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bullseye
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posted June 20, 2012 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Firstly, he's an Aqua (Taurus rising) with Capricorn moon, venus, mercury, and a sag Mars.

I am quite intrigued by him, and I genuinely don't want to mess even a friendship up because I tend to be very stagnant when it comes to an approach. I'm not interested in games or anything like that, but the Taurus inside of me is backing away due to the fact that has a million girls after him (his band is finally being noticed for all of their hard work!)and I don't want to feel silly.

How would you approach someone with this chart? What are the red flags for these fellows? He is very charming, but I feel as if there is a little superficiality between us because all he ever opens our conversations with are compliments geared towards my looks, or the odd "So when is our wedding again?" / "I need to see you when I'm in town." Is this expected? Should I be impartial or patient from the looks of it?

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hannaramaa
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posted June 20, 2012 02:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bullseye:
Firstly, he's an Aqua (Taurus rising) with Capricorn moon, venus, mercury, and a sag Mars.

I am quite intrigued by him, and I genuinely don't want to mess even a friendship up because I tend to be very stagnant when it comes to an approach. I'm not interested in games or anything like that, but the Taurus inside of me is backing away due to the fact that has a million girls after him (his band is finally being noticed for all of their hard work!)and I don't want to feel silly.

How would you approach someone with this chart? What are the red flags for these fellows? He is very charming, but I feel as if there is a little superficiality between us because all he ever opens our conversations with are compliments geared towards my looks, or the odd "So when is our wedding again?" / "I need to see you when I'm in town." Is this expected? Should I be impartial or patient from the looks of it?


My Aqua guy friend has Sag mars and is quite the lady's man. It's just effortless for him. I find Aqua sun/Sag Mars guys tend to say the same things to different girls and (maybe this is just him) they have a distinct "type." If he's making those kind of comments to you in general, it's a good sign because it's flirty but your Taurus self might not like that. Taurus tends to take things as a Cancer would - literally. As for the Cap in his chart, and seeing as how he's in a band I feel like if he wants you he would come and get you. Your best bet is to play up your slow Taurus ways because he will love the chase.

I would also suggest not approaching him, at least with straight up romantic intentions. Strong emotions or wants tend to scare Aquas...maybe not completely away but they keep their distance for awhile.

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bullseye
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posted June 20, 2012 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay! I know Aquas can be slow moving, and his cap moon makes it even worse from what I've gathered. He does seem quite shy though, and I'm genuinely surprised that I get these glimpses of very bold characteristics, it's almost completely contradictory. I like it, but it is hard to decide if he's just not messaging me because he wants space all the time (thank goodness because I need that too) or hrs not interested, OR if he's truly just shy and won't initiate much more because im being a typical Taurus and I come off as uninterested.

Don't caps need reassurance? Is that only in established relationships? And I'm sure he says that to a lot of girls, despite being told from others he oddly never takes advantage of the amount of ladies willing to fall at his feet, he seems to know how to use his words when we banter.

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ail221
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posted June 20, 2012 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg I this combination is one of my favorite.Honestly I get such a Kennedy vibe from these type of men. Aquarius guys like this usually are a bit more low key about women they are seriously interested in even if their outerward appearance may make them such like a possible player even with the Sagittarius mars. The shyness is so adorable. Personally I feel like the Capricorn balances out the detachment of Aquarius and strengthens the humanitarian side of their personality.

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amowls**
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posted June 20, 2012 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aqua with a Sag Mars and I'm really flirty... but only with people I'm attracted to. So obviously he's attracted to you.

His Cap placements might make him more steadfast, too.

The thing about me though is I don't make moves unless someone shows they are interested. If someone's too aloof with me, I back off.

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freebrainstorms
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posted June 20, 2012 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah i'm an aqua sun with an earth moon, and a sag mars. i definitely frighten easily, but I think he definitely wants you if he's joking around like that, he's just taking it light because that's what we do - it also helps protect our hearts. He obviously has a lot of earth so I assume that's why he's talking about marriage and secure things. I love capricorn moons, they're awesome once they feel safe.

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bullseye
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posted June 20, 2012 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So now it's just a matter of me allowing myself to show interest, and not just in my own ways because everyone knows a Taurus' approach is quite...masked. Now I have no excuse. Agh.

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bullseye
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posted June 20, 2012 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bullseye     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So now it's just a matter of me allowing myself to show interest, and not just in my own ways because everyone knows a Taurus' approach is quite...masked. Now I have no excuse. Agh.

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