posted July 01, 2012 03:43 AM            

If he's not coming to you, he is not interested.

posted July 01, 2012 04:30 AM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
RegardesPlatero- Im going to have to kindly disagree with not showing emotions & talking a lot. I find Cap energy likes lively women...esp ones who talk. Sort of a Yin/Yang attraction even in friendship. Plus...it's best to be yourself anyways Bulleyes...Be yourself & If he's right, no worries.

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posted July 01, 2012 04:51 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
Well, to be honest, it's been my experience I seem to annoy Cap moon and Venus people, and I think that being expressive/emotional is probably the reason. I've tried to reach out to them, and they're so unresponsive to me, but they are more responsive to others. So, my guess is that I probably overload them or overwhelm them and they don't know how to deal with someone who's expressive and emotional. My mother has Cap influence (Venus and ASC) and an air moon (Gemini) and she doesn't really 'get' emotions and gets frustrated with people when they get openly emotional.

I do get along with Cap suns; it's mainly Venus and the moon there that are hard for me. I don't hate them or anything, but unless they have like other placements that are 'warmer' or 'softer', it's hard for me to feel comfortable around them.

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I dont think you have much understanding of capricorn. Because of your couple failed relationships, do not assume that you know the sign of capricorn. Oh and btw, you know what really irritates us? It's when people who have no idea who we are keep telling us that they understand us. Heck, it took me 30 years to figure out who I am.

Capricorns only make a move when they know that they wont be turned down. If the guy has cap venus, he will throw you subtle questions to see if the feeling reciprocates. That is of course, if he/she likes you. He will see how you make eye-contact. He will remember all the questions that you asked him. Caricorn is extremely sensitive not to hurt their ego. When they are certain that their attempt will succeed that is when they make a move.

posted July 01, 2012 06:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
I dont think you have much understanding of capricorn. Because of your couple failed relationships, do not assume that you know the sign of capricorn. Oh and btw, you know what really irritates us? It's when people who have no idea who we are keep telling us that they understand us. Heck, it took me 30 years to figure out who I am.

Capricorns only make a move when they know that they wont be turned down. If the guy has cap venus, he will throw you subtle questions to see if the feeling reciprocates. That is of course, if he/she likes you. He will see how you make eye-contact. He will remember all the questions that you asked him. Caricorn is extremely sensitive not to hurt their ego. When they are certain that their attempt will succeed that is when they make a move.

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*shrug*

I simply presented a hypothesis based on a pattern that I have observed and experienced. There has to be some kind of explanation. This is the one that makes the most sense based on my experiences with people that I've known. There has to be some kind of logic to their actions and some kind of process and pattern behind it.

Those are my general observations. Obviously, as I said on another thread, I don't have difficulties with every single Cap-influenced person.

People have different experiences with different placements.

Maybe if the Cap-influenced people with whom I have difficulties would actually be responsive and communicate, I could hear their side of things. However, since they refuse to communicate and provide that, I can only try to weigh things based on what information, observations, experiences, and feelings I do have.

I have tried to be nice to them (the ones with whom I have difficulties), to say the right things, do the right things, etc. They still treat me like crap. Obviously, there has to be a logical and reasonable explanation. They're more responsive to others, so it must be something about my personality that they do not like and that prompts coldness, rudeness, standoffishness, and unresponsiveness. Given that I'm really intense, expressive, and emotional, more so than a lot of people, and given that they aren't like that, it's not out of question to assume that this is the reason. My mother, after all, has Venus and ASC there, and I know that's a big part of my difficulties with her, though I still want to get along with her. So, it's not of the question that others with similar placements would dislike me or have problems dealing with me for similar reasons.

And, again, I didn't say that they were bad people or a bad sign. I simply said that they are not good (in my experiences) in dealing with emotions, and that they do not like emotional displays or expressiveness. That has been the case with them, with only a few exceptions who've had warmer and softer placements. That's not 'slamming' them or claiming to know everything about them. That's making an observation based on what I have experienced with them. My experience wasn't meant to insult you or other Caps. It's just been my experience. Nothing more, nothing less. No reason to take it personally.

posted July 01, 2012 07:00 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I don't know about love, but for friendship, with Cap moon and Venus, don't show emotions and don't talk a lot, if you don't want to send them running.

If he's not coming to you, he is not interested.

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posted July 01, 2012 06:09 PM            

I feel most comfortable around people who tell me THINGS about the world - or anything that seems interesting.... something that would start a debate for example..

Like instead of saying "How are you today? You seem a little sad - is everything ok? Tell me more about yourself etc etc"

Try striking up a conversation saying: "So... they're talking about making changes within the Australian legal system to allow gay marriage... what do you think about that?"

OR

"Where have you travelled to? What would be your favourite place in the world and why?"

posted July 01, 2012 06:52 PM            

Anyway, if I had made plans with someone even if I wasn't really that interested in them anymore, I would still follow through with them. I always try to keep my word with people, unless we have a huge falling out or something.

I think that you should definitely shoot him a message, I'm personally not one to send out a bunch of messages (or usually any at all) to people, but if someone sends me one, I'll gladly respond to it.

posted July 02, 2012 02:47 PM            

I've noticed that early Capricorns(within the first 5 degrees) tend to have Sagittarian traits lagging on them.

If he is Middle born Capricorn i.e after 6 degrees, then you can expect him to behave like a gentleman.

You have to remember that when we are trying to attract someone, we rarely reveal our less desirable side.

So, with Venus in Capricorn, he'll often show you how responsible and dependable he is; "look how I got it all together". "I can give you stability and a place to fall when you can't stand."

With moon in Capricorn,you won't be able to tell how he feels about something. He'll often seem reserved and not show much passionate feelings towards anything.

I think the moon and Venus combination in Capricorn can make a guy appear "sexy".

There is something genuinely attractive about someone who appears to have so much "self-control". But don't be suprised/expect him to change tune when you two get involved.

When things get more serious don't expect him to be more symapthetic and get in touch with his "feelings".

posted July 02, 2012 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
Cap moon will chase...for sure. There wont be doubt. The Venus is tricky though...you have to nudge them a bit...Is Moon conj Venus or just same signs? I think letting it be known you're interested subtlety will put the pressure off for him. Make a move...then it's up to him...

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posted July 02, 2012 06:40 PM            

I'm quite frankly just giving up. I messaged him the other day with a light joke and he messaged me back in response and said that he hopes I've been well. No other conversation was attempted, so I just left it alone (didn't want to pull teeth or make small talk.)

He's a really interesting guy but he's just flirting with me. I'm silly to think it's anything serious, and I'm quite sure he would have mentioned hanging out again in the last two weeks if he was still keen to follow through with those upcoming plans.

posted July 02, 2012 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
So, with Venus in Capricorn, he'll often show you how responsible and dependable he is; "look how I got it all together". "I can give you stability and a place to fall when you can't stand."

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posted July 02, 2012 11:53 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Ah-uh. We are on the top of the hill,and you are the one who needs to climb

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posted July 02, 2012 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
I have venus in capricorn and I agree with Charlie %100. As a cap venus I make it very clear when I like someone.

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posted July 03, 2012 03:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
Venus I can't tell if you were agreeing or disagreeing?

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