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vertiver
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posted July 04, 2012 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh dear, I used to constantly post about this Leo, about 3 years ago. I've always had really strong feelings for this person, but I was in a relationship for the past 1 1/2, now I'm available and over the years we've been on and off.

Last weekend we ended up having this really romantic/passionate night and I can't stop thinking about him. We are so compatible, we have the same sense of humor, and were both very attracted to each other.

But he is supposedly moving away for some girl, but obviously he is not that committed considering he instigated things with me.

Should I pursue him and try to convince him to not move away. I've never felt so strongly about someone.

Here is the synastry (I'm inside, he is outside):

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vertiver
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posted July 04, 2012 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Smiths song: Please please please let me get what I want... Keeps running through my head, when I think of this scenario. He is one stubborn Leo, can't really convince him of anything...

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Ami Anne
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posted July 04, 2012 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Were you born close together in time?

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vertiver
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posted July 04, 2012 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Were you born close together in time?


Haha yes, 3 weeks apart.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 04, 2012 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by vertiver:
Haha yes, 3 weeks apart.

Many things are conjunct due to that.

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vertiver
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posted July 04, 2012 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Many things are conjunct due to that.


Yeah that's true. But I've dated a few people that were generally anywhere from 3-6 years older than me and we had Venus-Mars conjunctions you name it, but nothing really feels so special as my connection with him as corny as that sounds.

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Ami Anne
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posted July 04, 2012 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It doesn't sound corny at ALL. I bet asteroids would show more.

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posted July 04, 2012 11:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
It doesn't sound corny at ALL. I bet asteroids would show more.


What asteroids would you recommend I look for?

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Ami Anne
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posted July 04, 2012 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
All of them--nessus, dejanira, eros, psyche. I am tired and can't think. Put in all the ones on the pull down bar on Astro,com. Put in the Vertex, too.

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vertiver
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posted July 04, 2012 11:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
All of them--nessus, dejanira, eros, psyche. I am tired and can't think. Put in all the ones on the pull down bar on Astro,com. Put in the Vertex, too.


When you get a chance and your not sleepy, here is what I came up with. Now I know in the past, I've calculated all the asteroids between us, but never checked out Dejanira nor Nessus.

He has Nessus & Dejanira conjunct his Mercury which means its square my ASC.

Also his Vertex conjunct my Saturn/Uranus.

Pholus conjunct my DESC.

His Venus conjunct my Juno and Pars Fortuna.

And his Juno conjunct my Vertex.

Also my Dejanira widely conjunct his Sun - 8 orb.

What do you think?

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Lotis White
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posted July 05, 2012 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrology can only say if someone is likely to be attracted to you, but it can not predict what choices people will make.

Usually if a guy is head over heels for you he will go out of his way to make the relationship official and so that you wouldn’t pursue other options. Have you let him know exactly what you want?

If you have let him know and he still seems uncertain, although he may be attracted, he’s probably not seeing you as his forever type of girl.

If you haven’t told him you want a real relationship I recommend letting him know it, and being very clear about what you want. Be prepared for rejection if you do this though. At least then you’ll know for sure if it could have worked or not, rather then wondering if he just doesn’t realize that your open to really being with him. If he still wants to move in with this other girl after knowing where you stand, then he’s just not the right man for you, and you’ll be free to move on.

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Doux Rêve
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posted July 05, 2012 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lotis


Vertiver, his Moon is unaspected (only a quincunx to your Venus, which isn't exactly good news) and your Moon's stressed by his Jupiter.
This to me, means that emotionally it won't be a satisfying connection in the long run. You may feel crazy attraction but a deeper connection will be hard (if not impossible) to attain. It will probably leave you both frustrated, because the Moon represents our basic needs, and they need to be fulfilled in order for us to feel good. A relationship cannot survive on the physical/mental plane alone.

Also, you have some 12th house influence going on, which is bad news. And a strong Neptune, squaring both Marses and opposite his Venus. That's a strong indication of deceit, confusion but also... magnetic attraction, of course. You may feel enchanted by him and it may seem like you've found your soulmate or someone who is just right for you. But that may not be the case, especially given the situation.. As Lotis said, if he really cared he'd do something concrete about it.

Good luck.

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vertiver
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posted July 05, 2012 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lotis White:
Astrology can only say if someone is likely to be attracted to you, but it can not predict what choices people will make.

Usually if a guy is head over heels for you he will go out of his way to make the relationship official and so that you wouldn’t pursue other options. Have you let him know exactly what you want?

If you have let him know and he still seems uncertain, although he may be attracted, he’s probably not seeing you as his forever type of girl.

If you haven’t told him you want a real relationship I recommend letting him know it, and being very clear about what you want. Be prepared for rejection if you do this though. At least then you’ll know for sure if it could have worked or not, rather then wondering if he just doesn’t realize that your open to really being with him. If he still wants to move in with this other girl after knowing where you stand, then he’s just not the right man for you, and you’ll be free to move on.


I'm not sure what "forever type of girl" means. But I don't expect us to suddenly start dating. I mean I just got out of a relationship and want only light hearted affairs, no drama.

So I will probably jus tell him how I feel about him and ce le vie. I will just move on...

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Doux Rêve
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posted July 05, 2012 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
(((vertiver)))

I hope things work out for you, whatever the outcome!

Stay strong.

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vertiver
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posted July 05, 2012 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
(((vertiver)))

I hope things work out for you, whatever the outcome!

Stay strong.


Thanks Doux! And your right there is no strong moon aspects but in my experience if a man is not emotionally in tune with his moon sign it doesn't matter if they're tons of moon - Venus aspects.

If anything what bothers me most is that I've tried so hard to he over him. I partially started a long term relationship to get over him and all that is gone, Grrrh!

There is something very comforting about him, and we're really good friends. But the magnetic physical attraction has always put a barrier of sexual tension between us.

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vertiver
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posted July 05, 2012 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami, did you look at the asteroid synastry?

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