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Topic: Here's an interesting question
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12thhouser
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 05, 2012 12:52 PM
  
If you were...straight, and the opposite sex...
gay, and stayed the same sex...
or bi, and it wouldn't matter... Would you ask yourself out?
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Xiiro
Moderator Posts: 778
From: San Diego CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 05, 2012 01:08 PM
I'm gay and I would totally date my self, but my Mars is in Leo so that isn't much of a shock. =DIP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 3213
From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 05, 2012 01:10 PM
No, probably not. I don't really date, but if I did, I'd need a person to be different than me in some areas, while being similar in others. Dating a copy of me would mean too many similarities and it would probably drive me nuts. Plus, it would be unbalanced. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 01:11 PM
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I'm gay and I would totally date my self, but my Mars is in Leo so that isn't much of a shock. =D
Which brings me to the next part of my question... If you say, "Yes, absolutely!" or indication thereof, does that mean you have an ego? (not picking on you, Xiiro) If you're leaning toward "no," would that indicate possible self-esteem issues? It's both a simple and complex set of questions, isn't it? IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1652
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 05, 2012 01:14 PM
Yes I love myself, haha! I'm so sweet, I would love to encounter someone as loyal and affectionate as myself. That is why I always go for Leo Suns, I'm one and I really get along wih them!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 05, 2012 01:25 PM
Oh Gosh, NO!Too complicated, thinking much too much, so much in fact that nothing ever happens. Also too much of a loner, worrying too much about everything (usually fantasy-sorrows), and swinging between really weird and downright boring. Unable to really commit and decide and most of the time not even knowing what I feel, and if I will feel like this for longer than today or tomorrow. This switching-on-and-off of feelings and insecurity in this regard can get really annoying. And certainly no eyecandy either.
For a friendship definitely; loyal, trustworthy, communicative, a little bit crazy surprising ideas (esp. mentally), very tolerant and accepting and sensitive to other`s feelings.
But dating me? 
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Xiiro
Moderator Posts: 778
From: San Diego CA, USA
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 05, 2012 01:47 PM
I don't think my decision has to do with ego as much as being a complex person. I have only dated one person who really GOT me. I love that feeling of both being understood and the freedom to love someone completely. The sex would be awesome and the company would be good. I do everything in my power to make sure the person I love is cared for and respected. Being with someone who returned the sentiment, instead of becoming infatuated with that part of my personality and expecting to be taken care of, would be nice. Of course there would be struggles whenever the personality traits I dislike arise. But I think communication and getting through those struggles would be functional. IP: Logged |
12thhouser
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posted July 05, 2012 01:48 PM
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I don't think my decision has to do with ego as much as being a complex person. I have only dated one person who really GOT me. I love that feeling of both being understood and the freedom to love someone completely. The sex would be awesome and the company would be good. I do everything in my power to make sure the person I love is cared for and respected. Being with someone who returned the sentiment, instead of becoming infatuated with that part of my personality and expecting to be taken care of, would be nice. Of course there would be struggles whenever the personality traits I dislike arise. But I think communication and getting through those struggles would be functional.
Right, as I said, I wasn't picking on you.
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lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 2356
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 05, 2012 02:18 PM
relocating to the Sweet Peas Forum  IP: Logged |
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