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Topic: Current Venus Retrograde
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Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 07:51 AM
I'm curious to hear how is everyone is holding up? Personally, It's been a tough couple of weeks for me and my boyfriend but we are hanging in there. Don't know about you guys but I will be happy when it passes!IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1609 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 10:32 AM
things are moving sooooo slow between me and my crush, but there's a spark in it.IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 384 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 17, 2012 10:37 AM
This retrograde is frustrating, either I don't feel anything emotionally/sexually or the polar opposite no in-between. Aside from going to work and going to the gym I have been trying to avoid people. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3041 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 12:20 PM
I feel like people are avoiding me, and it really hurts a lot.However, if that's how people are going to be, I feel sorry for them. They could have a good friend if they wanted one. They're the ones being rude, hurtful, and hateful. They're just poisoning their own souls, not mine. I deserve to be loved by myself no matter what. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1667 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 17, 2012 12:24 PM
It sucks because my boyfriend and I's relationship is pretty new but I guess we're holding up okay.But check out this crazy time frame: he first contacted me like a day before the Mercury retrograde in March. We started hanging out during it and we trucked through it. We then make it official right before the beginning of Venus Rx. It's been rocky. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 169 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 12:44 PM
For me it's kind of between what ail and RP said. Either people have been avoiding me, or I have been the avoidant one. I can't tell the difference, but eh live and let live... I am talking to someone new but I am giving them lots of space. Probably too much space.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3041 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 12:47 PM
When is this supposed to end, anyway?IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 169 From: En Cee Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 12:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by RegardesPlatero: When is this supposed to end, anyway?
It lasts until June 27. IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 02:44 PM
Thanks for all of your responses - I can relate to all of them. I -cannot- wait for this to be over and to feel normal again. 10 more days! I think this is one of the most unpleasant venus rx yet. (I know - "Wah" )IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 17, 2012 02:51 PM
Lol I didn’t get what all the fuss about venus Rx is, but I can kind of understand that it definitely makes feeling satisfied with relating to others and in relationships more difficult. For me, Venus Rx started with a service trip to Honduras with a student group from school which we have been planning ALL year. With the amount of time we had things really should have been organized, but NOTHING on that trip went smoothly. Pretty much a disaster as far as the project was concerned, and people didn’t exactly get along. It was just confusion and misunderstandings and conflict all around. (Still a positive experience overall though since I like traveling whatever the circumstances lol) Then I kept having awful vivid dreams about my ex leaving me for someone else or cheating on me (which did actually happen but this was years ago and I haven’t dreamed about/ felt that upset about that since) Then I had an argument with someone I’m currently interested in which was the culmination of months of things left unsaid and him avoiding me and etc. I also recently ran into two people from my somewhat recent past, one I had a fling with and one I myself have been trying to avoid. Anyway, I think I’ll be happy when this is over as well…
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DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1681 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 03:12 PM
It`s been good for me haven`t seen my ex-crush for a good while and i am happy about it.P.s read the last sentence that ail221 wrote and then read the first sentence Regardesplatero wrote what synchronicity.It was quite entertaining reading that. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1609 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 03:24 PM
Venus is transiting my 1st house... no WONDER I've been shopping like a maniac!!IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3041 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 03:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Venus is transiting my 1st house... no WONDER I've been shopping like a maniac!!
I've been shopping too, but I don't think it's a Venus transit. When I feel bad, I buy myself a present sometimes. I'm trying to curb the habit, though, and am hoping to have a yard sale or something soon. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2814 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 03:36 PM
Ive venus in house 11 and just for time I love to be alone in my house and garden....IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup Knowflake Posts: 309 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 08:05 PM
I'm in a new relationship which has been going fine, no troubles really. A few times I've felt hurt or not wanted but this is probably due to my own insecurities than anything else.The worst part of this Venus rX was having to confront past karma I've inflicted on another. One of my best friends from high school and the first couple years of college passed away. I wasn't the best friend to her and decided in a not-so-nice way to stop being friends with her. now I regret never patching things up while I've had the chance. So I am forced to confront all of the bad choices I've made in this friendship, and in friendships in general. But right now venus is transiting my 4th house. Very very sad. But ready to own up to my mistakes and move forward a better person. IP: Logged |
pirate7 Newflake Posts: 4 From: rio de janeiro Registered: May 2011
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posted June 17, 2012 09:11 PM
I met a new guy before it started, it was going really fine and the relatioship was consolidating, but the day venus entered retrograde he stoped calling me and didnt answered my messages.Oh, well, this transit isn't cool for anyone... IP: Logged |
larakay Newflake Posts: 8 From: California, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 17, 2012 10:51 PM
This is my worst retrograde to date! I lost my job, bills continue to pop up out of nowhere (and I have barely any money to pay them), I barely get any responses to my business (which is still growing and doesn't support me fully financially...hence the need for a job) which was BOOMING before Venus. And did I mention my finances are a mess? Ugh. I have 5 planets ruled by Venus (all in Taurus), she is kickin' my tush right now. And I don't even bother dating, I'm riding this one out til Venus has done her business and moved on. Oh and a business partnership fell apart too. Sigh... 10 more days of this messiness, only 10 more days. I swear the only thing that has made me not give up is knowing this is temporary. IP: Logged |
larakay Newflake Posts: 8 From: California, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 17, 2012 11:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by pirate7: I met a new guy before it started, it was going really fine and the relatioship was consolidating, but the day venus entered retrograde he stoped calling me and didnt answered my messages.Oh, well, this transit isn't cool for anyone...
I'm sorry hun, I've been there too. Perhaps when She goes direct something will shift? IP: Logged |
enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 512 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 11:03 PM
quote: This retrograde is frustrating, either I don't feel anything emotionally/sexually or the polar opposite no in-between. Aside from going to work and going to the gym I have been trying to avoid people.
^^^ Kind of like this, only not quite. I've been the most apathetic I've been toward relationships/dating/men than I have been in years. I've also just been going to work, going to the gym, and avoiding people. I hate to say it, but it's actually been good for me. I'm focusing on my career and I'm actually thinking about moving to a different city where some of my other friends live. As a result, I am doing some major job hunting/applying right now. Maybe it will start to pan out for me once Venus goes direct again. Unfortunately finances have been biting me in the butt, but I think after this retrograde I'm going to have a lot of my debts cleared away (just paid off a massive one). Plus, I've cut some extraneous expenses out of my budget. Hopefully that'll help free me up to move. So yeah... Not bad, but definitely NOT focused on dating/relationships like I have been in the past, and the Venus retrograde is happening in my 7th house. Go figure. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2595 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 17, 2012 11:45 PM
It's acting like mercury rx for me. I lost work bc both of my PC's died and I haven't been able to write my column because I can't do that on my cell. I'm miserable about it. No bueno.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 2723 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 18, 2012 12:34 AM
i've been feeling anti-social and disconnected from people in general. Also kinda getting mixed signals from a girl im interested in at work. IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 75 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted June 18, 2012 07:03 AM
I hear you, Diana - it's been acting a little like Mercury rx combined with venus rx for me as well. I think I'm going to need a vacation when this is over, lol. IP: Logged |
anno_lucis Newflake Posts: 13 From: uk Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 18, 2012 07:15 AM
Started a new relationship sometimes around may 30th...its been rocky to say the least. weve broken up once already but our plutos and our junos are conjunct so we cant really leave each other alone.Ive got a retrograde venus natally in 7th but it is transiting my third house and his seventh...its been emotional. I know im hard work for him (he has a 12th house venus natally) and i have been feeling like jacking it in a lot when i dont get the attention i feel i need (read:aries demands met lol) weve got alot of strong aspects though so we wont quit just yet... IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero Moderator Posts: 3041 From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop Registered: Sep 2011
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posted June 18, 2012 07:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ann7: I hear you, Diana - it's been acting a little like Mercury rx combined with venus rx for me as well. I think I'm going to need a vacation when this is over, lol.
me too
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 1682 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 18, 2012 10:07 AM
UGH! I was almost done typing when my computer decides to shut down and restart!I would type again but I'm up north and the people I'm up north with are beginning to wonder why I'm being anti social. So I better start my day and try again later. IP: Logged |