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bretagnesade
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posted June 21, 2012 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bretagnesade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi!

I was hanging out with a friend and he told me he "can not deny me."

Prior to this, I was checking our charts. It's a bit inaccurate due to him not knowing the time of his birth and being on born on the Autumn equinox is awkward but none of the aspects I've seen seems to fit this catagory.

Sun Conjunction Sun 2.42 117
Sun Conjunction Mercury 1.22 345
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 4.23 128
Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 4.08 104
Mercury Sextile Pluto 0.34 64
Venus Sextile Venus 0.48 96
Venus Square Pluto 1.59 -77
Mars Trine Saturn 2.06 59
Mars Square Uranus 0.25 -114
Mars Square Neptune 1.44 -81
Jupiter Sextile Mars 1.57 45
Saturn Trine Sun 3.02 74
Saturn Trine Mercury 1.02 84
Uranus Conjunction Uranus 4.12 58
Neptune Conjunction Uranus 0.03 94
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 2.12 69
Pluto Conjunction Pluto

These are the aspects Cafeastrology says we have but these vary depending on what time I decide to choose for his birth lol.

Anyways, I was wondering if anyone has had any experience with the whole "can't deny you" part of synastry. I'd love to hear your stories.

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Lonake
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posted June 21, 2012 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well there is a Venus sq Pluto <-- quite passionate

I've had this with people when we have conj Venus, since my own Venus is sq Pluto. Even tho I have the natal aspect, to be Pluto in this one is quite hot

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Lotis White
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posted June 21, 2012 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In what way can’t he deny you? Are you just a friend that he can’t say no to? Or does he have a thing for you?

I did a quick scan of you synastry and the thing that stood out to me in terms of aspects was a tight Venus/Venus sextile…. Venus rules our charm and appeal, so it might be hard to say no to someone when they come at you with a Venus type energy, like you can’t say no their sweet face…

Another thing I noticed is Pluto/Mercury and Pluto/Venus in the synastry… Pluto is usually persuasive, and insightful energy…. I don’t know who is who in the synastry so it’s hard to say how this one plays out.

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aquaguy91
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posted June 21, 2012 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus pluto can do that

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Milkyshutter
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posted June 21, 2012 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Milkyshutter     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If outer planets make significant connections to inner planet to one another, I think I can relate to this "can not deny someone."

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IndigoDirae
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posted June 23, 2012 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check Hebe aspects? I'm surprised how much Hebe figures in the desire to be of service / help to another person. How much we 'can't say no' to them.

-A.

P.S. Sorry, I always gripe, 'But you didn't give me the number!' Just Google it.

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bretagnesade
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posted June 23, 2012 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bretagnesade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you! All of you have been insightful. We are "just friends" but it's been a little rocky as far as romance goes. There was a bit of unrequited feelings that I had for him and I think that comes from a Neptune aspect...not sure which one.

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