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Aeline
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posted June 20, 2012 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry. That's an exact aspect. Along with his South Node and my Moon exact conjunction. What does these mean? I would like to hear from someone, who has had something like that either. Anyone?

Would that imply that we've had previous experiences in the past lives, but now he is the one I'm stuck with, so that not moving either forward or back?

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posted June 20, 2012 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is not too good, as the Nodes are your purpose in life. IQ taught me to have great respect for the nodes. I have some info on the Nodes, if you want.
The Sun is one's identity, The nodes are one's goal and purpose, in life. The square is frustration and thwarting.

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posted June 20, 2012 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aeline:
Synastry. That's an exact aspect. Along with his South Node and my Moon exact conjunction. What does these mean? I would like to hear from someone, who has had something like that either. Anyone?

Would that imply that we've had previous experiences in the past lives, but now he is the one I'm stuck with, so that not moving either forward or back?



The relationship wont last. SN conjunct Moon means you were his mother or he was a woman who was your mother.

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posted June 20, 2012 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
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The relationship wont last.
SN conjunct Moon means you were his mother or he was a woman who was your mother.

Not true if they want the relationship too last it will last.One aspect alone does not mean a relationship wont last.Free will wins in the end.

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posted June 20, 2012 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Aeline:
[b]Synastry. That's an exact aspect. Along with his South Node and my Moon exact conjunction. What does these mean? I would like to hear from someone, who has had something like that either. Anyone?

Would that imply that we've had previous experiences in the past lives, but now he is the one I'm stuck with, so that not moving either forward or back?



The relationship wont last. SN conjunct Moon means you were his mother or he was a woman who was your mother.[/B][/QUOTE]


No, no, not mother. I actually have a lot of memories, even proven. Moon also means wife, these were my memories before i found the synastry thing... And also from info i got.

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posted June 20, 2012 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is not too good, as the Nodes are your purpose in life. IQ taught me to have great respect for the nodes. I have some info on the Nodes, if you want.
The Sun is one's identity, The nodes are one's goal and purpose, in life. The square is frustration and thwarting.



That would be great, could you share it?

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posted June 20, 2012 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure Aeline! xx

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posted June 20, 2012 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
Not true if they want the relationship too last it will last.One aspect alone does not mean a relationship wont last.Free will wins in the end.



This post of yours made me laugh hard. Carry on, carry on...

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posted June 20, 2012 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
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This post of yours made me laugh hard. Carry on, carry on...[/B]

Good to see your in a much better mood than yesterday,I see no CAPS!

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posted June 20, 2012 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
Good to see your in a much better mood than yesterday,I see no CAPS!


I'm always in a good mood. The caps are part of the fun.

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posted June 20, 2012 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
Not true if they want the relationship too last it will last.One aspect alone does not mean a relationship wont last.Free will wins in the end.


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posted June 20, 2012 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aeline,

When nodes have a major ties with personal planets, yes, you do have past life relations/ties.

I have Node reversal with someone, his Moon is conjunct my SN. I have wanted more info on this for a while now, I came across the bit that says it is a mother/child tie as well. I also can not indentify with that one bit. If you do not mind, since you are the Moon person in your case, could you share your experinces with it further( only if your comfotable). You mentioned you know it was a wife realtion,you have memories, what made you realize this?

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posted June 20, 2012 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What made me think that? Nothing. I just remember. After the sudden death of my father, i began to remember things from my past life. It's almost in two years i have remembered everything about that one life.. name, last name, place and year, and what happened. And you know what, i found myself, the same person that i dreamt about, I found in the archives, it felt really amazing to know.. and in those memories (which i had during dreams back then), I also remembered him. I lived those memories once again, i felt that unexplainable love, we shared once, i have never felt that in this lifetime though. At that time i didn't know that guy yet. And then when i met him, it was instant. I KNEW that it was that man, my long lost love. But it wasn't all happy and stuff, as i said, kinda tragic for both of us, unnatural death and all. Right now i am in the process of remembering another lifetime, this time consciously, through connecting to Tarot Arcanes (I work with Tarot a lot.. well i also am an occult student, have a Teacher and work with energies... eep into the occult and working with energies.. bioenergetics is what i mainly am about) That's the answer for - how did i figure it out.. So yes, it isn't a mother - child connection..


Well.. my feelings towards him, me being Moon, an him South Node. I can't even describe. It isn't an attraction on the earthly plane (sounds ridiculous, when i say that, but actually that's what i feel about it). An urge to be next to him. We can go along without words, just being next to each other. Feels like home. I would have a really hard situation, for example, i have trouble with speaking in front of a big public, i get nervous, though don't show it, but ok.. and if he is there, it just feels safe. I somehow know that everything is gonna be alright, the look in his eyes says me that. Also some kind of telepathic contact - when you intuitively know what he thinks about and says immediately couple of seconds later as you had this thought in your head.. I'll always be there for him, and somehow i suppose, he'll be too. And doesn't even matter, romantic relationship or not, just want him in my life, either way. Not to lose the touch, the sense of safety just knowing that he's around.

Something like this.


Could you tell what does the SN person feel? As from what i've seen, attraction is there, especially when hard times, i'll be the one who he talks to, helping me out without asking.. even his voice changes when talking to me.

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posted June 20, 2012 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 20, 2012 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
>>>He feels like my home.>>>

I used to say this exact thing about someone I had this with. I was also the SN person, he was the moon.

I felt like he was family and I just never wanted to be apart. I had unconditional love for him -- no matter what he did I forgave and forgot. I didn't even need to be romantic with him, just needed to know we'd always have a tie. I felt like I'd die if he wasn't in my life, like I wouldn't be able to live without him in my life (not in a romantic sense either). I'm not like that at all. Not a mushy type thinking I can't live w/o anyone (gags).

(I never feel this way about anyone, not even my actual family except for a few fam members.)

If we fought, I was the one who always returned to him. He never did. I never returned to anyone else in my life if we parted, friends or lovers, they always came back to me, but with him I always returned to him, always thought about him. I'm not that way with anyone else, don't reminisce, don't pine.

Then it all changed. I ended the friendship and I vowed to never return to him. He returned to me. Long--->short of it: Now I left again and will never talk to him. I'm fine with it and don't miss him at all. Writing all of this made me a little sad because I'd forgotten how much I cared for him, but I still don't care anymore.

Don't be blinded by this person. I never saw anything the way it really was with him. We had no neptune ties either.

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posted June 20, 2012 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus conj someone's SN. I felt the same about him as Diana said. He felt so close to me. Well, it didn't work out but that feeling of home was unlike any other.

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posted June 20, 2012 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I didn't even need to be romantic with him, just needed to know we'd always have a tie. I felt like I'd die if he wasn't in my life, like I wouldn't be able to live without him in my life (not in a romantic sense either). I'm not like that at all. Not a mushy type thinking I can't live w/o anyone (gags).

I can definitely relate to this feeling.
My moon conjunct his north node though but my ascendant (in cancer) conjunct his south node

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posted June 20, 2012 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a guy whose Nodes are exactly square my Sun.

I am definitely not OK with his life path. I tend to be very critical, although I don't say it out loud. At the end of the day - it is his own life and his prerogative... so it's not my business.

His Nodes are in Cancer (NN) and Capricorn (SN). The fact that he married early on in life to a woman who is extremely controlling and gives him zero freedom - upsets me.

I guess this may be a Cancerian NN thing. ^
She is older than him and literally acts as though he is her child and patronises him. He has no views of his own left - He just agrees with her at all times.
His career is also down the drain... and he is virtually living in her shadow.. This is sad because - he is MUCH more intelligent and better -at- his job - than she is (they work in the same area).. but she gets all the praise.. while he's in the background.
He is a Leo Sun - which only makes it sadder - that she has killed him to this extent.

I can see how maybe this is his Nodes playing out between SN (career) - Capricorn and NN - (marriage/family) - Cancer.

Being an Aries... I can sympathise with his Leo Sun - and I feel bad for him - but I am also critical.. since I feel like he should have had the strength not to end up in this situation - and secondly - now that he's here... he should have the strength to get himself out of it (before they... God forbid - - dare I even say it? - Have *kids*)

On some level - he is aware of how I feel ^ and I think he is scared of me... because in virtue of being myself... I provoke change in him... and he is not ready to 'change'... Or maybe he is just apprehensive.

Even though a Cancer NN could relate to being a family-man... and on the surface - this would seem to be what he is doing - so it *should* be a good thing --- I think it is actually deceptive. Because Cancer NN can also be about genuine/true love - which he certainly does not have in his marriage.

Anyway - I'm basically blabbering ^^^
There you have it! You could say - my Sun squaring his Nodes.. means that I have a passionately adverse reaction to his choices in life - and I have a strong desire to *shock* him OUT of the mess he is in.

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posted June 20, 2012 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:

There you have it! You could say - my Sun squaring his Nodes.. means that I have a passionately adverse reaction to his choices in life - and I have a strong desire to *shock* him OUT of the mess he is in.

thanks for sharing this. I always wondered how the planet person feels towards the nodes person in a square. At one point I was led to believe that with a square, the nodes person is the only one to feel it and the planet can't really see what is happening

On that same guy with whom I have a moon-NN conjunction, his venus- moon pluto opposition square my nodes. And as the nodes person I felt like he was pushing me to actually find a way to integrate my south node and use it to grow towards my north node.
I have a pluto square nodes natally and I have noticed that people who made me realize and think about how I was leaving my life always triggered my pluto. Somehow I feel sort of compelled to have them around, even when it's very challenging

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posted June 21, 2012 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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>>>He feels like my home.>>>

I used to say this exact thing about someone I had this with. I was also the SN person, he was the moon.

I felt like he was family and I just never wanted to be apart. I had unconditional love for him -- no matter what he did I forgave and forgot. I didn't even need to be romantic with him, just needed to know we'd always have a tie. I felt like I'd die if he wasn't in my life, like I wouldn't be able to live without him in my life (not in a romantic sense either). I'm not like that at all. Not a mushy type thinking I can't live w/o anyone (gags).

(I never feel this way about anyone, not even my actual family except for a few fam members.)

.....

Then it all changed. I ended the friendship and I vowed to never return to him. He returned to me. Long--->short of it: Now I left again and will never talk to him. I'm fine with it and don't miss him at all. Writing all of this made me a little sad because I'd forgotten how much I cared for him, but I still don't care anymore.

Don't be blinded by this person. I never saw anything the way it really was with him. We had no neptune ties either.


I went through almost the same exact thing with an ex-boyfriend whose moon was/is conjunct my SN.

Unlike your story, we barely ever fought, but if we parted to date other people, we always came back together, it was like a force.

But it all fell apart eventually. I was the one who ended it.

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Fast forward to the present, I am married to a man whose sun is square my nodes (and his nodes, since our nodes are almost conjunct.)

I do feel like he blocks my evolution in some ways. For instance he hates astrology and all metaphysical inquiry...and I love it.

But I'll never quit trying to evolve in spite of that...it's not like he controls my destiny.

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posted June 21, 2012 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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every single thing you have written is exactly how i feel about him. I know exactly what you are saying/feeling about the love not being on an earthly plane. The love I have for him is all of me and all the parts of me that I am even not aware of existed. They have all opened and taken over after he came. He feels like my home. He came into my life so unexpectdly and the first day i met him i started to have dreams.Although my dreams were not anything about the past(heres a link about my dreams http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum15/HTML/002605.html). When I first layed eyes on him, something in my core, or everything inside me felt awake. Something from that day on was the begining of a new me. I have the greatest need to be around him, even though I can feel him just as stongly without. And I know exaclty what you are saying about everything being okay with him. I can always feel him, when ever I am afraid of something, he comes to my mind and all of a sudden everything feels okay. This is why I miss him so deeply all the time. Like I have never missed anyone. When i first met him, felt him, it scared me how I felt about him. Like I have never felt before, almost like this is what I was waiting for all this time, this is what I was missing. Our energy always seems syncorinzed. Everything could be done without any words. He freed my mind, heart, soul in a way. My life has changed and I have changed.The love I have for him is like no other love I have. I have met higher selves of me since and it continues.

Your are so lucky to have been able to see into your past with him, what ever the purpose of that is.Are you guys currently in touch or not like us....


We are not together as a couple, but we are in touch.. I honestly don't know what would i do, if i hadn't him. So I guess, both Moon and SN practically feel the same. But SN person is the one that is able to let go sooner... ?

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posted June 21, 2012 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 21, 2012 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
I went through almost the [b]same exact thing with an ex-boyfriend whose moon was/is conjunct my SN.

Unlike your story, we barely ever fought, but if we parted to date other people, we always came back together, it was like a force.

But it all fell apart eventually. I was the one who ended it.

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Fast forward to the present, I am married to a man whose sun is square my nodes (and his nodes, since our nodes are almost conjunct.)

I do feel like he blocks my evolution in some ways. For instance he hates astrology and all metaphysical inquiry...and I love it.

But I'll never quit trying to evolve in spite of that...it's not like he controls my destiny.

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Did you end it because you woke up one day and realized he wasn't who you thought?

I'm wondering if this contact is one that pretty much ensures it ends. I think it's really easy to snow the sn person when the moon hits it because they're blinded by their feelings and can't see what's really going on, like neptune on steroids or something. I mean it's like an eclipse.

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posted June 22, 2012 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Diana:
Did you end it because you woke up one day and realized he wasn't who you thought?


It was sudden, yes. Like a veil coming off. I realized that my emotions had been lingering too long for someone who no longer even existed...he had changed so much from the time I first fell in love with him.

So my south node was totally wrapped up with him, but in a north node moment of clarity (my NN is Scorpio) I saw the total picture and realized I had to go.

As for whether or not it's usually this way...it'd be nice to hear more feedback from others, too.

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posted June 22, 2012 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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We are not even in touch,in fact I barely know anything about him, we met at kind of a turning point in my life.I couldnt handle the intesity of my feelings for him plus other obligations so I left. Somehow, deep down inside, even then I knew clearly, that this was something I was always going to hold on to, something I would always remember. I cannot speak on his behalf or about how he feels but for me but the way I feel has only grown over time. I dont know if I will ever let go. It feels like it is infinitly bound to me. If I had a chance to be wit him, I would.


Well, from my part i can assure you, he remembers you too, because if he's the Moon, he's drawn to you too. I am lost in what i feel, from one side i would like to end it, to don't feel it, but then again - it's what makes me feel alive, the bond is unbreakable. Even if it's only in our spirits..

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