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posted June 20, 2012 03:51 PM            

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I'm new to lindaland and to online forums in general, but since I am currently struggling in my personal life I figured perhaps someone here could help. I was dating a cancer guy for a couple of months, but then he moved away. Prior to his move, we both stated we could not do a long distance relationship. I'm a scorpio. We decided to be friends once he left a few months ago (he wanted to remain friends, that was not my suggestion), but I'm having trouble moving on. I'm wondering if he could also be having similar troubles? I've never dated a cancer before so any insight would be helpful. Thank you!

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posted June 20, 2012 04:14 PM            

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The beauty of longing,that's something water signs do,especially Cancers and Pisces; however,you must not mistake this for "I miss them badly" feelings.

Not much we can do,with Sun sign only.

btw - naturally you didn't suggest him to stay friends,I mean,you are a Scorp

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posted June 20, 2012 04:35 PM            

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thanks for the response VenusDiSirius!! i really appreciate it! yes, i do long for him and perhaps i am misconstruing that feeling for that of missing him. i will admit that i have told him i missed him almost every day since he left.

what other things do you need to know? i can tell you that his moon is in gemini and cancer is in venus. i don't know his ascendant since i don't know his birth time.

haha, yes, i'm not very good with the friend thing it turns out!! it's funny too since i had always wanted to stay friendly with people i dated before him. i guess that is very not scorpio of me. but i have to say, that i'm also not vengeful at all. i don't think i have ever tried to seek revenge on someone that i feel has betrayed me or wronged me and i know that is not very scorpio of me.

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posted June 20, 2012 04:50 PM            

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Cancer Venus,just like me - we are mood brats Heavens forbid he has Sun/Ven conjunction

A synastry would be good,go to astro.com

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posted June 20, 2012 05:20 PM            

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is a synastry a chart with both of our information?

if so, i don't see any sun conjunction venus.

if it's not a composite type of chart, just a chart with his info, he still does not have that aspect.

i see that in my chart i do have a sun conjunction venus though, whatever that means...

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posted June 20, 2012 05:22 PM            

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no, my last post is incorrect!!

he does have a sun conjunction venus!!!

what does that mean?!?!

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posted June 20, 2012 05:47 PM            

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Oh special kind of narcissism Bless them,they are charming,huge smiles,but that can be too much

I meant for him,natally,but I'd like to see the synastry of you two!

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posted June 20, 2012 09:40 PM            

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^^^ Does sun conjunct Venus mean narcissism?

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posted June 20, 2012 09:51 PM            

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posted June 20, 2012 10:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
^^^ Does sun conjunct Venus mean narcissism?

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In various degrees of development,yes. Sometimes endearing,sometimes annoying to no end.

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