posted July 02, 2012 07:33 PM            

Me- 7/12/87 jersey city,new jersey 11:58pm
Sun-cancer
Moon-aquarius
Ascendent-aries
Venus-cancer
Mars-Leo

Him-2/8/1984 time unknown
Sun-Aquarius
Moon- aries or taurus (not sure which)
Venus-capricorn
Mars-scorpio

Hes funny,we have fun and im sarting to care for him but I cqnt help but stay guarded. Sex is everything from fun,passionate,sweet,rough,crazy...I want him but not sure its worth it. We laugh together and cant keep our hands to ourselves when we're together....I really am starting to like him more as well but I cant help but wonder how compatible our placements make us. He's 28,i'm 24. He's white,i'm black. He's corporate i'm a wardrobe stylist...im catholic,hes jewish. He's my opposite in almost every way but it feels magnetic when we're together. Can anyone tell me what the aspects of our charts say?

posted July 02, 2012 08:56 PM            

With that being said, I'm gonna do your synastry chart and this thread might get moved to "Personal Readings", where someone can give their perspective. I'll give mines shortly, but for now here is your and his synastry.

Also, it won't be completely accurate since you have no birth place or time of birth for him.

posted July 02, 2012 11:38 PM            

I'm just an amateur, but I'll give it a try.

Hi, sambam, so you are a Rabbit and he might be a Pig (no offense, ha ha.) That would explain some of the attraction.

But the big thing is, your moon is exactly conjunct his sun. COZY.

Your Pluto is pretty close to his Mars in Scorpio. His Saturn-Mars trine your sun...does that feel smothering to you or protective in a good way?

His Jupiter conjunct your Neptune could be causing some confusion. But I like that his Venus and Mercury in Cap are opposing yours. There's a nice balance there.

posted July 03, 2012 01:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
That was nice of you, lazyscarecrow.

I'm just an amateur, but I'll give it a try.

Hi, sambam, so you are a Rabbit and he might be a Pig (no offense, ha ha.) That would explain some of the attraction.

But the big thing is, your moon is exactly conjunct his sun. COZY.

Your Pluto is pretty close to his Mars in Scorpio. His Saturn-Mars trine your sun...does that feel smothering to you or protective in a good way?

His Jupiter conjunct your Neptune could be causing some confusion. But I like that his Venus and Mercury in Cap are opposing yours. There's a nice balance there.

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Thank you...i think its protective in a good way...so far at least. What about the jupiter/neptune causes confusion? Sorry,im pretty much a beginner :-)

posted July 03, 2012 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Hey! This is interesting. I don't yet have an opinion as I need to see the synastry chart first, but generally speaking Cancer and Aquarius are inconjunct signs and therefore WORLDS apart. Not saying it couldn't work or vice versa, but sometimes it helps to know how different these two personalities are before you make a decision in matters of the heart.

With that being said, I'm gonna do your synastry chart and this thread might get moved to "Personal Readings", where someone can give their perspective. I'll give mines shortly, but for now here is your and his synastry.

Also, it won't be completely accurate since you have no birth place or time of birth for him.

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posted July 03, 2012 09:23 AM            

To put it simply, Jupiter expands whatever it touches, and Neptune makes things like a beautiful dream. Put them together and you have a big beautiful dream that calls for times when you will need to try harder to get a rational grip on the situation.

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Jupiter conjunction Neptune:

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Jupiter is in conjunction to your partner’s Neptune? Personal and mutual expansion and growth are very much a part of your romantic relationship. You are more likely to take risks based more upon an abundance of confidence in your beliefs than upon practical considerations. If your romantic partner’s Jupiter is in conjunction with your Neptune, his/her presence seems to brighten your spirit, expanding your awareness of infinite potentials and possibilities. You are looking at the world as it could be and as you would like it to be. Your sense of idealism can blow your compassion out of all proportion to your present means. You will have to accept the world as it is in order to explore creative ways to manifest abundance.

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If his moon is conjunct your Jupiter in Aries, that's good, but Cancer and Taurus are sextile and usually a better match than Cancer/Aries, which are square.

Your moon conjunct his sun is really amazing, though.

posted July 03, 2012 10:13 AM            

As to your boyfriend, he's being himself,as far as the coming and going part. The sweet, solicitous part is in there too, just not for long stretches. Depends on what you truly value.The laughs a minute and intensity when you are together are things to dive into and roll around in. If those moments can sustain you for the times in between then it will work, possibly for a lifetime.

posted July 03, 2012 10:59 AM            

And with his moon in Aries(I know you said that he was born on a cusp but I always take the cusp sign-within 5 degrees- to mean that it is still strongly been influenced by the previous sign), it does somewhat influence his aloof Sun-giving him a more passionate projection than Saturn-ruled Aquarius would normally have.

Add to that, if there is an aspect between the Sun and Mars (if Scorpio is near the middle), the emotional intensity of Mars will affect the analytical personality of the Sun-making decision-making from an entirely intellectual point of view very difficult.

His Venus in Capricorn shares the same ruler with his Sun and your moon (Saturn): He does like your ability to reason and be sensible; not to be engulfed in too much emotion and let your heart rule your head. But he also is strongly attracted to a traditional woman (The Capricorn element) with old-fashioned values and “straight-line” thinking.

You have both the tenacious, strongly emotional nature of Cancer doing a balancing act with your eccentric, original and inspired moon (Aquarius). To say the least, you are indeed “unique” and he may not know quite what to make of you as Cancer (your sun)/Capricorn (what attracts him (Venus)) are zodiacal opposites and have very similar in outlooks but differ in approach.

On you side; he has his Aquarius sun balancing his passionate moon. This combination of cool detachment and child-like passion get the attention of your Mars (what you find attractive in a man) in both an opposition (Aquarius sun) and trine (Aries moon).

Add to that, his sultry strategic Mars (in Scorpio) forms aspects with both your Sun (Cancer)/Moon (Aquarius): This is hectic, as it means he gets your attention on a social level (Sun) as well as personal (Moon).

If we involve the houses, his Sun is in your 11th house: He loves to be around you in a social occasion/function. You make him want to become more.

His moon is in your 1st house; sometimes you feel like you looking at a mirror. Even your emotional responses can be very similar (or even the same).

His Venus is in your 10th house; Since you two are an inter-racial couple, you are bound to stick out in society(10th house) and this may mean that you two will be the topic of the town(if coming form an otherwise conservative background).

If not, he may feel that his values/systems (Venus) are being judged by hierchial society at large (10th) by being with you. It may even put his racial background in full view.

His Mars is in your 8th house; He can’t help not wanting to do something edgy/pushing boundaries when together. Especially since Scorpio is in his eighth house. It has to be deep/ it has to be life-affirming.

posted July 03, 2012 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Your Mars-ruled Ascendant in Aries responds positively to warm/vivacious people (5th house Leo).

And with his moon in Aries(I know you said that he was born on a cusp but I always take the cusp sign-within 5 degrees- to mean that it is still strongly been influenced by the previous sign), it does somewhat influence his aloof Sun-giving him a more passionate projection than Saturn-ruled Aquarius would normally have.

Add to that, if there is an aspect between the Sun and Mars (if Scorpio is near the middle), the emotional intensity of Mars will affect the analytical personality of the Sun-making decision-making from an entirely intellectual point of view very difficult.

His Venus in Capricorn shares the same ruler with his Sun and your moon (Saturn): He does like your ability to reason and be sensible; not to be engulfed in too much emotion and let your heart rule your head. But he also is strongly attracted to a traditional woman (The Capricorn element) with old-fashioned values and “straight-line” thinking.

You have both the tenacious, strongly emotional nature of Cancer doing a balancing act with your eccentric, original and inspired moon (Aquarius). To say the least, you are indeed “unique” and he may not know quite what to make of you as Cancer (your sun)/Capricorn (what attracts him (Venus)) are zodiacal opposites and have very similar in outlooks but differ in approach.

On you side; he has his Aquarius sun balancing his passionate moon. This combination of cool detachment and child-like passion get the attention of your Mars (what you find attractive in a man) in both an opposition (Aquarius sun) and trine (Aries moon).

Add to that, his sultry strategic Mars (in Scorpio) forms aspects with both your Sun (Cancer)/Moon (Aquarius): This is hectic, as it means he gets your attention on a social level (Sun) as well as personal (Moon).

If we involve the houses, his Sun is in your 11th house: He loves to be around you in a social occasion/function. You make him want to become more.

His moon is in your 1st house; sometimes you feel like Yyou looking at a mirror. Even your emotional responses can be very similar (or even the same).

His Venus is in your 10th house; Since you two are an inter-racial couple, you are bound to stick out in society(10th house) and this may mean that you two will be the topic of the town(if coming form an otherwise conservative background).

If not, he may feel that his values/systems (Venus) are being judged by hierchial society at large (10th) by being with you. It may even put his racial background in full view.

His Mars is in your 8th house; He can’t help not wanting to do something edgy/pushing boundaries when together. Especially since Scorpio is in his eighth house. It has to be deep/ it has to be life-affirming.

There could be something dangerous/contravening conventions about you two getting together. Perhaps the fact that this relationship is inter-racial also adds heat/ sexual controversy in the mix?

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As far as the interracial thing goes we havent really run into any issues. His ex was asian and mine was also white. We've both dated whoever we've wanted without societal pressures to do otherwise. People normally comment on how cute we are together but he is a tough guy and I can tell it irritates him every once in a while when we go to a reggae club and black guys go out of there way to test him. Hes pretty solid and doesnt really back down so ive never felt like he couldnt hold his own. This has only happened twice in brooklyn but for the most part when wr go out theres never been an issue. We both live in manhattan and interracial couples are pretty mYyuch everwhere.

I do think there is a definite danger attached to our sexuality. He's very dominant and I enjoy that in everyway but he also has these bouts of tenderness that I adore but confuse me as well..

posted July 03, 2012 01:40 PM            

I will be honest with you.
I'm studying 'Magi-astrology' for a couple of months now and although most will find them way too radical, MY experiences with their astrological techniques are more than great so this is my finding about the synastry between you both.

'Chiron' according to them is all about True Love (and the enduring one).
I've looked at all the dimensions between the both of you ~ Geo-longitudes/declinations & Helio-longitudes/Latitudes) ~ and I do not see ONE chiron-linkage. To not even talk about the required Romantic Super Linkage (1 more planet involved) which is the least they say you must have for giving it that serious love-vibe.
I see two sexual linkages in the Geo-chart which is probably what draws you together but those will burn out within time.

I sense your doubts about him and the expectations you rightly have regarding a more serious commitment. With the charts I've seen it's only a confirmation of what I already thought: do not hope for something more than you already have because chances are very low you will ever get it with this guy. Ofcourse it's up to you If you want to enjoy the sexual flow for the time it will last (which in fact I hate to say because.. who wants that??)

posted July 03, 2012 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by mir:
Dear Sambam,

I will be honest with you.
I'm studying 'Magi-astrology' for a couple of months now and although most will find them way too radical, MY experiences with their astrological techniques are more than great so this is my finding about the synastry between you both.

'Chiron' according to them is all about True Love (and the enduring one).
I've looked at all the dimensions between the both of you ~ Geo-longitudes/declinations & Helio-longitudes/Latitudes) ~ and I do not see ONE chiron-linkage. To not even talk about the required Romantic Super Linkage (1 more planet involved) which is the least they say you must have for giving it that serious love-vibe.
I see two sexual linkages in the Geo-chart which is probably what draws you together but those will burn out within time.

I sense your doubts about him and the expectations you rightly have regarding a more serious commitment. With the charts I've seen it's only a confirmation of what I already thought: do not hope for something more than you already have because chances are very low you will ever get it with this guy. Ofcourse it's up to you If you want to enjoy the sexual flow for the time it will last (which in fact I hate to say because.. who wants that??)

Well I hope I may not sound too radical now

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Hey Mir,thank you for taking the time to do that...not what I wanted to hear but every bit helps I guess