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Topic: Capricorn and Capricorn?
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 06, 2012 11:11 PM
Im a capricorn and im wondering what its like to be with another capricorn in a romantic relationship. I hardly meet capricorn males! So i'd like to know your experiences! Secondhand experience knowledge is welcome ------------------ I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity.-Poe If the truth is relative then there's nothing that is really true. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 06, 2012 11:20 PM
boy oh boy...i just got out of a two year relationship with a cappy man. PROS: There is a silent understanding. You both want the same things and are going the same places. Passionate, caring and protective men when they want to be. CONS: Mean b****y and melancholy Work takes precedence over all things and it is hard for two caps to coordinate time together. Do not like to be questioned about certain things Is the quintessential alpha male (PRO, too depending on the situation) Can be passive aggressive Will give you hidden tests Women will chase them and cater to their egos Sorry my list of pros is so short...it really was a wonderful relationship and I considered him to be my best friend. He was always there when I needed him, in person or to talk. But some cappy men have a habit of putting you into categories and depending on which one, you have certain "privileges" in the relationship...not to say this is all capricorn men, just the one I was with. It also depends on other aspects and placements as well. IP: Logged |
freedomlover Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Brasil Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 06, 2012 11:21 PM
my first serious relationship was with another capricorn.. im a 18 Jan she was 12, both 93, both born in Germany, we met in Brasil.. it was an intense relation since there were lots of conjunctions! her saturn conj my ac since i have saturn conj ac.. it was a good relation since our suns were conj, we understood eachother , but there were some other aspects too like her moon opp my venus.. it lasted 2 years tought IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1836 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 06, 2012 11:23 PM
If you reallie reallie wanna meet one, try going to a nerdfest. Like a Star Wars convention or Comic Con. Oh and they will probably remind you of your Daddy, if u iz a Cap!! quote: But some cappy men have a habit of putting you into categories and depending on which one, you have certain "privileges" in the relationship.
Same with Cap Venus, I've seen three of them in action, at a non-superficial level...they are like this and are also hypergamous, in accordance to their income/net worthIP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 06, 2012 11:30 PM
yes..they like to play like they are your daddy...lol. What to wear, scold you for bad decisions, etc. I remember doing a disappearing act and coming back scared because I know I was going to be "scolded." It really was a feeling of dread like when you were a kid and did something wrong & just trying to get it over with....lol It was a great passionate love affair and I have much love for him...sigh IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 06, 2012 11:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: [QUOTE] But some cappy men have a habit of putting you into categories and depending on which one, you have certain "privileges" in the relationship.
Same with Cap Venus, I've seen three of them in action, at a non-superficial level...they are like this and are also hypergamous, in accordance to their income/net worthtrue true...also the caps that I have dealt with or seen in action like to have more than one woman in their life...one plays the wifey part and the other the mistress.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2604 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 06, 2012 11:40 PM
I had lots of good former relationships with Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo women. Common understanding and shared objectives helps a lot. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 06, 2012 11:43 PM
YTA- you're the capricorn man they all write about when we google capricorn men...lol. Always highlights the positive and you have proven it by the love and devotion of your family. these immature cappy men need to take notes IP: Logged |
Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1836 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 06, 2012 11:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: yes..they like to play like they are your daddy...lol. What to wear, scold you for bad decisions, etc.
They would remind a Cap girl of her Daddy because the Sun's sign and position in the natal reflects the image the native had of its father.:/
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 7586 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 07, 2012 12:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: yes..they like to play like they are your daddy...lol. What to wear, scold you for bad decisions, etc.
Sun conj Saturn guy did this to me. Nightmare.
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 12:44 AM
bleh sounds kinda bleh so far! haha. The cap guys i knew were all kinda quiet. Also! Does this go for girls too??? Like cap venus girls act that way or cap girls just being like a parent figure?IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 12:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: [QUOTE]Originally posted by cappy1277: [b]yes..they like to play like they are your daddy...lol. What to wear, scold you for bad decisions, etc.
Sun conj Saturn guy did this to me. Nightmare.[/B][/QUOTE]Ahh thats a good point bout the saturn aspect!
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cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 07, 2012 12:53 AM
I personally think that two capricorns make a wonderful couple if you can get beyond the ego and assume the position to accept his patriarchal rule. I do not mind conceding to a strong confident capable capricorn man, they are usually that type. I know I am a parental figure...but more of the nurturing type- not the nag. I will make sure that you have eaten a home cooked meal, take care of you while you are sick, pick up after you if need be and stick by you through thick and thin. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 07, 2012 12:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by L0veLess: bleh sounds kinda bleh so far! haha. The cap guys i knew were all kinda quiet. Also! Does this go for girls too??? Like cap venus girls act that way or cap girls just being like a parent figure?
It's not going to be the most exciting relationship...lol. If you are done having your fun and looking forward spending time with someone who is more stable but the strong but silent type, the cap man would be up your alley. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 01:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: It's not going to be the most exciting relationship...lol. If you are done having your fun and looking forward spending time with someone who is more stable but the strong but silent type, the cap man would be up your alley.
done with FUN!?!!? never! i want fun and stable! which sign would that man be?
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cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 07, 2012 02:12 AM
Depending on what your synastry & natal placements are, I don't see why you wouldn't actually be able to have fun?My cap & I would hang out occasionally, attend his parties, get drunk together & hang with friends. But on the flip side, I could walk in, he'll be in his office & I will go watch TV in bed. Say a few words and then we go to sleep. Caps are just very serious people & its business before pleasure. If you're a younger cap there may be more room for fun because you may not have the extra responsibility such as kids & work. We are older....mid to late 30's. I'm a single mom & go to college- he runs 2 businesses. We would try to get quality time in. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 7586 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 07, 2012 02:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by L0veLess: Also! Does this go for girls too??? Like cap venus girls act that way or cap girls just being like a parent figure?
Hmmm haha. I like taking care of them so if that counts.
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L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 03:53 AM
cappy: ahh i guess im just lazy -_- yea im sure if i was with a guy it would be because we had fun and the synastry would say so! so i guess that isnt sooo big a deal! Lonake: yes yu count! I have venus in cap too! I wouldnt call myself parental though. Im just an anxious person. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 03:54 AM
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2604 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 05:31 AM
Thank you, Cappy1227.I do pity the poor children of a twin cappy couple IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 1269 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 08:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: If you reallie reallie wanna meet one, try going to a nerdfest. Like a Star Wars convention or Comic Con.
I just about died laughing at this. But yeah, my first boyfriend was a Capricorn and just like cappy1277 said, one problem was the other girls working at his ego.
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Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1042 From: Toronto, Canada Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 07, 2012 08:43 AM
My most supportive friend is a Cap and she's madly in love with another Cap.This is a VERY BIG DEAL because her pickiness prior to meeting him could rival any Virgo's. This is him: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oaln3u0cyys Needless to say, not just any guy would do. He had to be refined and ambitious beyond the norm for a guy her age .
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cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 987 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 07, 2012 08:45 AM
Lol @YTA! Poor dears...@ Faith I'm good at the death stare w/ a smile lol....a Capricorn man isnt any good for an insecure female. You have to be very confident of yourself & strong. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1042 From: Toronto, Canada Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 07, 2012 08:45 AM
They're the richest young couple I know.IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 1269 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 07, 2012 08:49 AM
Aquacheeka, I liked that video! He's got such a Capricorn sweater on. IP: Logged |