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Topic: DSC and attraction
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PhoenixFire
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posted June 08, 2012 03:19 PM
  
Does the DSC symbolize what one is attracted to, or the types of personalities attracted to you? I'm attracted to strong Pluto & Saturn males, usually older and experienced (Venus in Socprio sextile Saturn). However, all my life younger men have flocked to me like birds (DSC in Gemini). Looking back, every single one of my serious relationships has been with a younger man. By younger, I mean anything like a few months to years younger. My first spouse is exactly a month younger, current spouse is a few years younger. Oddly enough, I am constantly told that I appear younger than my age, while my partners who are younger, all seemed older. First spouse was heavy Capricorn/Scorpio, current is heavy Saturn and Scorpio. Does anyone else find a connection between the DSC and Venus in terms of who is attracted to you, and who you are attracted to? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 08, 2012 03:21 PM
Uh, yeah, that's pretty much what the DSC is all about!However, there's a theory that says that when you're younger you are more likely to be attracted to your 1st house/5th house, and later on may want to partner with people who represent your "shadow" side, ie parts of you that are unconscious. IP: Logged |
seaofjoy
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posted June 08, 2012 03:40 PM
How I see it is Venus is what makes you feel loved, where as DC is a QUALITY that you're drawn to in a person - naturally becasue of your AC you're likely to attract the right men in.DC in Gemini means youthful, witty & intelligent. Fast, versatile men. I am a DC Gemini too, my man has a Gemini moon & Mars. I too am a water Venus (I have a unaspected Cancer Venus in 8th [house of scorpio]) My man is a Pisces Venus & Pisces Sun. I also have a Pluto aspecting everything in my chart as well as 8th house Mars too! My man has a Scorpio DC - and is attracted my femme fatale qualities. All in all, it works both ways. Your DC is what you find attractive, it is a quality you strongly prefer in yoru partner, and becasue yoru DC is opposite yoru AC, you naturally attract the right people in. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted June 08, 2012 03:41 PM
Lol very, true... It is funny, I always dismissed the whole DSC connection. I would think to myself, nope I am not at all attracted to Gemini nor are Geminis attracted to me. I never dated a Gemini nor do I have any Gemini friends. Silly me, to dismiss the Mercurical traits associated with Gemini's. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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posted June 08, 2012 03:57 PM
I kinda get it. Neptune in Sag/4H, Pisces DSC. Oddly enough, yes, I DO attract Sagittarian-influenced types, but maybe it's not the 'Neptunian' aspects I want. I get the confused, scattered, sensitive, martyrish types, usually with some addiction issues (one was a Pisces Moon, the other Pisces Sun - the latter HORRIBLY abusive) rather than the evolved, spiritual, metaphysical types I WANT.Like, debunkers. Like, 'oh, God, ASTROLOGY? What's wrong with you? You're crazy.' Types. The types who DON'T let me evolve spiritually without causing an all-out interpersonal war. Neptune affliction? Nope. Trine my NNode in the 12H, in fact, and sextile my Sun. Jupiter's conjunct Saturn in the 1H. Is THAT what's going on? I'm kinda tired of it, frankly. -A.
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ail221
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posted June 08, 2012 06:03 PM
Well my DSC is Scorpio and Venus Gemini usually I am attracted to men with more of a Scorpio vibe and appearance but that could also have to do with my Sun sign being a water sign. I attract more Sagittarius men probably because its the ruler of my 8th house. My preference is really all over the place T__T between my Sun sign in Cancer, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Taurus, DSC Scorpio, and my personality according to five personality test Aquarius.IP: Logged |
seaofjoy
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posted June 08, 2012 10:52 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Well my DSC is Scorpio and Venus Gemini usually I am attracted to men with more of a Scorpio vibe and appearance but that could also have to do with my Sun sign being a water sign. I attract more Sagittarius men probably because its the ruler of my 8th house. My preference is really all over the place T__T between my Sun sign in Cancer, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Taurus, DSC Scorpio, and my personality according to five personality test Aquarius.
I think you're right there, tbh, before I knew about WATER VENUS & what my venus was, everyone I dated at GEMINI (my gemini DC) in their charts ... I think you're right that i overpowers others.! IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted June 09, 2012 12:13 AM
Wow, this thread sure has answered a few questions I had. Scorpio is on my DSC, but I've never, ever been attracted to Scorpios. Usually, I feel annoyed, or don't really connect. However, I sure do seem to like men who have strong Plutos in their charts. HA! The Scorpio got me after all... Just not with the Sun sign. Yup, the 7th has made me drawn to Pluto, and not necessarily Scorpio. If that makes any sense.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 09, 2012 12:30 AM
It doesnt mean youll be attracted to that sign specifically, it just means you'll be attracted to certain qualities depicted by that sign. They most likely won't even have that sign anywhere in their chart. The whole idea is that what you are drawn to in the sign of your DSC are the qualities you need to integrate into your own personality. The DSC can help you better understand why you are drawn to the people you are drawn to. It's because they have something to teach you. You also, have something to teach them.For example, I have libra rising, which means I am drawn to people who will teach me to be more spontaneous and assertive. I as a libra rising draw assertive people to me because THEY need someone who will willingly follow along with their plans and will kind of "acquiesce" ------------------
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PhoenixFire
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posted June 09, 2012 03:40 AM
Hi RAS, if a person eventually integrates the dsc qualities into themselves, will they cease to be attracted to that sign? For myself, Im tired of attracting the attentiom of younger men. If I was to be single someday, feel at a point that I have learned my lessons regarding younger men, and would like to move onto those in my own age group. If one outgrows the dsc qualities, will potential partners w the dsc traits stop being attracted to you? Lol hope this makes senseIP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 09, 2012 06:23 AM
Phoenix, that's a very good question.
And I'm not sure of the answer!I don't think the attraction stops.
If anything, it probably makes the connection easier because you can see where the other person is coming from. So it creates more common ground. I think it's a plus. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 09, 2012 11:29 AM
I dont think gemini dsc means you attract younger guys :/Can you find where on the internet it says that? I have aries dsc and I also attract younger guys just because I act/look pretty young myself :P ------------------
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 09, 2012 11:39 AM
I agree with Doux, if you become more like your DSC you will probably have more in common with them now and be able to better keep up with them. You won't attract different kinds of people, just because your ASC is your identity and how you've been seeing yourself since you were little------------------
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Wild Places
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posted June 09, 2012 11:43 AM
My DC is Libra, and my most significant Partner had his Sun sign in Libra (I think a 5d orb of my DC) - we had a child together. Unfortunately, My PLUTO is here in Libra too - so during the start of Saturn's Transit through Libra, our once amazingly, loving relationship went the way of the do-do. Since then, the few men who have definitely touched my heart have either been Scorpio Suns, Venus, ASC or, this last one - who is for me - the absolute prototype of THE ONE - 3d Sun in Scorpio...ALL have their MARS conjunct my Pluto. That is transformative stuff right there. Major attraction going on - irrefutable. And, after breaking up with the man I was sure was the love of my life, father of my child, all that - I'm not easily swooned...But these guys...So - I've thought, with my thorough analysis - it's gotta be that I'm a sucker for this Mars-Pluto Conjunction... But this thread makes me think there's that perfect combination of Scorpionic energy (thanks Pluto 7th house) and Libra in their charts conjuncting my DC that I just can't get enough of. I will say this though too - if you look at your progressed chart - you can clearly see a pattern of the moon sign of the partner that feels best with you based on where your ASC is progressed to. My ASC is progressed to Taurus, and one would think a Taurus Moon (Square my Aqua Sun) would be a total turn-off - NOT AT ALL. The combination of our energy is the stuff that makes me want to build a home, start a garden, and *gasp* raise children! This free-spirited, Aqua Sun, Aries Asc woman is feeling much like the Queen of Pentacles these days, inspired by the influence of the energy of this fantastic love/friend. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted June 09, 2012 12:07 PM
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Originally posted by seaofjoy:
I think you're right there, tbh, before I knew about WATER VENUS & what my venus was, everyone I dated at GEMINI (my gemini DC) in their charts ... I think you're right that i overpowers others.!
Usually their is Scorpio/Pluto placements somewhere in their chart it balances out my water sun and satisfies my ASC and Mars in my chart but their needs to be some Mercury or Uranus as well or I'll lose interest. Physical attraction is fleeting, stimulation keeps me. IP: Logged |
LoVeLy
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posted June 10, 2012 12:32 AM
My DSC is in Aries and I am never attracted to Aries men My Sun and Venus are in Virgo and in the 11th house I am TOTALLY attracted to Virgo, Gemini Aquarius and Pisces men  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 10, 2012 12:56 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I agree with Doux, if you become more like your DSC you will probably have more in common with them now and be able to better keep up with them. You won't attract different kinds of people, just because your ASC is your identity and how you've been seeing yourself since you were little
This is what I get confused with often when explaining astrology though - the difference between the ASC and then Sun. Lord knows how many times I've read the ASC is like your "mask" and it's the acquaintance-version of yourself, but then what's that make the Sun AMONGST those interactions? Unimportant? Or is your Sun sign just a measure of your confidence level in yourself? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 10, 2012 03:21 AM
I think I read somewhere that our purpose is to become our Sun, and in order to do that we have our ASC to help us, meaning, the ASC is the "form" and the Sun is the essence. We channel our Sun energy through our ASC.Hope it makes some sense. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted June 11, 2012 01:24 PM
Hmmm I can not recall the exact website in which I read Gemini DSC is associated with younger partners. I am fairly certain that I read something similar in one of my everything astrology books. I recall also reading Gemini DSC is associated with seeking lively communciation in partnerships, and may point out to multiple marriages. I am in my second marriage, and with my 3rd house Moon would be absoutley bored out of my mind in a partnership without extensive communication. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 11, 2012 02:19 PM
It makes perfect sense.
Gemini DSC is similar to having Mercury in the 7th, or Gemini Venus (especially for men I guess), it can, and usually does, point to a younger partner. That's because Mercury stands for youth.IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted June 11, 2012 02:49 PM
My DSC is in Virgo, which like Gemini is ruled by Mercury, and I also have Venus in Virgo, so yes, I have no problem drawing younger men, even the significantly younger ones. I don't consider myself a cougar as I don't go after these men, I don't seek them out. They are always the ones initiating contact. I had this personal rule that 10 years difference was the limit for me in term of younger men, but these past year, I have had men 13-14 years younger expressing serious interest in dating me so I had to revise my original rule. My ex husband was 4 years younger, and if I marry again, it will most likely be to a younger man. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted June 11, 2012 03:37 PM
I never set out with an aim towards younger men, either... always works out that is what I attract. I have only dated one man who is older than me, and he is only two years older. Two are my same age, but Im a few months older. Even my first boyfriend is a year younger. Oddly enough, people constantly tell me I look and act younger than my age while my younger partners look and act older than their age. I do have Sun conj Mercury which may be why I give off a younger vibe. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted June 11, 2012 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Uh, yeah, that's pretty much what the DSC is all about!However, there's a theory that says that when you're younger you are more likely to be attracted to your 1st house/5th house, and later on may want to partner with people who represent your "shadow" side, ie parts of you that are unconscious.
That's so interesting. I have acknowledged that earlier in my life I definitely surrounded myself with Scorpio men (1st house. And actually was really crushing on 3 - dated on of those) I also had two big crushes on Pisces. (fifth house). After I turned 21... I was much more attracted and drawn to Taurus men (also my moon sign)
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted June 11, 2012 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
This is what I get confused with often when explaining astrology though - the difference between the ASC and then Sun. Lord knows how many times I've read the ASC is like your "mask" and it's the acquaintance-version of yourself, but then what's that make the Sun AMONGST those interactions? Unimportant? Or is your Sun sign just a measure of your confidence level in yourself?
Think of the asc as the label your family gave you when you were young. If you're sagittarius rising, you were kind of tomboyish and energetic, but happy go lucky and rewarded for being risktaking and adventurous. If you are libra rising, you were labeled as the perfectly sweet child, always the nice guy/girl, with impeccable manners. Etc Etc
It's the social "stereotype" or role you learned to play. It's the way you learned to be to present yourself to others for a good impression. But the sun is how your father taught you to be in the world. And it is how you build your ego and your sense of purpose. Remember that the sun is your pride, your ego, and the qualities you were taught to worship. You werent really given or taught your ascendant. You just fell into that role from the way you acted since you were little. But your sun sign are qualities your father actually taught you to worship.
Your moon sign are qualities your mother taught you in order o find your EMOTIONAL happiness and security. Go to the Hidden Messages report in grupovenus.com
It explains everything except for how you learned to act like your ascendant. ------------------
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LoVeLy
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posted June 13, 2012 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Think of the asc as the label your family gave you when you were young. If you're sagittarius rising, you were kind of tomboyish and energetic, but happy go lucky and rewarded for being risktaking and adventurous. If you are libra rising, you were labeled as the perfectly sweet child, always the nice guy/girl, with impeccable manners. Etc Etc
It's the social "stereotype" or role you learned to play. It's the way you learned to be to present yourself to others for a good impression.But the sun is how your father taught you to be in the world. And it is how you build your ego and your sense of purpose. Remember that the sun is your pride, your ego, and the qualities you were taught to worship. You werent really given or taught your ascendant. You just fell into that role from the way you acted since you were little. But your sun sign are qualities your father actually taught you to worship.
Your moon sign are qualities your mother taught you in order o find your EMOTIONAL happiness and security. Go to the Hidden Messages report in grupovenus.com
It explains everything except for how you learned to act like your ascendant.
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