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Topic: Venus Rx and the return of old flames
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maddi Knowflake Posts: 137 From: New Jerzee Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 25, 2012 05:22 PM
I have some questions about Venus Retrograde. I'll bullet them, as they are rather general, with complex backstories. Would a generous soul out there help me make sense of some rather confusing events taking place within my Natal Venus?--What to do about an old flame who comes back during Venus Retrograde? --Is this the time to rekindle, or run for the hills? --When you start a NEW relationship during Venus Retro, does it mean its doomed (as in short lived). --What's the best way to use Venus Retrograde in dead relationships? --What happens if you decide to end things during Venus Retro. Does it usually stay FINAL, like a full moon tends to do? Thanks in advance! IP: Logged |
novembermuse Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Summerville, SC, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted June 25, 2012 07:08 PM
I sure hope someones has the answers to these questions because I have asked some of those same questions. This past week I've had two exs make contact with me. Turned both of them done. I am currently talking with someone that I'm really blown away with but it's moving so slowly. But I think it's due to our saturn placements in synastry. It's not all bad because saturn is slow and steady. And I need slow and steady right now!!!IP: Logged |
Thefish Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 25, 2012 07:48 PM
I crossed paths with my ex I hadn't seen in nearly 3 years. She didn't say a word and neither did I.Retro venus is more of tying up loose ends meaning you still need to learn something from that prior relationship. It doesn't usualyl signify getting back together so to speak, but of coruse it doesn't mean it can't happen. Usually rekindling under Venus retro doesn't lead to anything long term. IP: Logged |
maddi Knowflake Posts: 137 From: New Jerzee Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 25, 2012 08:29 PM
I turned down three exes requests to chat. I ignored their attempts. One is a scorpio, i feel he isnt going to let me just ignore him. I had issues and low self esteem then. Now I'm strong and don't need to keeP setting myself up to get hurt. . I just let go of someone I met during Venus retrograde because it is a dead end. Nothing good could come of it. And I'm alright.It seems things are settled but I want to make sure I am doing the right things. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2930 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 25, 2012 10:08 PM
--What to do about an old flame who comes back during Venus Retrograde? A: If you still feel attraction to old flame, you stay in touch with him/her and go over any miscommunication or misunderstanding that might have contributed to the breakup, and see if there is potential for renewing the relationship. However, do not commit yet to the relationship. Wait for Venus to turn direct for that.--Is this the time to rekindle, or run for the hills? A: Depends on what kind of connection you had and how you still feel about each other. If you feel nothing toward old flame, let him/her know. --When you start a NEW relationship during Venus Retro, does it mean its doomed (as in short lived). A: Typically, new relationships started during that time are short lived. HOWEVER, if either or both of you has Venus RX natally in your chart, it's actually an excellent time to start a new relationship. --What's the best way to use Venus Retrograde in dead relationships? A: If the relationship is dead why try to revive it? If you still have feelings, then the relationship is not dead, then see answer to first question. --What happens if you decide to end things during Venus Retro. Does it usually stay FINAL, like a full moon tends to do? A: Full moon do not necessarily make things final. If you decide to end things during Venus retro, not sure if they will stay final. You may still have to wait for Venus Direct to see if relationship ending was really final. However, Venus retro can help clarify that a relationship is not viable, so in that sense, an ending can be final. IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: on the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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