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Topic: Am i ever going to get over him???
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Pennylane
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 04, 2012 03:29 AM
  
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Pennylane
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posted July 04, 2012 04:35 AM
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Doux Rêve
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posted July 04, 2012 04:50 AM
It's probably the Pluto, girl.His Pluto squares your Venus, Mars and Jupiter at pretty tight orbs. So... nope, you're probably not gonna get over him unless you cut all contact, and even then, chances are, his memory will haunt you for some time. Actually it's said that Venus/Pluto hard aspects in synastry sometimes mean one-sided love. It does sound like your guy liked/likes you, but if he really had crazy feelings for you, he wouldn't be with another girl now, would he? So, I don't think you can ever just be friends with him. But the choice is yours, you can still keep in touch with him and risk suffering for a long time or try to move on by distancing yourself from him.. The synastry isn't that good, in my opinion, and the composite shows Saturn squaring the Moon/Venus conjunction. They're actually in a T-square with Jupiter so my guess is that the affections are unstable and swing between super loving to cold and detached. However the mental rapport is there for sure, Sun conjunct Mercury in the composite and Mercury conjunct Jupiter in synastry. Good luck!
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Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 126
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 04, 2012 05:06 AM
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Originally posted by Doux R�ve:
It's probably the Pluto, girl.His Pluto squares your Venus, Mars and Jupiter at pretty tight orbs. So... nope, you're probably not gonna get over him unless you cut all contact, and even then, chances are, his memory will haunt you for some time. Actually it's said that Venus/Pluto hard aspects in synastry sometimes mean one-sided love. It does sound like your guy liked/likes you, but if he really had crazy feelings for you, he wouldn't be with another girl now, would he? So, I don't think you can ever just be friends with him. But the choice is yours, you can still keep in touch with him and risk suffering for a long time or try to move on by distancing yourself from him.. The synastry isn't that good, in my opinion, and the composite shows Saturn squaring the Moon/Venus conjunction. They're actually in a T-square with Jupiter so my guess is that the affections are unstable and swing between super loving to cold and detached. However the mental rapport is there for sure, Sun conjunct Mercury in the composite and Mercury conjunct Jupiter in synastry. Good luck!
I concur. It's a wise council. I saw your natal chart, and your venus/mars/pluto combination are very strong. His natal pluto square your venus/mars and his venus trines your venus/mars. There should a very strong sexual attraction. I experienced this not long time ago, and this attraction won't go away as long as he is in your life. It's hard to shake off. So if you want to move on, cut ties, cold turkey. IP: Logged |
intriguingineveryway
Knowflake Posts: 52
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 04, 2012 05:15 AM
Yup same here with Pluto Venus in a tight orb.. Althou mine is conjunct, and I'm the Pluto person in this Pluto/Venus, Still shaking that person off for about 2 yrs now but the memories are so sticky. IP: Logged |
ueharaa
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 04, 2012 06:46 AM
I took a look at your synastry.
As stated above pluto could be the culprit, but I'm always a bit wary of blaming it all on pluto aspects, especially when one already has it natally. But still here your orbs are pretty tight so they must be quite felt.
The house overlay could also have something to do with the feelings you have for him.
His sun, mars and mercury fall in your 8th house. His moon in your 7th house and His Jupiter conjuncts your mercury in your 5th house. All of the main houses when it comes to relationship are triggered through him. Also, you have some nodes contacts with his mars squaring your nodes and your ascendant widely conjunct his nodes (I'm not sure if this one is significant though because the orb is rather wide)
And his moon conjunct your vertex while his venus squares it. IP: Logged |
Pennylane
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posted July 05, 2012 01:49 AM
Thank you all so much. The pluto aspect confuses me because my venus mars and jupiters squares everyones pluto who is within a few years my age, and im obviously not getting obsessed with every one who comes my path lol. Did you guys notice anything in the synastry/composite that would indicate a mutual attraction/liking? I feel like if i could just know once and for whether its all in my head or he really did feel something, i would be ok, even if i never have him. I just hate not knowing.IP: Logged | |
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