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Topic: Do you clash with any particular sign?
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lovehate122 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Ireland Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 07:39 AM
im not a friend to the fishes i must say ! i don't do water , i struggle to shower in the morning ..thats how much i don't do water ! (my leo sister wondering what that gawd awfull smell is ). it could be my aries 3rd house (not the smell i mean the reason i don't hit it off with water signs) jk there is no smell I SHOWERED OK ! it could be my aquarius moon ,jupiter,uranus ... my sharp mars in virgo (i like to fight back with words!) Or the fact that i have no water anywhere near my chart at all . IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 554 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 07:44 AM
I have never clashed with a person who did not have at least one personal planet in Cancer - in my entire life. Usually something other than Venus.... IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 1514 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 08:16 AM
I'm a Cap sun and predictably feel tension when dealing with Aries, Cancer, and Libra suns. Even if I like them very much, the conversation requires more focus and tact, and it can be exhausting.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 2974 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 10:12 AM
I struggle with Scorpio women/Scorpio-influenced women, and water and earth Mercury people. I don't hate them or anything; just that we don't "click".
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friture Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:01 AM
Yet to get along with a Libran. There's no headbutts, but I just don't get them. I've had best friends of almost all signs but a Libra boy/girl. Had friends with Libra moon though. My DC/SN is in Libra. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 354 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:07 AM
I have a hard time dealing with fire Moons, and sometimes air Moons, over earth or water. Fire moons have an emotional nature that can seem too out of control, irrational, volatile and illogical to me. I usually find this particularly true with Leo Moons I have known in RL, but I hope one day I can meet someone with this placement that changes my mind about this Moon sign. I think I struggle so much because I'm a Virgo Moon, and even with the Lilith trine to it I still function emotionally like an Earth moon at my core. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 2974 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 11:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: I have a hard time dealing with fire Moons, and sometimes air Moons, over earth or water. Fire moons have an emotional nature that can seem too out of control, irrational, volatile and illogical to me. I usually find this particularly true with Leo Moons I have known in RL, but I hope one day I can meet someone with this placement that changes my mind about this Moon sign. I think I struggle so much because I'm a Virgo Moon, and even with the Lilith trine to it I still function emotionally like an Earth moon at my core.
I have a water moon, and am opposite, but I also struggle with fire moons. Usually, they have some earth or water in a problematic spot. I find it hard to deal with people who are cold, unresponsive, and uncommunicative. In reading your post, I'm wondering if the people with whom I struggle feel towards me as you do towards fire moons. Just a question (so that I can understand the people with problematic earth/water placements): is it really hopeless if someone feels towards me like you do towards fire moons? Anything that would make it fixable, or is it just that you can't stand people whom you view as "volatile, illogical, and irrational" and it is hopeless? I ask in hopes of understanding the people with whom I struggle a little more and wondering if I should give up and just keep on avoiding them, or not.
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Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 1882 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 28, 2012 11:41 AM
Umm.. I don't really know actually.I think I'm similar to sweet-scorpion, Fire Moons are quite difficult to get along with simply because we're so different. They are fun and lively but something is usually missing on a deeper level. Actually I have trouble with heavily Fire influenced people in general, due to the fact that I have no Fire in my chart. Too much air isn't comfortable either, especially Aquarius (square my stellium and usually fall on my Saturn, ouch).
Basically the fixed signs are tricky for me, Aqua, Leo, Taurus and other Scorps. Tensions & misunderstandings are quite common. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 354 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: I have a water moon, and am opposite, but I also struggle with fire moons. Usually, they have some earth or water in a problematic spot. I find it hard to deal with people who are cold, unresponsive, and uncommunicative. In reading your post, I'm wondering if the people with whom I struggle feel towards me as you do towards fire moons. Just a question (so that I can understand the people with problematic earth/water placements): is it really hopeless if someone feels towards me like you do towards fire moons? Anything that would make it fixable, or is it just that you can't stand people whom you view as "volatile, illogical, and irrational" and it is hopeless? I ask in hopes of understanding the people with whom I struggle a little more and wondering if I should give up and just keep on avoiding them, or not.
I think for me, in the cases where people have Fire moons and I really don't get along with them, there can be more going on than JUST the fire Moon that makes it even more difficult for me to handle them. One example is, a woman close to me with a Leo Moon has Moon conjunct Pluto in the 3rd opposite Mars. This makes her emotional nature even more impossible for me to handle, since I am very sensitive (Moon conjunct Chiron) and also easily triggered into verbal arguments (Mars square Mercury). I usually do not have this issue with Leo Suns. My closest friend is a Leo Sun, but then again, she does have more earth and water in her chart.... and she doesn't have her Moon, Pluto or any difficult H3 planet. I think she has Venus in the 3rd actually. I'm sorry if I made you feel bad. It's not that I can't STAND people with an illogical attitude, it's just I have a harder time keeping my composure around them. I don't hate this kind of attitude, but with my Virgo nature and H3 Saturn I feel that such an attitude needs to be cooled and reformed... it can jut annoy me a little. I don't usually hold grudges against fire Moon people, they just really grate on my nerves at times. But like you, I can't stand people who are totally LACKING in emotions... I would take a volatile fire Moon over an emotionally unresponsive Air moon lacking in rapport any day. My dad has a Gemini Moon and I can't stand how it's like talking to a brick wall when we communicate. Combined with the fact he's a Scorpio Sun he takes FOREVER to reply too. :S Anyway, I think I see what you are saying. In truth I think that one difficulty of dealing with this situation, like earth Moon vs. fire Moon or water Moon vs. fire Moon is that, usually one side or both sides will be rigid in their views, unwilling to make a change, confused about what's going on... etc. etc. This also depends on their Sun sign too. Like the Leo Moon woman I was speaking of, is very rigid in her emotional ways because she has Scorpio Sun and a LOT of Scorpio placements, including her Mercury touching her Moon. So it's harder for her to give in and give up her pride and set ways even though she knows it's wrong to be the way she is sometimes. I don't think such situations are hopeless, but they require a lot of work and patience. And when you finally reach a point of greater understanding where both opinions are out there without clashing, you will feel a deep sense of contentment. Usually when the calmer person combats the more volatile person's ways, there is a greater wisdom to be learned for the volatile person. Even if they are annoyed you are pointing out they can fly off the handle or be too rash as a fire Moon, this is still a necessary growing experience for them to try to mature in their ways. Same for us: fire Moon people might grate on my nerves, but when they lighten me up and get me to laugh more I am grateful for that. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1480 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 12:17 PM
Cancer women tend to confuse me. I avoid them for the most part. Leo women I like but the friendships usually go sour after awhile.Scorpios bring out strong feelings. I tend to either like them a lot and bond with them very quickly, or hate them. Sometimes I like them a lot, bond with them very quickly, then go on to hate them. It tends to err on the side of "like" if I can manage to keep the communication with them to an absolute minimum; acquaintanceship only. Pisceans I like but always short-lived relationships and friendships; very flaky people. I find them worse than Geminis even in this regard. Unreliable, unreliable, unreliable. Love/hate relationship with Virgo women, whereas I tend to get along very well with the men (as friends). I need to start paying more attention to moon signs to see if there's a pattern there as well. IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 510 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 28, 2012 12:33 PM
For some reason, even though I like Gemini, they seem to loathe me on sight. They avoid me like the plague. Still can't quite figure out why, since I find them charming, and love their humor.I get put off by Cap in general, and also, Scorpio. Weird part is that usually Scorpios like me, but later, we just rub each other wrong. Probably due to my DSC in Scorpio. Both Cap and Scorpio seem to have control issues that drive me batty after awhile. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 146 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 03:10 PM
Aries men. The women are usually cool, but too often I butt heads with the men of the sign. I have an Aries moon(5th house), lol.I admire Aquarians as they are my opposite sign, but there are often misunderstandings. It could be that my chart has little air, but I can talk to Geminis just fine (Gemini 7th) My only air planet is Saturn in Aquarius. My relationships with water signs (especially men) start off great but go downhill quickly. My chart is weak in water, though. Um...that's about it. IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 131 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 05:37 PM
i clash with Cancer Sun (men) and Leo Sun (women). As a libra, i find the cancer men way too emotional and boring and the leo sun women like to compete with me too much - as a libra i tend to get a lot of social attention and that makes the leo sun females overly jealous imoIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 4146 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 28, 2012 06:06 PM
I don't think I don't get along with any particular sign. Synastry has a lot to do with it. ------------------ Imagination is intelligence having fun. —George Scialabba $3.50 ebay compatibility readings IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1635 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 28, 2012 08:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: I don't think I don't get along with any particular sign. Synastry has a lot to do with it.
This is what I've been saying to you all along IP: Logged |
Blind writer Newflake Posts: 21 From: Texas, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 09:00 PM
I can get along peacefully with most people I meet. I'm a Sagittarian, so rather "mutable" and adaptable.If I had to choose a weak link, I would say most often I find friction with Virgos. I love and appreciate perfectionism, but when personal standards are imposed upon the outside world and other people, it can be agitating. IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 1036 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 28, 2012 09:23 PM
I think I've clashed with all the signs at one time or another.I'm Gemini-Sagittarius, Virgo. I find Virgos attractive, but in no time we clash. Then I'm left wondering what happened. Aquarians & Aquarius energy. If I see it in a chart I get anxious. Shocker!!! Fellow lunar Sagittarians. Aye. I've had some ugly run-ins with this placement. At this moment, on the job, I'm in the middle of another with a Virgo. Couldn't stand me at first sniff. In the synastry we have a pVenus conj nMars in Cancer ... naha!! THAT is not going to happen, so I guess we bicker. IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 2322 From: The Capitol Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 28, 2012 09:25 PM
Just with people who can't control their ego! IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 1036 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 28, 2012 09:40 PM
^^ Yes. I also clash with those having prominent 1s & 8s in their numerology, especially in the lifepath position.It's a rare Taurus with whom I've had a smooth relationship. This despite having Venus & Mars there. Astrologically, this was an eye opener as I expected my Venus to charm 'em. Ha! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2625 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 28, 2012 11:01 PM
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