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posted May 28, 2012 11:48 AM            

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She also has gem mars, virgo moon, pisces venus. I'm a leo. Things were so picture perfect. We had one really bad arguement over her flirting and I havent heard from her in 2 days. I've called and texted and apologized to her mother via text. What can I do? Is she gone forever?

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posted May 28, 2012 12:41 PM            

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There is little else you can do.

Let the fish swim away. Like they say, the ocean is full of fish.

She was the one flirting and there is a limit to which you should apologize. There is a limit to which I would tolerate that myself.

Just let it be. Fish tend to swim back. Fish ASC here.

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posted May 28, 2012 01:09 PM            

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It was beyond typical flirting, physical contact,etc. On different occassions. If she is too blind to see my heart is big enough to forgive her for anything she would do. Than it's her loss. I appreciate the encouraging post.

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posted May 28, 2012 02:30 PM            

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I'm sorry pancakes.

I think if she really cares for you, she will come back.

If not, her loss as you say.

Stay strong.

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posted May 28, 2012 07:23 PM            

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As a Pisces female I would say do nothing....chances are her flirtation was a way of trying to get away, for whatever reason possibly freaking out...or feeling smothered? I dunno the details of ur dynamics

There was nothing to apologise for.....

Be independent, self sufficient and if she does truly care she ll com back in tears saying she doesn't know why she does this to you and to herself

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posted May 28, 2012 07:30 PM            

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pancakes, do you have moon in Pisces?

If she was flirting in a way that is offensive, that means she was not happy with your relationship and she wanted to leave anyway. So she unconsciously created a situation where you had to get upset at her so that she can leave without guilt.

Let her go. Leos do not tolerate unfaithfulness or flirting in their mates, and rightfully so. There are plenty of other Pisces women in the sea.

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posted May 28, 2012 07:32 PM            

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So she has gem mars, virgo moon, pisces venus. I don't know in what degree those planets lay, but I suspect she will be tripled affected by the energies of the eclipses we are currently going through. The more important question is, where are your moon and Venus and in which houses do they fall? that would give us an indication of whether or not she would be coming back.

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posted May 28, 2012 08:56 PM            

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Thanks for the responses guys. Her bday is 3/20/89. I'm 8/6/86. I'm leo sun, leo moon, venus virgo, cap. Mars

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posted May 28, 2012 10:11 PM            

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Belage. I'd like to hear your oppinions. Fiery, yes some of the flirting was with guys that I didnt find competitive at all. But she admits she did it to make me jealous.

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posted May 28, 2012 10:37 PM            

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Why don't you try to have a serious discussion? Leo in you should have no problem having that initiative and getting the blunt honest truth. I'm married to a Leo and I know you shouldn't stand for mind games or any of that jealousy testing nonsense.

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posted May 28, 2012 10:45 PM            

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Ahhh.. Another leo/fish...

Seems like she wanted to get u jealous for a reason..

What that reason is, idk...
it could be a number, of reasons
She wanted ur attention
Maybe ur attention was on others..

She wanted to pick a fight
She wanted to see how far she could push u..

Idk why... But maybe if u think abt what ever issues u have, u will discover the reason.

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posted May 28, 2012 10:54 PM            

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@yours. I tried. Texting and calling. Tried to ask for an explanation of why she is so upset. Ive recieved no response. Only a response from her mom saying we should both move on.

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posted May 28, 2012 10:57 PM            

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Pancakes, can you post her chart? Do you know her time and location of birth? I need to know exactly where her planets are...

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posted May 28, 2012 11:01 PM            

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I dont know the exact time but it's on the cusp of aries but she's pieces. So it has to be early morning. The location is orlando,fl

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posted May 28, 2012 11:18 PM            

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Is it cups of aries/Taurus or Pisces/Aries? It was not clear from your post.

If it is cusp of Pisces/Aries, then she has sun and venus in her 12th house, so a lot of her behavior is unconscious and self-defeating.

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posted May 28, 2012 11:24 PM            

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Its cusp of pi/aries. Id like for you to elaborate more. Yoy say seld defeating..can you further explain? Thanks!

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posted May 28, 2012 11:49 PM            

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Picture this. Our natal chart is like a pie, and it is cut into 12 slices, which are the 12 houses of the horoscope. Each house rules a particular area of life.
Slice #1 has the ascendant on its cusp. The 1st house rules the appareance.
Slice #2 is the 2nd house and it rules our money and possession. and so forth...
Slice #12 is for the 12th house and it rules the unconscious, and it has also been called the house of the undoing. Planets there (except for Jupiter) tend to have difficulty expressing themselves, difficulty in coming out into the person's consciousness. My ex had Mercury in the 12th, and he was very secretive with his thought process. If I asked him what he thought about a particular thing, he would get very defensive and accuse me of trying to pry into him.

Your pisces woman has Sun and Venus in the 12th, so you might want to read up Cafeastrology's interpretation of Sun in the 12th house: http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/suninhouses.html

Venus in the 12th house: http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/venusinhouses.html

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posted May 28, 2012 11:59 PM            

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I would say that your pisces woman having sun and venus in 12th house may not be aware of her behavior. She probably doesn't even realize that she is flirting and doing things that are not acceptable. Also, this position of Venus tends to be drawn to secret affairs and romances. Not sure you can change that.

Since you are a double Leo (sun and moon) her behavior will drive you crazy. Leo require a lot of attention and especially the exclusive attention of their mate. Of course, what I am saying can be mitigated by the position of Leo in your chart and whatever aspects there might be to those planets.

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posted May 29, 2012 12:19 AM            

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Ya. I could work on my quick diery tempered jealousy. Kinda wish I knew this before,and Im sure one day she will wish the same. Thanks for posting thoose. The arguement was intense. I guess there is no real way to see if there is potential for coming back. I guess us sharin a similar moon and venus could be a hope. Ty for your posts!

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posted May 29, 2012 12:25 AM            

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I Should mention, I caught her driving by.my place earlier today. How do you think this could ve interpreted. The fish swam by the bait. Hmm. Maybe I need a new lure. Lol

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posted May 29, 2012 12:37 AM            

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The fish swam by the bait LOL. Maybe she is having second thoughts. If you REALLY want her, send her a text or message talking about mutual forgiveness, unconditional love and such. Pisces love that stuff...

(pisces rising here)

Caution: You might get her, but the question still remains, are you two really compatible?

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posted May 29, 2012 12:48 AM            

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created a situation where you had to get upset at her so that she can leave without guilt.

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Yeah... They do this sometimes! It's a very Piscean thing to do.

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I have to say - arguments for fire signs are not like arguments for water signs. Fire sign people can have an earth shattering fight - and make up the next morning and *genuinely* forget it ever happened... Water signs will remember it a long time.. and even when they make up - they still remember.

This is just one of those fire-water problems that are very difficult to get past.

But my step sis (Pisces) has been with a Leo for over 10 years and they have three beautiful kids together... So if you both want to make it work - I'm sure it can!

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posted May 29, 2012 12:57 AM            

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If I had a girlfriend and she was getting physical with another Guy I would tell her to hit the road. If you ask me her behavior is a mindgame, she is trying to make you feel bad when she is at fault.

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posted May 29, 2012 12:59 AM            

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Ya. She definitely tried to provoke drama in a negative way. Perhaps to start a fight.As immature as it may sound...do you think making her jealous, ie. Having her or her family see me with another girl. Lure her to message me?

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posted May 29, 2012 01:05 AM            

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NO!!!!!!!! ^^^^^^^^

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