posted June 02, 2012 08:19 PM            

In March of 2010, my sister and brother inlaw invited me along to a rock concert wherein 10 of his friends/coworkers were attending too. I had no idea at the time that his friends are attending. We stopped at this parking lot to meet his friends in, and as it turned out two of his best friends from childhood decided to carpool with us. As soon as one of them approached, my eyes were GLUED. Not just that but there seemed to be a spiritual, psychical, magical, soulful connection. Hard to explain. It certainly took a lot of effort to avert my gaze. THANK GOD I was sitting at the back! He didn't notice I was back there 'til my sister moved to sit next to me, and he goes, "Oh! Hello. I didn't know anyone was back there.". Conversation started in the car as my brother inlaw pulled off the parking lot - introductions, etc.. I learned during the ride that he's married and has one son. Of course I was disappointed so... Trying to do the right thing, I prayed that he'd keep his distance for most of the night and only small talk when in the car. With my luck, that wasn't the case. I hung out with my sister everywhere she went, and somehow he'd sat next to me for most of the evening. Now, there were plenty of other seats. He could've sat with the one he knew longest (my brother inlaw) or with the guys on the other side of the table. At one point, I caught him staring at me, but I was too shy to make any eye contact so I casually pretended I didn't notice. We had conversations, and from what I learned he's everything I've always wanted in an ideal husband. Right from the second I met him, there was a deep connection, deep attraction (at least on my part), and he was even very much sincere and concerned about me when we got to the concert (worried I might accidentally get hurt by the crowd), and my sister and brother inlaw didn't even consider it 'til he brought it up.

That was two years ago. I met him once, haven't talked or seen him since, and I still haven't been able to get him out of my mind. There's this feeling of comfort, love, sincerity, familiarity, magic, destiny, and fate when we were together. And I still feel it...

I'm a cancer by the way, and he's a pisces. I don't know what to do... I just want to be able to let go and forget but I can't... He's married, and it's been two years for crying out loud!!!

Still, a part of me wonders if all of this is just in my head... Is it just me who felt it?

I'm inlove with someone whom I've met only once, and he's probably already forgotten about me. So unfair...

posted June 02, 2012 08:25 PM            

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Imagination is intelligence having fun.
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posted June 02, 2012 11:43 PM            

The Leo and I had an amazing telepathic/psychic connection. VERY strong. But it was a detriment to our relationship.

The Sagittarius ... it's been months and he's still in my mind. I believe he felt it too but we both had separate lives.

posted June 03, 2012 02:27 AM            

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Originally posted by LovesBlessings:
Thanks everyone for your response. I've been trying to let go and forget for two years. Nothing's worked... I even dated several guys. I do need to move on though, whether I like it or not because it isn't fair at all. I never shared how I felt regarding that night or regarding him. Can't tell my brother inlaw cause it's just awkward, can't tell my sis cause she tells him everything. I figured may be if I can just let it out and hear many people tell me I need to let go and move on, may be it'll be easier.

Thanks for all the feedback! It helps.

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I wonder if you have easy/hard saturn, uranus, neptune aspects.

posted June 03, 2012 06:57 AM            

I am sorry it didn't lead to anything, LovesBlessings, but I agree with everyone else: you should try your best to move on and find yourself a good man worthy of your attention.

It's hard to let go, but believe me, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

posted June 03, 2012 04:34 PM            

I don't know that soulmate encounters (or Karmic soulmate encounters) are that uncommon. I think, certain one's resonate with us and impact us in different ways depending upon 'where you are' at that given point in your life (or even a transit you might be experiencing).

Sometimes, while the union will not manifest itself as a 'relationship' by our standards (and perhaps, our conscious understanding as well of 'being together') they happen to help us forge ahead in our own consciousness and awareness about the world. Somehow, I have found they teach me a lot about the interconnectedness of our energy. Hopefully it teaches you something wonderful as the years progress. I've experienced this before, and they are wonderful lessons in 'being.'

posted June 03, 2012 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
I'm in the same situation except we had our night together. We were both with other people so we agreed to end it. But he came back when they broke up a year later. This time I was with someone new and he didn't want to be the cause of us breaking up.

I'm with a great guy but he's the one I love and the one in my heart. It's unbelievably hard because I still see him occasionally and the connection and longing between us is palpable.

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It makes me sad to hear this. You shouldnt be with someone you don't love.

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Imagination is intelligence having fun.
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posted June 03, 2012 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
Wow, this is an intense story, thanks for sharing.

I don't know that soulmate encounters (or Karmic soulmate encounters) are that uncommon. I think, certain one's resonate with us and impact us in different ways depending upon 'where you are' at that given point in your life (or even a transit you might be experiencing).

Sometimes, while the union will not manifest itself as a 'relationship' by our standards (and perhaps, our conscious understanding as well of 'being together') they happen to help us forge ahead in our own consciousness and awareness about the world. Somehow, I have found they teach me a lot about the interconnectedness of our energy. Hopefully it teaches you something wonderful as the years progress. I've experienced this before, and they are wonderful lessons in 'being.'

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