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beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted June 29, 2012 04:10 PM K, somehow this kind of concerns me but I'm having a hard time finding a good description of the effect. This fellow has Pluto conjunct (within 2 degrees of the Libra Descendant) (coming out of the 6th house) in Libra. He also has Uranus in Scorpio sitting in his 7th house (but NOT conj the Descendant)which is within 5 degrees of his North Node in Scorpio. I know I read that Uranus can be indicative of sudden endings in relationships and multiple relationships and that Pluto conj the Descendant indicates that the person wants to control their relationships (although it is in Libra, so would that soften it some?) On top if it all, he's a Leo sun and Aries rising so he's definitely already about control. Any feedback on these placements? IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted June 29, 2012 07:46 PM Im a Leo Sun with both Pluto/Uranus in H7... Only both Pluto/Uranus are in Libra... How do I describe my relationships.. humm Well I usually fall for Aqua Mars guys.. The aloofness.. I have met people in strange ways, my relationships are very intense and deep.. But when it gets to be to much or to clingy I cant stand it... Its like I want the pluto intensity, But at the same time I NEED the uranus freedom... It has to be intense, with some aloofness at the same time.. As for Pluto in H7 I worry that I will loose my own personal control.. The men that I dated.. Lets just say I know not to push certain buttons, cuz it would end in worse case scenario. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted June 30, 2012 12:11 AM quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Im a Leo Sun with both Pluto/Uranus in H7... Only both Pluto/Uranus are in Libra... How do I describe my relationships.. humm Well I usually fall for Aqua Mars guys.. The aloofness.. I have met people in strange ways, my relationships are very intense and deep.. But when it gets to be to much or to clingy I cant stand it... Its like I want the pluto intensity, But at the same time I NEED the uranus freedom... It has to be intense, with some aloofness at the same time.. As for Pluto in H7 I worry that I will loose my own personal control.. The men that I dated.. Lets just say I know not to push certain buttons, cuz it would end in worse case scenario. That's the thing that's so confusing about intense relationships...this guy seems to want to make things intense too but then he also seems to want to have no ties. It's very confusing. I basically have gotten into the habit lately of not messaging him much and letting him come to me.. IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted June 30, 2012 12:21 AM I can see your confusion.. The two engeries are so different and needing both ends of the stick so confuse partners.. Go with the intensity, but be somewhat aloof.. But give attention all at the same time... I guess the key to me, is to keep me wanting more.. Give a little, so I will come back for more.. Make sense??? IP: Logged
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 773 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011	posted June 30, 2012 12:48 AM I'm Sag Sun Aries Rising Pluto in Libra 6th house, conjunct both NN Libra 6th, and Libra DSC Uranus in Scorpio 7th house I have a Leo Mars and a Scorpio Venus, I can definitely identify with the relationship upheaval. I'm very controlling of my self, but not very controlling of others. I am more focused on controlling the conditions of the relationships I engage in. I am attracted to "certain types of people", and sometimes won't open my self to romantic possibilities in certain places, because I fear attracting the wrong kind of person or causing social problems over the attraction(at work for example). Otherwise I just engage people as a friend. When I see issues of relationships being disrespectful of me or trying to be controlling of me, I tend to burn the bridge. I on the other hand, only fall for people who I consider exceptional. Fortunately I have a lot of earth so I don't fall easily for an ideal (characteristic of Uranus), but for the person's real merits. My only "demand" is that they treat me with the same amount of respect and freedom I offer them. My Uranus loves unique people, the more freedom and space you give unique people, the more beautiful they become. I could see the freedom thing being less of a factor with a Sun in Leo person as opposed to a Sagittarius though. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted June 30, 2012 05:01 PM quote: Originally posted by Lioness: I can see your confusion.. The two engeries are so different and needing both ends of the stick so confuse partners.. Go with the intensity, but be somewhat aloof.. But give attention all at the same time... I guess the key to me, is to keep me wanting more.. Give a little, so I will come back for more.. Make sense??? Sounds like wonderful advice but I'm not sure how I do all of those things at the same time! I admire the man and I have stroked his ego many a time telling him so, have been very communicative with him and at the same time I've lately pulled back from being the first one to send a message but I'm warm when he does talk to me. Now we have just been silent with each other for day 3 after his little moodiness mid-week over me not arguing with him when he sensed I wasn't happy about something. The whole thing just makes me sad. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted June 30, 2012 05:04 PM quote: Originally posted by Xiiro: I'm Sag Sun Aries Rising Pluto in Libra 6th house, conjunct both NN Libra 6th, and Libra DSC Uranus in Scorpio 7th house I have a Leo Mars and a Scorpio Venus, I can definitely identify with the relationship upheaval. I'm very controlling of my self, but not very controlling of others. I am more focused on controlling the conditions of the relationships I engage in. I am attracted to "certain types of people", and sometimes won't open my self to romantic possibilities in certain places, because I fear attracting the wrong kind of person or causing social problems over the attraction(at work for example). Otherwise I just engage people as a friend. When I see issues of relationships being disrespectful of me or trying to be controlling of me, I tend to burn the bridge. I on the other hand, only fall for people who I consider exceptional. Fortunately I have a lot of earth so I don't fall easily for an ideal (characteristic of Uranus), but for the person's real merits. My only "demand" is that they treat me with the same amount of respect and freedom I offer them. My Uranus loves unique people, the more freedom and space you give unique people, the more beautiful they become. I could see the freedom thing being less of a factor with a Sun in Leo person as opposed to a Sagittarius though. So you feel the urge for freedom big-time even with a Libra Descendant?? He has the same by the way... Funny what you said about refusing to get involved with certain types of people because he refuses to even be friends with someone at work let alone be romantic with anyone there. He also immediately cut off everyone in our group on Facebook when he left our guild (a gaming group) even though nothing nasty had happened, said it was just precautionary due to bad experiences... IP: Logged
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 773 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011	posted June 30, 2012 06:31 PM quote: Originally posted by beloved: So you feel the urge for freedom big-time even with a Libra Descendant?? He has the same by the way... Funny what you said about refusing to get involved with certain types of people because he refuses to even be friends with someone at work let alone be romantic with anyone there. He also immediately cut off everyone in our group on Facebook when he left our guild (a gaming group) even though nothing nasty had happened, said it was just precautionary due to bad experiences... The Libra energy in me doesn't manifest as a need to pare with someone or get into relationships. Libra manifests in me as a need to understand what makes people tick and relate with that depth in each individual. People fascinate me, so the desire is not generally a longing for deep romance, but deep camaraderie. I value an intense connection with others, even if I have only known them a short time. I can understand disconnecting from his former guild members, (though it seems a bit overkill in my opinion). Guilds are kind of a cross between a family and a sports team, so a lot of passionate interactions can fly around. For me, when I shut down a connection, it generally has to do with being offended or feeling I no longer have any room to grow in the situation. If I care about the people involved, I will make steps to communicate and find a compromise. Sometimes a compromise just can't be reached though and it becomes time to move on. I would advise caution with this guy, just as I would advise caution with my self. Uranus 7th house and Pluto conjunct DSC are both very intense, dynamic, submerged, and unpredictable energies. Uranus and Pluto together create an overpowering feeling of urgency for change. Sometimes you may not even know why a change is needed, you just know you have to get out NOW. It's very hard to explain, but the feeling takes over your every thought and feeling and essentially bugs you until you do something about it. I think the key for me is learning how to communicate. If there is a healthy dialogue and a healthy understanding of how all parties function emotionally, those upheavals are forever avoided with me. IP: Logged
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3162 From: Registered: Oct 2011	posted June 30, 2012 06:37 PM I'm a Capricorn with Pluto and Uranus in House 7 in Virgo, both Conjunct the DC. I think I do alright with my relationships. I don't have sudden endings. I've been married 19 years now. I don't seek power plays and manipulation. I don't see these as problematic. IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted June 30, 2012 07:32 PM quote: Originally posted by beloved: Sounds like wonderful advice but I'm not sure how I do all of those things at the same time! I admire the man and I have stroked his ego many a time telling him so, have been very communicative with him and at the same time I've lately pulled back from being the first one to send a message but I'm warm when he does talk to me. Now we have just been silent with each other for day 3 after his little moodiness mid-week over me not arguing with him when he sensed I wasn't happy about something. The whole thing just makes me sad. To be honest the moodiness will never go away.. Is that a leo trait??? IDK for sure.. But my moods are forever changing hour to hour day to day... Any little thing can change my mood for the rest of the day.. When he wants to be alone, just let it be.. He will come out when hes ready.. I know I confused you.. sorreeee... Not sure how to explain it, but I will try.. When your around him, keep it at the intensity level.. Also give him your complete and undivided attention (the leo side) dont text.. (unless emergency etc) things like that. Throw in some genuine complements. Only what you truly mean.. I really like talking to you, Im comfortable around you... blah blah blah.... When your not around him, dont ignore, ignoring a leo is not good advice Talk to him, but every once in a while be "busy" w/o ignoring him... Say something like.. I would like nothing more but to give you my attention, but right now I cant and I dont want to be unfair to you.. Can I call you back later? Or how ever you would personally phrase something like that.. The idea is to keep him wanting more.. Be available, yet hard to catch... Challenge him mentally.. Things like this really get me going.. Ill be honest I love love the thrill of the chase... Let me know if that makes sense. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 02, 2012 08:08 PM quote: Originally posted by Lioness: To be honest the moodiness will never go away.. Is that a leo trait??? IDK for sure.. But my moods are forever changing hour to hour day to day... Any little thing can change my mood for the rest of the day.. When he wants to be alone, just let it be.. He will come out when hes ready.. I know I confused you.. sorreeee... Not sure how to explain it, but I will try.. When your around him, keep it at the intensity level.. Also give him your complete and undivided attention (the leo side) dont text.. (unless emergency etc) things like that. Throw in some genuine complements. Only what you truly mean.. I really like talking to you, Im comfortable around you... blah blah blah.... When your not around him, dont ignore, ignoring a leo is not good advice Talk to him, but every once in a while be "busy" w/o ignoring him... Say something like.. I would like nothing more but to give you my attention, but right now I cant and I dont want to be unfair to you.. Can I call you back later? Or how ever you would personally phrase something like that.. The idea is to keep him wanting more.. Be available, yet hard to catch... Challenge him mentally.. Things like this really get me going.. Ill be honest I love love the thrill of the chase... Let me know if that makes sense. Well I definitely give him my undivided attention when we're together online and I compliment him sincerely (which he soaks up like a sponge.) We did used to text a lot and he actually encouraged me to text him, even at work which I believe is the Moon in Gemini thing because they crave communication. However, my problem right now is that since his mood on Wednesday night, he has not spoken to me once and yet we log into the same game each night and see each other online... He has not removed me from his friends list BUT he's not talking to me either. In the weeks we've known each other, the longest we ever went without talking before was 1 day so I feel very much at a loss as to what to do. I'm trying to give him his space because I suspect his daughter did not come to see him this past weekend (his visitation weekend) and I think he might be upset, on top of him being upset with me from Wednesday when I got quiet on him. BUT I also don't want him to think I'm ignoring him either since I know Leos would take offence to that. I feel sort of caught here as to what to do. I tried sending him a couple nice in-game items by mail a couple days ago, just saying "These are for (named his characters.) " and he did not even reply to me. I just wanted him to know that I was thinking about him and still cared for him but the silence is rather unnerving. Yet I think if he wanted nothing more to do with me he would've probably freaked out in a reply mail or removed me from his friends list and he did neither... What's your take on it, remembering that his moon in Gemini makes communication a huge thing to him as well. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 02, 2012 08:15 PM quote: Originally posted by Xiiro: The Libra energy in me doesn't manifest as a need to pare with someone or get into relationships. Libra manifests in me as a need to understand what makes people tick and relate with that depth in each individual. People fascinate me, so the desire is not generally a longing for deep romance, but deep camaraderie. I value an intense connection with others, even if I have only known them a short time. I can understand disconnecting from his former guild members, (though it seems a bit overkill in my opinion). Guilds are kind of a cross between a family and a sports team, so a lot of passionate interactions can fly around. For me, when I shut down a connection, it generally has to do with being offended or feeling I no longer have any room to grow in the situation. If I care about the people involved, I will make steps to communicate and find a compromise. Sometimes a compromise just can't be reached though and it becomes time to move on. I would advise caution with this guy, just as I would advise caution with my self. Uranus 7th house and Pluto conjunct DSC are both very intense, dynamic, submerged, and unpredictable energies. Uranus and Pluto together create an overpowering feeling of urgency for change. Sometimes you may not even know why a change is needed, you just know you have to get out NOW. It's very hard to explain, but the feeling takes over your every thought and feeling and essentially bugs you until you do something about it. I think the key for me is learning how to communicate. If there is a healthy dialogue and a healthy understanding of how all parties function emotionally, those upheavals are forever avoided with me. Thank you for those thoughts Xiiro. He told me once before that he was a "nomad" in that he seemed to always keep moving around and apparently he meant that in regards to people. When I asked him to explain, he said that it seemed every person he got involved with he seemed to have to teach them/help them with something and then he "ended up alone again" because he felt he had to leave for some reason or another (which he couldn't really explain when I asked him to clarify that.) I am the only person he has tried hard to keep in contact with after leaving the guild and in fact he only left because I had backed away and said I had to take a break from the game and the night I told him that was when he decided to leave because apparently he had only been staying for my sake and wasn't really interested in being there if I was not. He has still been very enthusiastic about being with me until this happening a few nights back when I got quiet and wasn't talking much (was feeling confused about his actions that night) and he wigged out and hasn't spoken to me since but keeps me on his friends list. He does know I have some abandonment issues from my childhood because he forced me to share a lot of my history with him one night after we had a fight so he knows how painful it would be if he just walks off and doesn't look back and told me that he felt I was "worth adjusting that for." But I don't know what to make of this current situation. IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted July 02, 2012 08:29 PM quote: Originally posted by beloved: Well I definitely give him my undivided attention when we're together online and I compliment him sincerely (which he soaks up like a sponge.) We did used to text a lot and he actually encouraged me to text him, even at work which I believe is the Moon in Gemini thing because they crave communication. However, my problem right now is that since his mood on Wednesday night, he has not spoken to me once and yet we log into the same game each night and see each other online... He has not removed me from his friends list BUT he's not talking to me either. In the weeks we've known each other, the longest we ever went without talking before was 1 day so I feel very much at a loss as to what to do. I'm trying to give him his space because I suspect his daughter did not come to see him this past weekend (his visitation weekend) and I think he might be upset, on top of him being upset with me from Wednesday when I got quiet on him. BUT I also don't want him to think I'm ignoring him either since I know Leos would take offence to that. I feel sort of caught here as to what to do. I tried sending him a couple nice in-game items by mail a couple days ago, just saying "These are for (named his characters.) " and he did not even reply to me. I just wanted him to know that I was thinking about him and still cared for him but the silence is rather unnerving. Yet I think if he wanted nothing more to do with me he would've probably freaked out in a reply mail or removed me from his friends list and he did neither... What's your take on it, remembering that his moon in Gemini makes communication a huge thing to him as well. I think you should go ahead and send him a text.. Only a light hearted text... Nothing like whats wrong, or why havent you called or respond on the website... Keep it simple and light... Something like Hi.. I was thinking about you.. How was your weekend... Or in what ever way you would phrase it... Using your own words.. If he doesnt reply.. Then let it be... If he doesnt text or respond in 3 days... Let it go.. That would be my advice. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 02, 2012 08:45 PM quote: Originally posted by Lioness: I think you should go ahead and send him a text.. Only a light hearted text... Nothing like whats wrong, or why havent you called or respond on the website... Keep it simple and light... Something like Hi.. I was thinking about you.. How was your weekend... Or in what ever way you would phrase it... Using your own words.. If he doesnt reply.. Then let it be... If he doesnt text or respond in 3 days... Let it go.. That would be my advice. Ok, he is online in game so I just message him something very simple: "Hola. I know you are busy on your priest but just wanted to say hi and that I hope you are having fun. " That was a few mins ago and no response so far but I guess I'll see how it goes. If he chooses to ignore me completely then I guess I will be giving up even though it would be such a waste for him to end things over something so silly. IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted July 02, 2012 08:51 PM Well what happen between you two.. I dont see it... Is it to late to send a text instead of a message on the board?? IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 02, 2012 08:59 PM quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Well what happen between you two.. I dont see it... Is it to late to send a text instead of a message on the board?? There is no board. We play an online game together. Well it was really rather silly what happened... Last week he had been hopping on a lower level character to come level with me even though he's in a new guild. He was really enjoying spending time with me and we were having fun. Then Wednesday night he said he wanted to come level with me and jumped on his lower toon and did an instance with me (a particular part of a game that is one event and has a beginning and an end) and then afterwards he just went off and started doing his own thing without an explanation (whereas usually when he would level with me before, he'd spend a few hours just questing in game with me.) I asked him about where he was (a different area in the game) and he said "ya I'm over here finishing a few quests" and then was pretty much quiet after that. I just got quiet and didn't talk much because I was confused about the whole thing and he could sense I wasn't really my usual happy, chipper self so a few minutes later he said "So are you upset with me because I'm over here on Mistmoor Island instead of over there with you?" I didn't know what to say really because it's not like I have a claim on his time so I said "you've got your own plans" because I didn't know what else to say (this was all in typing.) He replied "So yeah, fantastic." And then 2 or 3 minutes later he types "I just find it funny that you can talk soooooooo much about everything else but you can't express to me that you're unhappy that I'm over here instead of over there with you. Well I have only one simple plan and that is too keep smiling. Good night." (and that was earlier than usual for him to go to bed so I'd say he was upset.) I didn't argue, instead I typed in "I was just about to logoff too. Goodnight." We haven't spoken since even though we are usually both online in game each night. And yet before that, we would talk quite a bit daily via game messaging, email and texts. Now nothing. He just ignores me. IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted July 02, 2012 09:12 PM "So are you upset with me because I'm over here on Mistmoor Island instead of over there with you?" =================================== Idk for sure, but I think he just wanted you to play along with it... He was maybe joking (and looking for attention) and he didnt get either... I just find it funny that you can talk soooooooo much about everything else but you can't express to me that you're unhappy that I'm over here instead of over there with you. Well I have only one simple plan and that is too keep smiling. Good night ====================================== Yeah sounds like he got mad here... I think he was out for attention, and when you didnt give it to him, he took it as your not interested.. He took his joke as backfiring cuz you got mad.. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 02, 2012 09:33 PM quote: Originally posted by Lioness: "So are you upset with me because I'm over here on Mistmoor Island instead of over there with you?" =================================== Idk for sure, but I think he just wanted you to play along with it... He was maybe joking (and looking for attention) and he didnt get either... I just find it funny that you can talk soooooooo much about everything else but you can't express to me that you're unhappy that I'm over here instead of over there with you. Well I have only one simple plan and that is too keep smiling. Good night ====================================== Yeah sounds like he got mad here... I think he was out for attention, and when you didnt give it to him, he took it as your not interested.. He took his joke as backfiring cuz you got mad.. I wasn't even really mad, more confused. I tend to get quiet and stop talking if I'm feeling uncomfortable about something or upset but I rarely get angry. Ya, I sent him the text like I said and he ignored it. He then logged onto one of his lower toons he used to level with me, at the same location as the one I was playing, and sat around the area for a good 15 mins but didn't say a thing to me or come up to the area where I was at. But he was standing close enough in game to see it was my character and still nothing. I feel quite snubbed really and all over something so stupid. He has gotten rude to me plenty of times before and always when he would come back and message me a day or two later I was fine with him so I'm rather insulted that he is treating me so coldly over something so small. IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted July 02, 2012 09:36 PM I hear ya.. Then you know what.. He doesnt deserve you!! If he wants to be petty, than thats his bad not yours... Give him a day or so, and see if he sends you a message.. If not.. He's not worth it, and dont let it get you down.... There's better out there! IP: Logged
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 773 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011	posted July 03, 2012 02:59 AM LOL MMO drama. So I used to work for a couple major gaming companies and one of the most import things I learned in my several years, was how well communication can get lost in text. Sure, it's fine to say "screw this guy he acted in an immature way", but there is a LOT of opportunity for misunderstandings in a chat setting. If you like this person, I think there is nothing wrong with reaching out to him for clarification and reconciliation. Sometimes two people have bad days at the same time, and it is just as easy to call your actions passive-aggressive as it is to call his petty. I think a more urgent matter though would be asking your self, why someone with such a strong sensitivity to possible abandonment is seeking to connect with someone who is a natural flight risk. I believe this may be something to consider before chasing him down the rabbit hole. I am a very devoted friend and partner, even to the point of my own abuse unfortunately. The placements I share with him afford me the strength to recognize and handle those situations once the abuse has gone too far. If I am not aware of these energies in my personality however, I am tempted to completely vanish when any situation doesn't go smoothly. NN is a great energy, but it can be used to make negative traits feel like pursuit of one's destiny. A person with an active NN can come up with all sorts of great reasons why their negative actions are appropriate. Regardless of astrology, the place you should be turning to for answers is him. People have petty spats all the time, and who was logged on to which toon or where a person is questing is not a valid reason for ending communication with a person you truly care to know. With a bit of explaining on both ends, the possibilities for resolving this become greater. One more thing, people who abandon have huge abandonment issues, I am one of those people. I like to leave before someone has the opportunity to leave me (making me relive all the fun childhood experiences). Perhaps if abandonment is also in this guy's nature, you both have a common issue. All I can suggest is communicate, communicate, communicate. talk out your issues with him and though NN conjunct Uranus gives off an "holy avatar on a mission" energy, realize he is just as damaged and mortal as anyone else. You both deserve to be treated with the same amount of tenderness. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 03, 2012 05:32 PM Ya Xiiro, I hate the drama too. I suppose my quietness that night could be seen as being passive aggressive, I really just felt confused and didn't feel I had a legitimate reason to complain since there is no obligation there between us obviously so I kept my mouth shut. I have tried to reach out a couple times since and he has ignored both attempts. I am tempted to try a third time by actually explaining why I was quiet (I haven't said anything about what happened, just made a couple light attempts at interacting)since I think he did misinterpret it but I just hate the idea of being perceived as someone who is chasing. And as to why I have continued on with him given my abandonment issue... it's really quite strange, I had no idea why but I feel such an unusually strong connection to him. Even he has said that he is treating me in a totally different way than he treats anyone else. I did just get a composite check done by IQ and just saw the results late last night and IQ said there is without a doubt a karmic tie between us which perhaps accounts for it. I know this fellow said to me that I am making him think about the past and things he doesn't want to think about and yet I don't talk about his past (nor do I know very much of it) so not sure how I'm doing that. I noticed last night he has both the Sun and Nessus in his 4th house and I'm wondering if he was abused. I think he was either abused or neglected in some respect. He also has Chiron in the first which would seemingly indicate some kind of attack on his self-image when he was a child if I understand that placement correctly. His chiron conjuncts my moon (which sits in his 1st house) so I think we connect very much on these haunting issues from our past which has made us bond quickly. I also noticed my Vesta sits in the same degree as his Mars (these last few placements are all in the synastry) in the 6th house again and I really identify with that because he and I have been struggling with an issue where I am kind of pulling him out of old habits and helping him to make a change he wants to make and he's also seemingly pulling me out of old habits too. It's been very strange, sweet, comforting and unsettling all at once but I feel as though we both have a purpose in having met the other. Many of my planets fall into his 6th house in synastry. I know that most people view that as being just about daily routines, health, worklife, etc. but I've been doing some reading on it and it apparently also concerns crises leading into transformation and I feel that fits here (especially being the house just prior to the house signifying relationships.) I also have a few placements in his 12th house and as I said, he said I am bringing up stuff from his past somehow and that he is moved to treat me much better than he has normally treated women which is about the habits and behaviours he has been trying to change) and yet he is not sure why. I find I also have been moved to treat him much more with an unconditional kindness and acceptance than I would most men, especially considering the he is not always kind (in the composite chart, Armor is in the same degree as the IC which could be partly responsible for this maybe since I understand Armor is a spirtual type of love and unconditional acceptance of the other.) I tend to think we have met with a purpose of bringing some healing to each other if nothing else. I am not very good at interpreting astrological placements but these are the ideas I am gleaning from thinking and reading on the various placements at least... I had posted the synastry and composite chart much earlier for feedback but there hasn't been any in that thread (personal readings.) IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 03, 2012 08:50 PM Update: Just thought I'd update everyone who was kind enough to give me some tips and advice... Although he hadn't responded to me last night, I logged in tonight and shortly thereafter he messaged me online and we have been talking again like friends. We haven't discussed what happened and why he was so upset but that might come later on, at least for now we are on friendly speaking terms again after 5 days of silence. IP: Logged
Xiiro Moderator Posts: 773 From: San Diego CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011	posted July 03, 2012 09:07 PM quote: Originally posted by beloved: Update: Just thought I'd update everyone who was kind enough to give me some tips and advice... Although he hadn't responded to me last night, I logged in tonight and shortly thereafter he messaged me online and we have been talking again like friends. We haven't discussed what happened and why he was so upset but that might come later on, at least for now we are on friendly speaking terms again after 5 days of silence. Glad to hear, I don't think it is a good idea to just sweep the past 5 days under the rug. I hope you both get the opportunity to discuss it openly. With more information you can both avoid bumping into similar situations in the future. Best of luck IP: Logged
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4873 From: Registered: Mar 2010	posted July 03, 2012 09:39 PM Thats good.. Glad to hear it.. I had a feeling he would, which is why I said give it 3 days... If after 3 days then let it go... Only I wouldnt bring up the 5 day lag between you two.. 1. cuz he's a internet friend.. If he brings it up, then go with it... But Im thinking he's going to be thinking, its a internet thing.... Even if he was upset... He wont dwell on it.. I say let it go. IP: Logged
beloved Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Jun 2012	posted July 03, 2012 10:18 PM Well I appreciate everyone's help. For now I'm just going to go with the flow at least until we are comfortable and on easy good terms again. I don't want to start up any kind of upset again already by broaching the subject right now but if it comes up of its own accord then I'll certainly talk to him about it. IP: Logged

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