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hannaramaa
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posted May 27, 2012 02:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon, Saturn, or Neptune? Those are my ideas but I'm only guessing.

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posted May 27, 2012 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Depends on what you mean.
Lack of trust? Neptune, 12th house, probably Pluto.

Sense of trust, I'd say easy Moon aspects, Venus and Jupiter; maybe well aspected Saturn and Sun. Nodes connections? South Node, maybe, as it gives a sense of familiarity and ease.

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posted May 27, 2012 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for the89freespirit     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know if any one aspect could control the level of trust in the relationship. I think it mainly depends on both individuals. However, I do think easy Moon aspects can work wonders in how one person opens up to the other.

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I don't know if any one aspect could control the level of trust in the relationship. I think it mainly depends on both individuals. However, I do think easy Moon aspects can work wonders in how one person opens up to the other.

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posted May 27, 2012 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could be a Moon tie, maybe a Jupiter/Saturn tie.

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posted May 27, 2012 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Depends on what you mean.
Lack of trust? Neptune, 12th house, probably Pluto.

Sense of trust, I'd say easy Moon aspects, Venus and Jupiter; maybe well aspected Saturn and Sun. Nodes connections? South Node, maybe, as it gives a sense of familiarity and ease.


I mean the kind of trust where you feel comfy with someone, and you immediately know if they do you wrong it wasn't intentional and they are a good person to you. I suppose that's still too broad though lol

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posted May 27, 2012 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Planets conjunct the IC have an effect of familiarity that brings a sense of security and trust. They say Moon conjunct someone's IC is the same as a Moon-Moon conjunction.

Personally speaking when someone's Venus is conjunct my IC there is this potent feeling of loving warmth and the IC person reacts mutually. And the first time I met this person I felt like I already knew them and our love for each other developed really fast.

On the other hand too many planets or emphasis on the MC can have the opposite effect. One person is in awe of the other yet always feel below the MC person in some way.

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posted May 27, 2012 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon/Jupiter for me, conj n trine.

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posted May 27, 2012 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
whenever i have heavy pluto in synastry i never feel like i can trust the person at all.

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posted May 27, 2012 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
whenever i have heavy pluto in synastry i never feel like i can trust the person at all.

I second this. I didn't understand pluto in synastry until I experienced it for myself.

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posted May 27, 2012 11:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha i have experienced it too. thats why i dont trust it.

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posted May 28, 2012 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A hard aspect in synastry between Saturn and Venus can have trust issues as well

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posted May 28, 2012 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I mean the kind of trust where you feel comfy with someone, and you immediately know if they do you wrong it wasn't intentional and they are a good person to you. I suppose that's still too broad though lol

It's in the Moon aspects. Where are the moons? Is your synastry chart posted in Personal Readings? I've been studying Synastry for about a month now - and I swear - the House person who ends up with the Planet person's moon in their 12th house can never get comfortable. Same feeling with 8th House - but it's a bit sadistic on the house person's part there.

Post a thread if you haven't - or guide me there. I'm happy to give you specific feedback. My library just expanded by 4 books to accomodate the subject

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posted May 28, 2012 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Wild Places:
It's in the Moon aspects. Where are the moons? Is your synastry chart posted in Personal Readings? I've been studying Synastry for about a month now - and I swear - the House person who ends up with the Planet person's moon in their 12th house can never get comfortable. Same feeling with 8th House - but it's a bit sadistic on the house person's part there.

Post a thread if you haven't - or guide me there. I'm happy to give you specific feedback. My library just expanded by 4 books to accomodate the subject


WildPlaces... I would be honored if you would look at the synastry chart I have! Granted, it's done with one accurate chart and one "natural" (re: 12:00 pm) chart. If you don't mind that then I'd be happy to set that up. One sight says we have moon conjunct moon in synastry. I'll post all three of our charts (natals and then the synastry), but just so I can point out some similarities. I'm most interested in the moons in our synastry one.

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posted May 28, 2012 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Places     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awesome! Put up whichever Synastry chart speaks to you on the personal thread...sounds like you don't know his specific birth-time...Just go with your gut. I'll take a look-see

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posted May 28, 2012 03:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Wild Places:
Awesome! Put up whichever Synastry chart speaks to you on the personal thread...sounds like you don't know his specific birth-time...Just go with your gut. I'll take a look-see

Signed, sealed and delivered (in personal readings, titled specifically for you. )

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posted May 28, 2012 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
A hard aspect in synastry between Saturn and Venus can have trust issues as well

What about no aspects between Sun and Venus to Saturn? or Moon and Saturn? Surely a square is better than nothing at all?

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