorant crap eschews forth from the minds of trolls. Everything else in my being agrees there is no point in responding, and this time I would have avoided responding, but I couldn't pass up talking trash about the gods. They were all so sublimely dysfunctional. =D

posted May 06, 2012 02:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

This is very true. They want a best friend in a girlfriend, not just a girl to shut up and look pretty. They want your company, they want your respect, they want your opinions.

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Yeah, definitely. Yesterday the Sagittarius told me he loves that I am intellectually curious and able to hold my own in any conversation. I am not scared of my beliefs. I can stand up for myself well and love a good debate. Although I am not in any way threatening, lol. Pisces mars here.

I am pretty laid-back when it comes to my partner. I let my partner do whatever he wants, within reason. I mean, the way I look at it is, he's a person, the fact that he/she is your partner comes after that. I don't particularly like the way my Sagittarius dresses . . . and he has a few other quirks that annoy me. But they're what makes him *him* and they are basically harmless. I think Sagittarians appreciate your ability to allow them independence in many areas. They respect that you're confident enough not to control them and respect them for who they are. On top of just my experiences dating Sagittarians, like I said, I am one, and that's definitely how I feel. You cannot tell a Sag what to do.