posted June 16, 2012 05:20 AM            

Also I'm good at this in general...sometimes i can read post on these sites and get down to the core of what the reader has left out and call them on it. Not in a malicious way but as a way of saying hey people can't truly give you their honest advice if you leave this part out. It doesn't help me in the friends department but it does help in my line of work. :/

So the taurus approached me. I reciporcated and we talk like we've known eachother for years. He starts to get a little sensitive and what happens......the mindgames. He'll ask me a question...i'll respond. I ask a question no response. Everything is just cat and mouse. Sorry aqua women like to be courted the old fashioned way and if you like us just put it out there and stop with the I'm a man i have to be strong and in control crap...we'll let you be the man geesh.

He ask me if i'm aggressive i said depends on the circumstances. Then i asked why? His response; I'm analyzing everything you say. Ummmm.....ok. i went from being truly intrigued by him to bored because he wont just let the attraction happen naturally. I don't have some freaking hidden agenda what you see is what you get.

I feel his emotions and they are stronggggggggg....but now that the games have begun I'm fading fast. Not to mention I had a dream last night that my phone was ringing and when i looked at it, it was him but instead of his name it read "Playing Mindgames". I'm so serious.

Anyone else able to read minds easily and lose patience when someone is holding back?

posted June 16, 2012 02:32 PM            

I would say as far as signs known for doing this, there must be something else going on. Taurus can be moody or closed off when they're upset, but usually if you get them talking about their feelings they'll be straightforward or even aggressive about it. Virgo can be very overly-analytical so that might explain the "analyzing everything you say" part lol but I don't think they're known for using that information against you in any sort of subtle way, you can usually just read what they're anxious about...

posted June 16, 2012 03:16 PM            

I imagine a lot of it has to do with conditioning and experience. Some signs are naturally more secretive than others, but anyone who's had a damaging experience and is wounded inside could build up a "shell" of fear and play games to try to keep people out. With guys, especially, in our culture they are taught "a guy doesn't show his emotions," so it leads to a lot of repression, confusion, and ambiguity, which can lead to not knowing what to say or do with a woman, and can come across as mind games.

I wonder if personal planets in the 12th or 8th houses come into play, though, too.