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posted June 27, 2012 06:49 PM            

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When you seemingly move on to a new shiny object, do you generally just leave the others in the dust? Or do you bother with trying to drift, where you'll drift in and out for a bit and then break off slowly?

This aqua with a capital moon seems to be obsessing over a new girl and I cant help but feel I'm not even on his mind at all. I know that's the case I guess I just like hearing how this is characteristic or uncharacteristic for a cappy mooner.

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posted June 27, 2012 07:20 PM            

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When doors are shut,they are shut for good don't know would this be case with your Cap Moon friend;

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posted June 27, 2012 07:58 PM            

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When I move onto to something new, I forget about what I moved away from. Sometimes I feel guilty if there's still attachment on the other side, and I try to let 'em down easy...

Once, a person wouldn't accept the fact I'd moved on. I cut 'em out plain and simple. Yes, it was cold, but they wouldn't understand,

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posted June 27, 2012 08:04 PM            

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I'm the same ^^

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posted June 27, 2012 08:10 PM            

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About cutting people out though.... the only times in my life when I completely cut a person out .... were when I felt like this person (friend or lover) was draining my energy.
I am very practical - and my energy is divided-up and channelled into specific areas.. I need to feel like I am moving forward. If something drags me back - kind of like a weight attached to my foot - I will get rid of it.

Usually they can drag me back by wasting my time in some way - and overall just tiring me - when I have other things to do..
The other thing is being non-supportive when it comes to my goals. If I have a goal that is very serious for me - and a friend decides to have the reaction that: "Ohh! That would be SO difficult - Are you sure you want to do that?" ---- Cut out in that second.. Gone!
I need a person like that ^ like I would need a splinter in my foot right before running a marathon...
Seriously! I think it is a perfect analogy ^ and that is HOW much they would bother me... just so Non-Cap Mooners - get a mental picture here.

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posted June 27, 2012 08:53 PM            

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As a cap moon, I can tell you that once I cherish something ,or someone, or a relationship, I will always cherish it. I will always somehow keep a place for them in my heart. I may move on to some other "shiny objects" as you said but the truth is I don't forget the things and the people I once held dear (and I still hold those people dear, always will). I think it mostly stems from the fact that capricorn is very commitment oriented. At least I know I am. And it takes me a lot of time for me to warm up to people and even more to fall for someone so I sort of value it more.

The only reason I would be cutting someone out completely is if they had hurt me in some ways OR if I knew it was the best thing to do for both of us.
capricorn is very much about doing what's best and what's the most responsible thing to do. Even if it must hurt them, even if they know they'll have hard time going through the decision they took, they will still do it because they have decided with logical facts that this is what must be done. And once they decide something there is no going back.

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posted June 27, 2012 09:41 PM            

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I know a Capricorn moon woman who still talks about her ex...from almost 30 years ago..shes since has remarried. I dont think she'll ever get over him.

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posted June 27, 2012 10:19 PM            

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Being a cap venus there's a simularity....I can move on but the person is always there in my heart. When I love I love deep. I can be cold when the person drains me and I'm not really feeling them and I can also be cold when I'm not sure of how the person feels about me.

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posted June 27, 2012 10:44 PM            

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Just a week ago he was opening conversations with "so when's our wedding? " and now he seems to not know I exist. I realize he's busy and I don't expect attention but don't talk about how we're going to text all the time when you get my number but never message me when you do... I'm a tad confused, especially because he seems to be obsessing over some other girls photos. Hah, look at me, acting so silly.

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posted June 29, 2012 12:48 AM            

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Originally posted by bullseye:
Just a week ago he was opening conversations with "so when's our wedding? " and now he seems to not know I exist. I realize he's busy and I don't expect attention but don't talk about how we're going to text all the time when you get my number but never message me when you do... I'm a tad confused, especially because he seems to be obsessing over some other girls photos. Hah, look at me, acting so silly.

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Bullseye, I could go to great lengths defending Capricorn Moons and imploring that you look to other factors in his chart that might indicate changeability, such as harsh uranus contacts, but he sounds like an absolute arse. Rather than waste your time trying to pin-point the precise astrological aspects which reflect this fact, I strongly suggest you get off the computer and go find someone better (sorry if that's a little harsh!). Hugs.

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posted June 29, 2012 08:42 AM            

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Despina,never complain,never explain! #CappyMoon

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