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Topic: Aqua with a Venus in Capricorn
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bullseye
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posted June 22, 2012 06:17 PM
  
He is so silent! Do these people want to be texted or should I just leave him to his own devices? I know that they lose interest quickly so I don't want to make a fool out of myself by texting him it I also don't want to give him the impression that I'm not interested if he still is. I'm a slow mover though so I tend to wait on the other person to text and message. He compliments me when we do talk and our conversations are flirtatious and funny, lighthearted banter which I love, but I guess I'm still confused because he does have mars in sag and those people tend to be flirty with anyone. Opinions? IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted June 22, 2012 06:21 PM
I know a few Venus in Capricorn people.My mother does NOT like chit chatting with me at all. She is a Sag sun and Gemini moon, so that's weird. She seems to hate small talk. She does things for people, but she's not really nurturing. She can be overbearing at times. She's not a bad person, but she cannot deal with emotions. Me being a very emotional person, it drives me nuts. Another Cap Venus that I know is also really cold and not warm at all. Never responds to anything. I don't talk to that one anymore. Anymore, I think that's just how they are, Cap Venus people. Silent. Don't enjoy chatting. Easily annoyed by it (my mom definitely is that way). Focused on their special projects; hate being interrupted. IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
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posted June 22, 2012 06:22 PM
Even if, Venus is placed in Capricorn, Aquas are hard nut to crack. However, they value friendship, so might as well befriend him for a while. Capricorn is really good at hiding their feelings. However, they have a chink that would let you slip into their heart. That's pretty much the only way in to win a capricorn's heart. ( I know I am a capricorn)
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bullseye
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posted June 22, 2012 06:27 PM
I'm just worried texting him will make him think I'm annoying or overbearing. I've heard that about Aquas. I guess it's a chance you have to take though.IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted June 22, 2012 06:32 PM
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Originally posted by bullseye:
I'm just worried texting him will make him think I'm annoying or overbearing. I've heard that about Aquas. I guess it's a chance you have to take though.
Honestly, I wouldn't recommend that with a Venus in Capricorn. I've had bad experiences with that. It does not go well. They will deliberately ignore you, even if you're polite, courteous, sensitive to their feelings, considerate, and do not say anything remotely offensive. They'll be icy to you later, too. Could you try talking to him in person, maybe? IP: Logged |
bullseye
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posted June 23, 2012 12:08 AM
I don't know what to do. I always wait too long and lose people and I don't want this to happen with this guy but I feel as if he's just silent and won't give me anything in terms of a text or a conversation they occurs more than once a week. Hrmph.I'll be seeing him in August. He made it very clear that he "absolutely needed" to see me when he comes to town so well see if that goes well. An aqua can change their mind so quickly though. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 23, 2012 12:31 AM
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Originally posted by bullseye:
I don't know what to do. I always wait too long and lose people and I don't want this to happen with this guy but I feel as if he's just silent and won't give me anything in terms of a text or a conversation they occurs more than once a week. Hrmph.I'll be seeing him in August. He made it very clear that he "absolutely needed" to see me when he comes to town so well see if that goes well. An aqua can change their mind so quickly though.
There's that famous earth sign worry, lol. Text him, but don't carry on a full blow conversation over text. Surprise him, he's an Aqua. Get him curious. Not about you but anything, bring up whale hunting and your thoughts about it. They HATE small talk so just dive right in. I know a Venus in Capricorn and he is always on his phone texting the girl he likes. She's a Cap with Venus in Aquarius, whereas he's an Aquarius with Venus in Cap so they're probably really in sync. But! Signs aren't everything. It's always good to pay attention to someone you like and let them pay attention to you too. One thing about Venus in Caps is it's an earth sign, and it's a Capricorn nonetheless. Out of all the earth sign I would say this one is the most goal oriented. If he made it clear he wants to see you then he is going to see you. Capricorns finish what they start (probably why Aries get on their nerves so much, ha!) So there's that reassurance. Two, you need to stop being anxious. Relax and take him in baby steps. I've heard conflicting things about Venus in Capricorn. I hear they like their control, and they like making the moves but at the same time if someone makes the moves on them wouldn't that put them in control also? Hmm. The big picture is they like feeling in charge and as though they came up with the idea of whatever it is. So you can plant the seed in their heads knowing all along what your goal is, and wait for them to come around. If you just outright ask them they probably aren't as keen on agreeing because you beat them to the punch. I'm going on a whim with that one but I'm pretty sure it's their psychology in a roundabout way. IP: Logged |
Wild Places
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posted June 23, 2012 01:30 AM
I'm an Aqua Sun woman, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Aqua. While I'm female - this might be the closest you're going to get in terms of understanding (on this thread today).If I'm TOTALLY into someone, like absolutely over the moon - I want to text, talk, play, share all my time...wait, to a point. I actually really really value my independence, and so, despite how much I completely adore someone, I have so many interests and friends and family that I choose to spread my time on - that to become consumed with one person is not my style. It used to be when I was younger (in my 20s and earlier)...I'm 33 now and am happy to go at a relaxed pace. IF however, I'm kind of into someone, and they message me to hang out, the next step is for me to get back to them. If they message me again - I get this unfair voice in my head that's annoyed with it - because really, the second message has prompted me to guilt. I know I ought to have gotten back to that person, but because I'm not that into him, I didn't...so, I think to myself, "oh, he's needy"... But your guy, has made it clear he will be in your area in August - and he HAS to see you. You aren't clear here (on the forum) as to why you two can't talk until then? That's two months out. I know a Sag Sun/Venus Scorp/Libra Mars who I adore who is the kind of guy who, while I adore him, is just plain flaky. He is a lot like myself - just less attentive (which I didn't think possible). Very out-of-sight, out-of-mind...which isn't to say you aren't somewhere in his heart. What matters is: actions - and what works for you. Don't sweat the text/don't text bit. Send him a message and say something lighthearted like "I had an awesome day, saw (insert comical/nostalgic anecdote here) - realized it's been a bit since we chatted. How the heck are ya?" I dunno. That's what I do when I sweat it. I keep it easy-breezy and I get a conversation going. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 23, 2012 01:45 AM
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Originally posted by Wild Places:
Don't sweat the text/don't text bit.
Yesyesyes. Especially with an Aqua/Cap/Sag guy. A text is so small, we are so infinite... you have bigger problems in a relationship to sweat about than talking to him or not!!! TEXT HIM. So you can tell us.  IP: Logged |
bullseye
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posted June 23, 2012 02:19 AM
I live in a different city and rarely go home so a sure fire hangout isn't going to happen, if it were to happen before he was for sure in my town it would be last minute based on my visiting home. He is in a band, he'll be here in two months and wants to see me then. Hr added me on Facebook after briefly meeting, never said anything until a month ago and we've had some conversations in that period of time. He's initiated all of them, but I do feel as if they're a little superficial because they all begin with compliments. If that's the only thing he cares about then I surely will be upstaged at any moment, something as interchangeable as an attraction is never long lasting these days. I'm already nervous about August, I'm such a geek. My earthy worry is getting the best of me though. I'm ok with friendship, that's actually an idea that's amazing to me right now, but to think of missing out because I become too complacent with the idea of being patient has my stomach in knots. I'm so goal oriented, I have so many ambitions that I seem to take by the horns but I just suck with goals of this nature. Like my goal to be more forward and not to over analyze silly texting etiquettes.....woops. IP: Logged |
Wild Places
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posted June 23, 2012 02:32 AM
adorable. we all get goosebumps and overanalytical over guys. i dont care what your sign is. we mellow with age it seems.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 23, 2012 02:46 AM
i'm an aqua with aqua venus and i text people 24/7, especially girls who interest me.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 23, 2012 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i'm an aqua with aqua venus and i text people 24/7, especially girls who interest me.
You're the only active Aqua guy member here, so I have to ask... how does a girl become an Aqua's best friend? Does he HAVE to be physically attracted to her to get to that point? I know three Aquas... one is my dad, and he's always raving about how my Aries mom is his best friend (yay!), the other is my friend and he's best friends with MY original best friend, and the other one is the Aqua at work who is best friends with the married girl in the back. The point is all of these Aquas are physically attracted to these girls, so I wondered... IP: Logged |
bullseye
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posted June 23, 2012 02:58 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i'm an aqua with aqua venus and i text people 24/7, especially girls who interest me.
Hrmph.  It's just weird. He knew I was getting a new phone and commented on how we could message each other through the messenger on it and how that was "wonderful news." he never asked for my number and then a week ago we started talking and he was like "Oh you got your new phone? (insert number)" I texted him with a little joke and my name do he knew what my number was and he replied with a "Good to know!!!!" and I didn't bother responding to that because small talk irks me. So I guess it's just a matter of no follow through for me. Gf says its wonderful that we can talk often but...no texts. Weird. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 23, 2012 03:02 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You're the only active Aqua guy member here, so I have to ask... how does a girl become an Aqua's best friend? Does he HAVE to be physically attracted to her to get to that point?I know three Aquas... one is my dad, and he's always raving about how my Aries mom is his best friend (yay!), the other is my friend and he's best friends with MY original best friend, and the other one is the Aqua at work who is best friends with the married girl in the back. The point is all of these Aquas are physically attracted to these girls, so I wondered...
yes, it certainly helps. i hate being an aqua because everyone just wants to be my buddy, i'm still a man i have needs. IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted June 23, 2012 03:03 AM
My ex was Aqua with Cap venus. ^_^ He used to text me a lot, was not silent at all. He proclaimed his love for me after 1-2 weeks of dating, very passionately too ^_^. He had Sag Moon though ^_^ ~ more outspoken. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted June 23, 2012 03:04 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You're the only active Aqua guy member here, so I have to ask... how does a girl become an Aqua's best friend? Does he HAVE to be physically attracted to her to get to that point?I know three Aquas... one is my dad, and he's always raving about how my Aries mom is his best friend (yay!), the other is my friend and he's best friends with MY original best friend, and the other one is the Aqua at work who is best friends with the married girl in the back. The point is all of these Aquas are physically attracted to these girls, so I wondered...
Only active Aqua guy member here?? "Here" as in on this thread? Okay, sure. Or, on this site? *Waves hand*
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hannaramaa
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posted June 23, 2012 03:06 AM
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Originally posted by bullseye:
Hrmph. It's just weird. He knew I was getting a new phone and commented on how we could message each other through the messenger on it and how that was "wonderful news." he never asked for my number and then a week ago we started talking and he was like "Oh you got your new phone? (insert number)" I texted him with a little joke and my name do he knew what my number was and he replied with a "Good to know!!!!" and I didn't bother responding to that because small talk irks me. So I guess it's just a matter of no follow through for me. Gf says its wonderful that we can talk often but...no texts. Weird.
Keep in mind Aqua guy has Venus in Aqua... yours and my guy have Venus in Capricorn, so they're going to act more like Sags and Aquas (and Aquas tend to have more Piscean traits which also falls under Sag because Sag and Pisces are both ruled by Jupiter..... #confusingiknow) and I find that "Sags" are the type of people who come around when they want to come around, leave when they want to and the distance doesn't mean anything to them. Which is great that they can feel as strongly about you apart, as they can together, but not so great if you're a Taurus who favors boundaries and consistency. But as usualy, Taurus and Aries want what they want and they aren't going to stop until they get it or get an answer. :P The more relaxed you are about this, the easier the outcome will be on you (even if it's in your favor) - trust me.
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hannaramaa
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posted June 23, 2012 03:11 AM
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Only active Aqua guy member here?? "Here" as in on this thread? Okay, sure. Or, on this site? *Waves hand*
Say what?? I had no idea! I guess it's easier to remember that Aqua guy is...well, an Aqua, than say "12thhouser." But I'm excited for a new perspective (no offense AG) nonetheless! This Aqua/Merc Cap/Venus Cap guy at work is so...well, he's a p...y to be frank. I don't think he's interested in me enough to really do anything about it but I know he thinks I'm pretty and sing well. However, I don't understand why someone with those placement is so shy (and he's attractive too), and I want to know how to get him to see me as more than a work friend. NOT "more than a friend" because I don't really care about that anymore. I just want to stand out to him, and I don't feel like I do. Even though he does pay more attention to detail with me, than other people. I've worked with/around him for a year and we just barely started talking to each other and being cordial a month or two ago. He still doesn't get my sarcasm and takes it seriously, and I have yet to get a direct compliment from him. He has Mars in Scorpio, if that matters (sorry to jack your thread bullseye... at least both our guys have kind of the same placements!) I once casually said I was quitting, and he asked where I was going. I told him and he asked "Why don't you just stay here?" And he's not the kind of guy who comments on something just to keep the convo going (Merc Cap ya know.). Or the other day I was super tired and kind of annoyed at some news I found out (about him coincidentally) when I had to ring him out on register. I said something and it must've come across more aggressive than I intended but he's like "Why are you in a bad mood all of a sudden?" all wide eyed and waiting for an answer. Like I said... Cap doesn't waste time like that, you know? So I don't get it... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 23, 2012 03:14 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
My ex was Aqua with Cap venus. ^_^ He used to text me a lot, was not silent at all. He proclaimed his love for me after 1-2 weeks of dating, very passionately too ^_^. He had Sag Moon though ^_^ ~ more outspoken.
haha can you blame him? IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted June 23, 2012 03:17 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha can you blame him?
 Are you, like, flirting with me?? IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted June 23, 2012 03:18 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Are you, like, flirting with me??
haha no, messing with you. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted June 23, 2012 03:21 AM
omg you guys no. my heart sinks a little when i see there's two new replies and they're just playful spontaneous ones. that don't involve me. #thatssoaries.IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted June 23, 2012 03:22 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha no, messing with you.
OMG so defensive! LMAO! You're scared  IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted June 23, 2012 03:25 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
omg you guys no. my heart sinks a little when i see there's two new replies and they're just playful spontaneous ones. that don't involve me. #thatssoaries.
Aww sorry about that Aries sister! Don't know what to say, I never had to struggle to attract Aquas, they're drawn to me for some reason. Guess you need to give him space and do your own thing, he'll come to you. That's what worked for me. Aquas and Aries make good couple. It was my happiest RS. ^_^ IP: Logged |
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