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posted May 31, 2012 09:10 AM            

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I'm a Scorp Moon Pluto female, with a Gemini rising. So I don't mind flirting.

But I can't stand when someone is all talk. From "I really like you" "I want to date you" "I want you to be my girlfriend right now"

I don't just take their word for it. I'm paying attention to their body language and tone, to see if they are being genuine. Actions have pretty much always been more important to me than words.

The guy I'm seeing now told me he really likes me. (and we knew each other for 3 months before he said that) And he definitely can back that up.
And he is a Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Mars, Pluto Scorp
lol he asked me if I knew he liked me, and I told him well I knew you at least like me, cause if you didn't, why would you bother talking to me so much? lol

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posted May 31, 2012 09:14 AM            

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That's a difficult question for me, because my inner planets are in conflict with my ASC, which is in Gemini.

I can sometimes flirt even though I don't have the slightest feeling for the person in front of me. I don't think it's taken seriously anyway, that's why I have no problem doing it.

Other times however, I can't take it. If someone starts flirting with me and I'm not in the mood I can go uber cold and set things straight in a very factual kind of way.

It really depends on my mood.

But I try to be careful not to hurt anyone in the process, and if things get murky I am usually willing to sort everything out.

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posted May 31, 2012 10:13 AM            

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I have a Venus-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio in the 12th and I HATE IT when people make any kind of sexual remark to me or flirt. It makes me feel uncomfortable and disgusted.

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posted May 31, 2012 11:54 AM            

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I know a Scorpio who is like this. She drove me crazy hahaha. She took everything so seriously and read too into and I was like RELAXXXX.

Pluto in Scorpio is my chart ruler. I'm not really like this - probably bc my big fat leo sun ego thinks everyone wants to marry me if given the chance

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posted May 31, 2012 12:21 PM            

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I have a Scorpio girl friend with Sun conjunct Merc and then Venus exactly conjunct Pluto (all in Scorpio), and all in the 3rd house, and Moon in Aries in the 8th w/ Virgo rising. She is annoyingly flirtatious herself. She'll tell people things just because she thinks it's what they want to hear, and it puts off a really disingenuine vibe. She's a flirt and a flatterer. She's awful at leading guys on.
It's funny, because I'm a Leo, and even I get sick of her compliments. Actually, I don't like out and out flattery/flirting, I love subtlety.

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posted May 31, 2012 01:32 PM            

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~They just don't like flighty people who don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean.
They can still flirt... but it's more genuine and intense... rather than 'lighthearted'.~

As a Scorpio Venus, I totally agree with this. I am a Sag Sun and very friendly, don't mind casual flirting but dislike mind games. I do not like to lead people on or be lead on, seems like a waste of energy to play games.

I once was talking to a person, who would constantly call and express interest in going out, stating how much he likes me, etc. Then when we were to go out, he totally flaked with some lame excuse. It bothered me enough to stop speaking to him at all. I would have been ok with not going out, it was the fact that he was the one persisting to chase and the one who kept bringing up the date, only to play at the last minute. Not my cup of tea in the least, Scorpions do not like to be prickled lol.

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posted May 31, 2012 01:59 PM            

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I just had a date with a girl who flirted with me quite a bit. From grabbing my arm as we crossed the street for "balance" (because of heels) to arm wrestling (I mean, come on, what girl would does that thinking she is going to win....it is to touch the guy, plain and simple!) to hip bumping, etc. and saying how great of a time it all was and alluding to future encounters, details about flirting included. Then does not return text or phone call. Who the heck does that? Annoying. sick of these fickle people with no self awareness or low social EQ.

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posted May 31, 2012 03:01 PM            

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Wow ya that ^^ would be irritating, that's probably why I'm not the 1 that calls after a date... If you had such a "great time" then YOU can call me
It's all just so simple lol

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posted May 31, 2012 03:22 PM            

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For Moonfish & Linda bahahahaha

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5X5zh00rdg&feature=youtube_gdata_player

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posted May 31, 2012 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
I just had a date with a girl who flirted with me quite a bit. From grabbing my arm as we crossed the street for "balance" (because of heels) to arm wrestling (I mean, come on, what girl would does that thinking she is going to win....it is to touch the guy, plain and simple!) to hip bumping, etc. and saying how great of a time it all was and alluding to future encounters, details about flirting included. Then does not return text or phone call. Who the heck does that? Annoying. sick of these fickle people with no self awareness or low social EQ.

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I feel your pain bro, i was on a date with a girl a few months back and she was acting the same way,and later that same night we were sitting in my truck and she keeps giving me the "i want you to kiss me look" and when i did she literally attacked me with her tongue and we made out for a half hour or so. And when i dropped her off at her place,we made out again. And after that night never heard from her again. lmao

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posted May 31, 2012 04:08 PM            

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Okay bro tongue kissing is soooo not flirting! Lmao

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posted May 31, 2012 04:17 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Okay bro tongue kissing is soooo not flirting! Lmao

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Its well beyond flirting

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posted May 31, 2012 04:18 PM            

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TMI but thanks for the mental pic

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posted May 31, 2012 04:48 PM            

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@Faith
Thanks Faith really? I hope I give off that kind of vibe lol
yea I could understand how it might be a lil different for guys, but your brother seems to have the same idea as the other scorps :]

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posted May 31, 2012 04:53 PM            

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@Doux Rêve
Yea I see what you mean :]

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posted May 31, 2012 04:59 PM            

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@RegardesPlatero
I can relate

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posted May 31, 2012 05:01 PM            

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@MessyLilLeo
Wow, did she have a rough childhood? Maybe she didn't have a father figure and is looking for the wrong kind of attention or something?
but interesting.

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posted May 31, 2012 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
For Moonfish & Linda bahahahaha

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5X5zh00rdg&feature=youtube_gdata_player

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Thx AD. He's awwright, depends on the mood. Def. like the beat tho.

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posted May 31, 2012 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
@MessyLilLeo
Wow, did she have a rough childhood? Maybe she didn't have a father figure and is looking for the wrong kind of attention or something?
but interesting.

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As a matter of fact she did. But she was raised by her father, without much of her mother in the picture.
And yes, she is starved for attention all of the time. Watching her in a group dynamic, esp with a male audience, is ENTIRELY different than interacting with her on a person to person basis. I know that's true for most people, but wow, she goes all out. Like clownin', rollin' on the floor, sittin' in guys' laps, feelin' their muscles and grabbin' their butts - I'm so not kidding.
I know if I randomly grabbed a guy's butt, I would log it away in my memory for all eternity that I did that, it's so not in my nature to do it. But she does it every time the notion crosses her mind, and the next day she's forgotten it even happened. I see these guys thinking she's way into them, when really she's already way past them and on to the next victim!
She's a lil crazy

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posted May 31, 2012 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Linda Jones:
Thx AD. He's awwright, depends on the mood. Def. like the beat tho.

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It was just for fun Linda lol an old skool song

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posted May 31, 2012 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I know a Scorpio who is like this. She drove me crazy hahaha. She took everything so seriously and read too into and I was like RELAXXXX. Pluto in Scorpio is my chart ruler. I'm not really like this - probably bc my big fat leo sun ego thinks everyone wants to marry me if given the chance

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Hahaha what makes you sooo sure?

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posted May 31, 2012 08:09 PM            

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@MessyLilLeo
Ooh well that makes sense
yea its ashame how low someones morals can be when they crave attention. I guess it could be worse though, she could be sleeping around.. at least i hope shes not. My cousin did that when she was younger, and and it didn't end pretty.

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posted May 31, 2012 08:11 PM            

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posted May 31, 2012 08:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
@Faith
Thanks Faith really? I hope I give off that kind of vibe lol
yea I could understand how it might be a lil different for guys, but your brother seems to have the same idea as the other scorps :]

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You do! Even online.

IMHO

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posted May 31, 2012 08:52 PM            

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@ariesdragon
this version is better :P http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c69DzQ2Yu8w&feature=related

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Lol I'm gonna have to watch your videos in the other thread too.

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