posted May 16, 2012 04:45 PM            

So I'm asking myself, "What is the absolute reason for me to seek relationships with people this time?"

I finally emerged with an answer, but it's always bothered me that I can't go it alone all the time. Afterall, you can't place too much faith in human beings, we are all fallible by default.

My Chart doesn't have much in terms of needing to be really social, and when I am, it feels a little weird. Yet there's the other side of me (especially when younger) that craves good company. Here's what I mean:

Sun - Libra in the 8th House
Moon - Cancer in the 3rd House

North Node - Leo in the 4th House

Midheaven (MC) - Aquarius

To me these are the most "social" parts. Can anyone suggest what types of social activities or groups would feel most comfortable for me? Feeling the need to finally be a part of something or a group (other than our wonderful forum).

Thank you very much.

posted May 16, 2012 05:30 PM            

1)Just like a Zebra can never change his stripes, A Libra will always be half of a whole. They are the lovers and belong together, yin/yang. This is ingrained, you're motivated towards partnership, you shine in partnerships, two (perfect) halves being a whole.

2) You're Asc is 28 or 29 Taurus correct?
Taurus thrives in relationships as well, it is essential to their well being. Others can have their independence, Taurus wants comfort and a piece of mind and they get this building for their future.

I think being in a relationship is just part of being you, your uniqueness, don't fight it, but don't chase it either, just welcome it when it comes.

Your Cancer Moon may be playing on your doubts, always playing devils advocate. What if, what if, what if...
let it go sweetheart

posted May 18, 2012 05:50 AM            

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Originally posted by BackToEarth:

So I'm asking myself, "What is the absolute reason for me to seek relationships with people this time?"

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We are concieved and grow as part of two, we are connected to our mother and we share everything. When we are born that connection is severed and we can consider ourselves alone. Add to that the slow comprehension of of cognitive thinking and awareness of our own existence and how alone that truly is.

So we seek to find some affirmation from another person that we truly are not alone in this life. This usually results in relationships which become a loving partnership of great emotional strength.

Small gestures of individual self assurance include holding our hands together interlocking our fingers or otherwise touching our bodies in an unconcious self security way. So it is no surprise that one of the first personal boundaries in relationships is holding hands. There is that security in the touch and interlocking of hands letting each know of the bond between the two people.