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Milkyshutter
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From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012

posted June 07, 2012 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Milkyshutter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all. I¡¯m currently at my wit¡¯s end, and I need some advice. I¡¯m trying to get to the bottom of this intense obsession that happened to develop in the past 2 months. I know that you all receive these type of questions all the time, but I have literally lost over 10 pounds (=5kg) in just a month. As a Cappy, I do not usually express my vulnerability, especially to the public, but that¡¯s how dire my situation is. My co-workers think I have some secret ways to lose weight, but I¡¯m suffering from intoxicating lovesick.

There is this woman who works for the same company. She has a very interesting natal chart. She is an aquarius and her moon is placed in Leo. Another significant, planetary position is that she has Venus/Mars tight conjunction in Aries. She is a very independent person, sometimes when I observe her, she emanates masculine energy. She isn¡¯t a conventional beauty, but she has this alarming attractive aura.

Although, I felt she is attractive, I never made the initial move. She did. One day, she just casually asked me out for lunch. I guess it¡¯s her uranian nature or of her mars/venus in Aries placement that can make such a blunt offer. Maybe because I am funny and popular person in the office, she probably wanted to get to know me. But, my intuition was ringing loud. I believe the attraction was mutual. All the dates, not intentionally, somehow became clandestine. Nobody knows about it. All the meetings went well. Really well. I could see/sense the sparkles in her eyes and it was really enchanting. I felt so alive, and it seemed she and I connected so well.

However, suddenly, she is acting coy and indifferent. After confronting her about it, she has ignored me ever since. I regret that I¡¯ve shown my frustration but I told her how I felt. She didn¡¯t respond. After that, no single conversation went back and forth. I¡¯m a very proud person, so I am trying to act cool and avoid clinging; however, it¡¯s really starting to kill me inside out. This could be very one-sided, but I think she has feelings for me, but she doesn¡¯t seem to continue or commit. She glances at me, but I can't figure out what she wants from me.

I¡¯m a Capricorn sun, Aries Moon with Aries rising. She is an Aquarian with Leo moon. I don¡¯t know her exact birth time, but I remember she said sometime after noon. I¡¯m just assuming she is leo or libra rising.
I¡¯ve compared my chart to hers. When I look at our synastry I think it¡¯s fated and/or karmic. Since, I do not know exactly of her house positions, I¡¯ve only been able to compare the aspects between my planets to hers. Here¡¯s our synastry:

Tight aspects
Me to her
Mars square Pluto (0orb)
Mars trine Venus/Mars (1-2)
Mercury conjunct Neptune
Neptune conjunct Uranus
Pluto trine Sun
Neptune sextile Sun
Pluto sextile Uranus
Mercury square Venus/Mars
Saturn conjunct Moon
Saturn trine Neptune
Chiron trine Neptune

Loose aspects
Moon inconjunct Saturn
Moon conjunct Venus/Mars (in sign)
Mars opposite Mercury
Moon trine Uranus

As you can see outer planets play a heavy role in our chart, and I just can¡¯t shake off the feeling I have for her. If I may add, she was playing more male type role. I think I feared her somehow. It¡¯s hard to explain but sometimes I literally felt terrified of her charisma.
Here is the DOB, if anyone is willing to delve in more closely.
Me: 1978.01.15 11:30AM Seoul,Korea
Hers: 1985.02.06 Unknown Seoul,Korea

Thank you in advance for any help and tip you can offer me.

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iQ
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From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009

posted June 07, 2012 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for iQ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let her go man. You deserve a lot better.

What happened was a past life karmic release, literally manifesting with you losing your weight.

She acted on an impulse to date you because of your Sun and Venus trining her AMOR, and your Pluto trining her Sun.

There is a high probability that her Moon conjuncts your Saturn exact. You have already noted the inconjunct. A Saturn-Moon double whammy is a very huge karmic burden, in spite of intermittent good times in past life streams.

Your Mercury conjuncts her Neptune. This means you are more of a fantasy for her in this incarnation, considering her main attraction of Mars-Venus in Aries falls in your 12th House [unconscious Mind, Mental Confinement, hidden karmic debts.]

Your Asteroid KARMA conjuncts her Sun exact. This is the absolute evidence of a huge past life debt, and the Saturn-Moon combinations indicates a negative debt. Her Asteroid JUNO is exactly in your Descendant, proving there was a past life marriage. Obviously it was a marriage made in hell.

If her Leo Moon flips, she will wreck your life if you have a relationship. Her Pluto in Scorpio is waiting to hurt your Ego by squaring Mars in Leo. Her Pluto will victimize your Asteroid DEJANIRA in 3 Aquarius.
There is sudden hatred from her Uranus opposition to your Asteroid Valentine.

She is doing you a favor by ignoring you.
I analyzed her Natal Chart too, not cool. Some glaring red flags in her personality.

Get your weight back and get your heroic Aries Ascendant Self a loving, caring and frank girl.

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Milkyshutter
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From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012

posted June 07, 2012 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Milkyshutter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much iQ. I almost burst into tears after reading your article.
I have never been enamored so obsessively like this before in my life. At the same time, I feel scared because like you have mentioned in your article, I sensed that she can wreck my life if I were committed to her. I felt that energy. (I also have my moon conjunct my ascendant, I am hyper-sensitive and my intuition is correct many times.)

I think she was manipulative. She may have enjoyed the whole chase and being chased game. Because I also have some Aries traits, I¡¯ve kind of understood and gave into it. When she touched me, I felt I was being electrocuted. (Probably,. Mars / pluto contact?) It was so painfully addictive. I gasped to a point of humiliation. A single arm to arm contact aroused me and it was so intense. I think she knew exactly what she was doing. I've never felt this vulnerable in my life.

I see her every day at my work place. I¡¯ve been trying really hard to get her off my head, but when I see her this obsession comes back.

Can anyone explain this is completely one-sided experience or mutual?

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