posted August 02, 2013 12:58 AM              

Here's some aesthetics I like, and people I would bang regularly that are not exceptionally good looking but are still pretty bangable imo.
It's mostly synastry, I think?

posted August 02, 2013 08:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Hiya!

Basically I am curious about what you or other you know find visually pleasing and the placements behind it.

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posted August 02, 2013 08:46 AM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
I don't think we all would see pain in the same eyes. I should have said "If I personally see pain in their eyes."

It's like the beauty is in the eye of the beholder thing, we're all seeing something different.

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I like tormented souls too. Must have some sort of psychiatric illness (not kidding, I find schizophrenics hot), a very disturbing past, issues with trusting women again, bad childhoods, sexual abuse etc.

posted August 02, 2013 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I'm saturn dominated, and I guess that's why I like men with slim, lithe, sinewy body. Average height. Dark hair dark eyes. Taurus mars trine ascendant, oppose scorp pluto and aries moon - I like active men and I secretly like "displays" of physical strength :">

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posted August 02, 2013 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
^I saw him, Cappy. He is YUMM in my book, too.

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I just hope he gets his fuller face back. It's too slim now for my taste.

posted August 02, 2013 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
You've got Mars opp Pluto, too, Muddy?

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yeah I do (-_-!) you have harsh aspects between mars and pluto n saturn, right?

lol talk about encountering aggressive random strangers.

posted August 02, 2013 09:04 AM            

In general, I would say that I'm attracted to a wide-array of men with greatly different features. The most common denominators, though, would have to be:
1.) Tall. I really, really, REALLY like a guy that's over 6'2".
2.) Well-built legs. I hate a man with chicken legs. Biggest turn off for me.
3.) A guy that's all natural - I hate excessive hair product, dyed hair, shaving/waxing parts of the body that don't need it, tattoos, piercings (although, I can deal with ears).

Not physical, but just for good measure:
4.) I really need a guy that will stimulate me mentally. I could never date a guy that didn't. I would never get turned on if he wasn't able to keep me mentally interested.
5.) Very masculine, but not macho. I like guys that are real mens' men (lol, waddup grammar). Like all guys that are into sports, cars, beer, and all that sort of stuff (that I'm not), but don't have anything to prove by being into that sort of stuff.
5.) On a purely superficial level, I will say that I have a serious weakness for preppy boys. hahahaha

posted August 02, 2013 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
yeah I do (-_-!) you have harsh aspects between mars and pluto n saturn, right?

lol talk about encountering aggressive random strangers.

do you like darkly handsome men who seem a bit "dangerous"?

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posted August 02, 2013 10:11 AM            

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Originally posted by nove731:
I sat down to start typing this thinking it would be sort of easy, and then realized that was a load of wank (must be that Moon square Venus, yikes).

In general, I would say that I'm attracted to a wide-array of men with greatly different features. The most common denominators, though, would have to be:
1.) Tall. I really, really, REALLY like a guy that's over 6'2".
2.) Well-built legs. I hate a man with chicken legs. Biggest turn off for me.
3.) A guy that's all natural - I hate excessive hair product, dyed hair, shaving/waxing parts of the body that don't need it, tattoos, piercings (although, I can deal with ears).

Not physical, but just for good measure:
4.) I really need a guy that will stimulate me mentally. I could never date a guy that didn't. I would never get turned on if he wasn't able to keep me mentally interested.
5.) Very masculine, but not macho. I like guys that are real mens' men (lol, waddup grammar). Like all guys that are into sports, cars, beer, and all that sort of stuff (that I'm not), but don't have anything to prove by being into that sort of stuff.
5.) On a purely superficial level, I will say that I have a serious weakness for preppy boys. hahahaha

Sun in Aries (8th House)
Moon in Sagittarius (3rd House)
Venus in Pisces (6th House)
Aquarius in Mars (5th House)
Capricorn 5th House
Pisces Descendant
Aries 8th House

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That sounds good to me! LMAO re: chicken legs ! I dated them, not so bad. Also I'm not that particular about height. I've dated mostly tall guys, but also dudes shorter than me. I would still prefer that he's at least taller than 5'5". I agree with the rest! *nods*

posted August 02, 2013 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
That sounds good to me! LMAO re: chicken legs ! I dated them, not so bad. Also I'm not that particular about height. I've dated mostly tall guys, but also dudes shorter than me. I would still prefer that he's at least taller than 5'5". I agree with the rest! *nods*

I'm Aries Sun with Sag Moon, too!

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Ugh, the last guy that I dated was 5'8" (and only just, at that), and that was kind of rough for me. Lots of...neck pain, hahaha (I'm 5'11").

And yeah, I dunno why the chicken leg thing bothers me so much...He can have arms like pythons and pecs like bricks, but if his legs are scrawny, NO THANKS.

posted August 02, 2013 10:42 AM            

It is a nice combo, isn't it?

posted August 04, 2013 08:22 PM            

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Hera: Lol well I'm only 5'4" so anything above that is okay.

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posted August 04, 2013 09:20 PM            

Sun signs for the 4 of them: Capricorn, Aquarius, Scorpio, Taurus

I guess my physical preferences fit my chart pattern haha.

posted August 05, 2013 07:27 AM            

What signs are your Venus and Mars? I've looked at pics of the people you mentioned, I don't find them attractive so I guess we're on different tastes.

What???

But I guess, different strokes for different folks.

My attractions are so overarching at times that its difficult to box them. But I can say that, consistently, the thick lips, thickness of physique and fullness of buttocks. That's where the isht is.

My Venus is in Scorpio(conjunct Saturn and Pluto)

posted August 05, 2013 11:53 AM            

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Short height – the only thing that is a possible deal breaker
Bad hair or no hair – I despise buzz cuts. I like long hair but if it’s greasy and unkempt that causes severe repulsion in me
Extreme body type – too muscular, too overweight or too skinny
Facial hair
Abundance of piercings
Abundance of tattoos
Too masculine or too feminine

For preferences I like tall height, nice hair (regardless of length or texture, I slightly prefer dark hair over light hair) and a nice face. I don’t care about body types as long as it’s not extreme like mentioned above. I will always prefer a nice face over a nice body. I like lighter skin as well.

Gemini ASC
Sagittarius DSC (Scorpio Jupiter 6H)
Scorpio Sun 6H
Scorpio Venus 6H
Leo Mars 4H

posted August 05, 2013 03:35 PM            

The ice queen look, with severe contrasts and makeup, is a turn off for me. Ditto for goth and punk. I don't like facial piercings or spiky hair.

I'm attracted to feminine curves -- chest, small waist, wide hips, thighs and calves.

I like women with "average" or moderate, healthy weight. I don't like really skinny or big, overweight figures. My previous girlfriend was a little overweight, but I thought she had a nice waist, and nice hips.

I appreciate women that dress well. Flattering sweaters, blouses and dresses. Heels. Stockings. I don't care for t-shirts, and I loathe flip-flops. Pajama pants in public? Please, go away. To me, that just screams that the person doesn't care about their appearance at all. The clothes don't need to be expensive or flashy or revealing. I just like it when a woman wears clothes that clearly show that she's a woman.

People that seem to have poor hygiene or that just look sloppy are a turn-off.

It's not just appearance, and it's not just attire, either -- I think most people would agree that attitude and facial expression or demeanor play a role in attractiveness, too. An angry or haughty, standoffish woman in a suit or a nice dress? No thanks. A cute, sweet-looking, smiling woman in the same suit or dress? Sold! (Note to self: SMILE MORE!)

A woman's face and demeanor matters to me a little more than their figure or clothes, but I'm usually only attracted if all of those things are close to my preferences.

I like women's scent (clean), and I like a little bit of perfume -- excuse me, ma'am? Yes ma'am, I like your long raven hair, and that flattering brown dress and your matching heels. Can you come here for a minute? I just need to hold you from behind and nuzzle my face into the crook of your neck for a while and breathe you in. That would be great. Thanks.

I guess I'm picky.

Placements:
Sun in Scorpio conjunct Mercury, Saturn and Pluto.
Venus and Mars conjunct in Virgo, in the 8th house.
Capricorn Ascendant/Rising; Descendant in Cancer.

I'm not sure what other placements would be relevant to the original question.

posted August 05, 2013 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
I have a major fetish for suits for some reason...

Totally have a thing for drummers lol.

I have Adonis in Scorpio in the 9th, conjunct Saturn (chart ruler). So that goes for dark, mysterious, deep looking men, looking smart with a goofy streak.

Mars tells a different story. Conj Mercury: I actually have a thing for nerds, and I don't mean only sexy nerds, but even the weird looking ones too; my first love ever was the class nerd; in all the movies I fall for the IT nerd not the main character.

I like a bit of softness, passivity, shyness in a guy. Dreamy look too. I attracted a lot of crazies and admit I do fall for dudes with a messed up past or who look troubled in some way (I believe it gives them character and depth haha)

I like tormented souls too. Must have some sort of psychiatric illness (not kidding, I find schizophrenics hot), a very disturbing past, issues with trusting women again, bad childhoods, sexual abuse etc.

I do like a guy with depth that comes from some sort of psychological conflict that he is either facing or has overcome (also would like to think that I'm over the concept of trying to fix someone and allow them to get the
professional help they need - elsewhere). Dark brooding types, yes. People who breathe life intensely and like to live on the edge in some sort of way (if it's sex, it's perfect!).

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Wow. So you're probably attracted to... me. Rather specifically.

I don't even know what to say right now. I feel like I should either avoid you
at all costs, or I need to post a photo of myself wearing a suit and playing my drumset, and then I might need to move to the Mediterranean.

I'm trying to understand how you, with an Aries Sun, have that particular set of preferences. I thought Aries were gung-go, dive right in types, and they generally liked similar people. I guess that just goes to show how much the rest of our charts matter.

posted August 05, 2013 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
You and MsPrism oh my...I tower over you two.

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Hahaha I know I know!

Now I'm trying to figure out who would win in a battle to the death between me and Hera!