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Topic: For Beckylee and me: Part 2 on Leos
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hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 05, 2012 02:10 AM
  
I'm very Arian... but that doesn't seem like a good thing when it comes to Leos. Maybe it's toned down a bit since my last run in with one, but still.Something I would like to know is how do you make them be good to you? Furthermore, how does an Aries get a Leo to be good to her? (No Leo in the picture at the moment, just wondering.) Leos around here seem like a sign everyone has mixed emotions about leaning towards the negative. How do you earn or gain a Leo's respect?
How do you earn or gain a Leo's love?
How do you disagree with a Leo without hurting their pride? IP: Logged |
Milkyshutter
Knowflake Posts: 127
From: Seoul, Korea
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 05, 2012 05:13 AM
What I'm about to write is pretty tongue - in - cheek. I don't have many leo guy friends, but I have two good friends wh are leo. They are proud (obvious,duh)...they won't show they are vulnerable. They RARELY display anything negative and maintaining that public image seems very important to both of them. When they are under the weather, they would stay at home. I heard couple of their personal stories, but they dont go into details when it comes to romance. They openly tell everybody who they hate, though. They are attracted to decorous, classy girls. I think the reason behind that is to go out with a girl who can live up to their pride and ego. In other words, they won't go out with a girl who can potentially damage their public image. Also, if you need to turn down a leo, its fine as long as you are sticking to your principle. They have their own, so I'm pretty sure they will respect yours. I do that and we never had problems in that department. IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted July 05, 2012 08:23 AM
I am interested in those questions too. From my experience, both males and females leos are very proud and they want the attention. But men get more authoritating, demanding to get their own way. Women are more easy to talk to and communicate but they need you to listen and approve. They want someone who speak their own mind and give them some challenge but if you don't admire them, show appreciation for what they say and do, they hate you! That's my conclusion. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1653
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 05, 2012 10:05 AM
^^^ What they hate you? That's a bit far fetched. If you reject a Leo and I'm speaking from experience considering I'm a Leo sun/mercury, it's a really big blow to the ego and I've been rejected by a Leo in the past in that cause I just thought they were a fool but I didn't hate them. Remember Leo's can be really chill at least laid back ones.IP: Logged |
lunatic
Knowflake Posts: 371
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posted July 05, 2012 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by vertiver:
^^^ What they hate you? That's a bit far fetched. If you reject a Leo and I'm speaking from experience considering I'm a Leo sun/mercury, it's a really big blow to the ego and I've been rejected by a Leo in the past in that cause I just thought they were a fool but I didn't hate them. Remember Leo's can be really chill at least laid back ones.
Yeah,sort of speak. I don't mean they hate you if you reject them. But if you are talking, you are friends and you don't pay attention to what they say, you don't show some approval,you don't seem to think high of them they tend to get upset. If you put them in the spotlight they appreciate you more. They want you to admire them or something. But at the same time they have to appreciate you as an opionionated dynamic person. I find them coocky sometimes, but adorable.. That's how my brother is like and this woman I have a crush on. My best friend was leo but he could hide his ego. a different type.. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 1778
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 05, 2012 11:43 AM
Bump.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 4884
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 05, 2012 04:13 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm very Arian... but that doesn't seem like a good thing when it comes to Leos. Maybe it's toned down a bit since my last run in with one, but still.Something I would like to know is how do you make them be good to you? Furthermore, how does an Aries get a Leo to be good to her? (No Leo in the picture at the moment, just wondering.) Leos around here seem like a sign everyone has mixed emotions about leaning towards the negative. How do you earn or gain a Leo's respect?
How do you earn or gain a Leo's love?
How do you disagree with a Leo without hurting their pride?
Im a Leo, Im not sure how to even answer these questions... LOL
But I will try.. Respect=
Being honest, and upfront.. Not being weak, or a push over. Also having compassion.. Treat others the way you want to be treated..
I think its the same for any sign.. Love= Honestly I dont know..
Being there in times of need, supportive.. Its a long process and it wont happen over night... I can really like someone, but be no where near "in Love"
(but I have a cancer venus, so Im probably speaking with my venus) Pride- Yes its tricky..
What annoys me, is when people say you do blah blah wrong.. Or thats not how...
I dont listen.. Goes in one ear and out the other..
My ex husband always "told me what I do wrong" It deeply bothered me..
Made me feel, no matter what I did, it was wrong... I got to the point, that I just stopped doing anything, in fear of "doing it wrong"
Appealing to my emotions is a better way, like... know when you do this it makes me upset because...........
Letting me know something bothers you is ok.. I dont have a problem with that at all..
My fishy once told me.. "I dont like when you do that"
So I knew my actions had bothered him, and that was not my intentions.. So now I take that into consideration and I stopped doing that.. Not sure if that helps. IP: Logged | |
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