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Topic: SAGITTARIUS MEN
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peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 03:02 PM
  
My friend just got this Sag guy's number she has been crushing on. Naturally - I had her get his birthday and I made a noon chart. Sag Sun
Moon is in late degrees of Aquarius at 12 noon
Could be a Pisces moon
Cap Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Libra Mars Anything you can tell me about how she can win over this Sag Sun (Either Aqua or Pisces moon)? PS shes a Cap Sun, Sag Moon, Aqua Merc, Sag Venus, Aries Mars, Gem Rising
ANY INSIGHT AT ALL WE'LL APPRECIATE EDIT: There is no point to bash Sag Men here. Please advice only. If it were for me.. I would want to hear it, but I have a Leo sun and Taurus moon so I like commitment. Please keep in mind what everyone wants out of a relationship is subjective. It is okay if a Sagittarius man isnt right for you. She happens to get on with them. IP: Logged |
cappy1277
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posted May 04, 2012 03:05 PM
what's her natal and do you mean capricorn mercury?IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 03:16 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
what's her natal and do you mean capricorn mercury?
Haha whoops. I edited it. We can post her whole chart when I get home but I added in the stuff I know off the top of my head. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 04, 2012 03:22 PM
I'd be a little concerned if it's a moon square.Ime, these people are extremely restless in relationships. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I'd be a little concerned if it's a moon square.Ime, these people are extremely restless in relationships.
Haha I have the sun sq moon Actually so does her best guy friend so she loves us squares IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted May 04, 2012 03:59 PM
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how she can win over this Sag Sun
I always seem to attract Saggy guys, maybe because my sun is in aries ... but I've been once with a saggy guy having an aqua moon, we weren't dating at all ;just working together. However he seemed very interested in nearly anything I say or do ( but again maybe my ASC is in aqua ) so I asked him what he likes about me and he said :
I'm very intellectual
I'm sponatnous
I never bore him
I'm extremely independent and he hates girls who are always whining and can't stay away from him
And he also loves it when I'm having a bad day and still laugh hysterically Another Saggy guy told me: "you know what I like about you ? I ask you how are you doing and you answer " baaad " and then laugh out loud " .
Saggy guys love happy women, a woman with a sunny personality can easily gets their attention... remember they are always seeking something so they will never slow down to observe and babysit people ... the woman has to be very sunny and flashy enough to grab their attention while they are walking by fast.
Another thing is; the leadership qualities since she's a Cappy sun with an Aries Mars that would be easy for her to master... they will love to have a strong woman assisting them in their causes and goals Hope I helped  IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 04:10 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I always seem to attract Saggy guys, maybe because my sun is in aries ... but I've been once with a saggy guy having an aqua moon, we weren't dating at all ;just working together. However he seemed very interested in nearly anything I say or do ( but again maybe my ASC is in aqua ) so I asked him what he likes about me and he said :
I'm very intellectual
I'm sponatnous
I never bore him
I'm extremely independent and he hates girls who are always whining and can't stay away from him
And he also loves it when I'm having a bad day and still laugh hystericallyAnother Saggy guy told me: "you know what I like about you ? I ask you how are you doing and you answer " baaad " and then laugh out loud " .
Saggy guys love happy women, a woman with a sunny personality can easily gets their attention... remember they are always seeking something so they will never slow down to observe and babysit people ... the woman has to be very sunny and flashy enough to grab their attention while they are walking by fast.
Another thing is; the leadership qualities since she's a Cappy sun with an Aries Mars that would be easy for her to master... they will love to have a strong woman assisting them in their causes and goals Hope I helped
This was so informative! Thank you, Vicky. A big help for sure
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Capriquarius
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posted May 04, 2012 04:19 PM
Sounds like lousy bf material. They make good friends though...not a sign to be taken seriously, because they take nothing too seriously......not you, not even themselves.IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Sounds like lousy bf material. They make good friends though...not a sign to be taken seriously, because they take nothing too seriously......not you, not even themselves.
Haha my sag friend was like that but now she's living with a guy. It can't be bad across the board, can it? Also my best friend is not that serious. She can date "for fun". She's got that sag moon and Venus IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted May 04, 2012 04:31 PM
Sag women are VERY different from Sag men. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 04:37 PM
I have a very good sag male friend who is gay IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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posted May 04, 2012 04:43 PM
You don't choose a sag sun they choose you. If he tells her he's not ready for anything serious tell her to leave IMMEDIATELY. I'm in a committed relationship with a sag sun and he told me straight up he's looking for a serious relationship and nothing less. The sag I dated before him told me upfront he was not ready for anything serious and I thought if I was laid back and waited that he'd change his mind. No he meant exactly what he said. They're very straight forward and brutally honest at times. Not the most romantic but expresses love and feelings through things they do for you unless of course his chart is watered down.
Win him over being independent, outgoing, caring especially towards others and don't just be a yes person stand up to him sometimes. Also be straight up with him if you're playing games he'll see right through them.
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Melodie
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posted May 04, 2012 05:19 PM
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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
Win him over being independent, outgoing, caring especially towards others and don't just be a yes person stand up to him sometimes. Also be straight up with him if you're playing games he'll see right through them.
I agree.Don't know any guys with Sag Suns, but do know a few with that Moon, Venus, and/or Mars placement. They love outgoing, down-to-earth, strong, and honest girls. Negativity drains them out (but this can apply to anyone). Your friend seems to fit the bill. Just be herself! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 04, 2012 05:24 PM
I find it ridiculous to throw a blanket assessment. I know two Saggie men. One is a late Saggie, as in late teens December, and he is extremely Capricorn like. Serious, committed, headstrong and conscientious. The other one is a late November and he's a drunk womanizing fun-loving bum with no life plans. Always criticizes me for being boring. Guess which one I can relate to. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted May 04, 2012 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
You don't choose a sag sun they choose you. If he tells her he's not ready for anything serious tell her to leave IMMEDIATELY. I'm in a committed relationship with a sag sun and he told me straight up he's looking for a serious relationship and nothing less. The sag I dated before him told me upfront he was not ready for anything serious and I thought if I was laid back and waited that he'd change his mind. No he meant exactly what he said. They're very straight forward and brutally honest at times. Not the most romantic but expresses love and feelings through things they do for you unless of course his chart is watered down.
I dated two. The first one claimed he wanted a serious relationship. Uh no he didn't. The second one puts up dating profiles (he is addicted to the illusion of limitless possibilities that online dating seems to offer) claiming he's looking for a relationship, but when you see "21-42" as the desired age range, you know he's desperate to rack up numbers. Especially when he isn't financially fit for a relationship by most women's standards.So don't believe their BS. They may delude themselves and think they're being honest, but their actions and life situation will tell all. And most guys will choose, not be chosen. If a guy doesn't like you as more than a friend, that won't change unless you somehow get a few points hotter.
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peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 05:59 PM
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And most guys will choose, not be chosen. If a guy doesn't like you as more than a friend, that won't change unless you somehow get a few points hotter.
Oh my best friend is beautiful. He's 28. She's 23. And up until today he was her teacher. Today they went out for a drink. I'm a Leo. So I usually choose. I usually don't like guys who come onto me first. Seriously... like never. Every serious or casual thing I was in... I made the first move. I have to think it's my idea. Duno if this goes for all Leos or its bc my Taurus moon/Scorpio rising.
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Desiring Shadows
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posted May 04, 2012 06:15 PM
Basing on the signs alone, cap and aqua have pretty good compatibility. I think these could work. ------------
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted May 04, 2012 06:29 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I'm a Leo. So I usually choose. I usually don't like guys who come onto me first. Seriously... like never. Every serious or casual thing I was in... I made the first move. I have to think it's my idea. Duno if this goes for all Leos or its bc my Taurus moon/Scorpio rising.
I don't know either but its also true for my Leo wife. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 06:32 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I don't know either but its also true for my Leo wife.
I love that pretty little wife of yours, YTA. At least going on what I've read IP: Logged |
Xiiro
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posted May 04, 2012 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
So don't believe their BS. They may delude themselves and think they're being honest, but their actions and life situation will tell all.[/QUOTE]That's a pretty strong statement to make regarding the masses of Sagittarian men in the world. I'm a Sag Sun, and nothing like the people you describe. I also happen to have a similar chart to the guy in question. Sun Sag
Moon Virgo (square also, but in the opposite direction)
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Scorpio
I have Sagittarian friends who maintain long-term committed relationships, and others who like to "rack up numbers", but the only difference between the two is the committed ones found someone worth investing in full-time. Statements like Sag is "not a sign to be taken seriously, because they take nothing too seriously......not you, not even themselves" are misleading, especially to anyone who is asking questions about a Sag with Venus in Scorpio (for example). Just like any sign, Sagittarians come in all shapes and sizes and just like any sign, overwhelmingly negative reports tend to come from those who have not had the opportunity or interest in a closer assessment. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 04, 2012 07:42 PM
Personally speaking, I'm not sure that I would be open to dating a non-Sagittarius man in the future if god forbid my boyfriend and I were to break up.
Once you've had the best it's hard to go back, you know?
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Aquacheeka
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posted May 04, 2012 07:43 PM
They're just wittier, funnier, more manly/guys' guy, less annoying and more authentic and unapologetic about who they are than other men. Also, they're sweet and affectionate, but not emo. I hate emo.You just have to not care about getting married and you're pretty much good to go with these guys. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 04, 2012 07:49 PM
My advice to your friend would be to not play any games - if she wants a relationship, tell him straight-up - and to not ever, EVER under any circumstances - reveal self-doubt. She's gotta seem super-confident, (he WANTS her to make other guys drool/envious) and she's gotta act like he needs her more than she needs him... even if this is not, strictly speaking, actually true. LOL.Basically, act like an Aries, but dress like a Scorpio  . IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted May 04, 2012 07:56 PM
It could be just me but it seems as though a Sagittarius man will be hard on you/less attracted if you even as much as hint that you have any (basic) shortcomings. but I generally agree about being cheerful and intelligent and stuff just going by Sag men I know. Wit will take you FAR. Just tell your friend to be herself, and try not to put on any fronts. That's the easiest way to get someone, or know what they're about.
BTW, through my astrology internet research, I've known a handful of Capricorn sun Sag moon ladies who have snagged a Sag. I think it can work, especially if he is a December Sag. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted May 04, 2012 08:01 PM
He is! Thanks for your help guys IP: Logged |
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