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Topic: Who has Venus conjunct Chiron?
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peachbeigeblue
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posted July 08, 2012 07:41 PM
  
I have this natally. I am wondering how it has played out in the long run for anyone with this too. Or any experiences at all. I just never find love to be that easy. Even if it is at first. My friend just said it seems like I pick terrible guys and I started saying how I have Venus conjuct chiron so love is painful for me. But I am not sure if that is true. IP: Logged |
Exploded Canary
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From: Rotterdam, The Netherlands
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 08, 2012 07:51 PM
I have this placement too. I only have no experience with love though :"). It doesn't even bother me (to spend time by seeking 'the one' or such things). I have no, NO experience. My most 'intimate' contact with other people is shaking their hands when we are introducing ourselves. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 08, 2012 07:51 PM
i have venus quincunx chiron exact. it always seems like i'm on the verge of having a good relationship, then things just sort of fall apart suddenly or circumstances make it impossible to stay together.IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 281
From: En Cee
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 08, 2012 08:51 PM
I have Venus conjunct Chiron (both opposite Saturn) and I too have had people tell me I have terrible taste in men, leading to overall crappy experiences in relating to the opposite sex. But I am not sure how this aspect itself plays out.IP: Logged |
Jim
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 08, 2012 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by Exploded Canary:
I have this placement too. I only have no experience with love though :"). It doesn't even bother me (to spend time by seeking 'the one' or such things). I have no, NO experience. My most 'intimate' contact with other people is shaking their hands when we are introducing ourselves.
I have chiron conjunct venus in 7th house and i have the same experience with love as Exploded canary lol ...
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Blind writer
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: Texas, USA
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 09, 2012 01:05 AM
I have a natal Venus-Chiron opposition, 4° orb. Finding love and happiness simultaneously is an uphill battle, though I imagine it's probably more potent with a conjunction. Relationships will likely be few and far between - each one will have a purpose and meaning behind it. Never take your relationships for granted, for each one is important, with something to tell us.Take to heart the lessons Chiron has to teach you. Facing them head on will lessen the fallout of potentially painful situations. I met my TF during a time when Chiron was transiting my natal Venus/opposing my natal Chiron, and it made a significant impact. I was still young at the time, so I had many things to learn. Venus sits in my 9H and Chiron in my 3H, so long distance communication was the focus. My TF lives in a different country from me. Chiron is much like Saturn - it is a teacher. If Saturn teaches us by restriction and roadblock, Chiron lets us learn from our mistakes. Better yet, it provides us an outlet, where we can take the knowledge we have gained, and be able to apply it in helpful ways - sometimes even for other people. Chiron is like a catharsis. If you feel like you are repeating the same mistakes over and over, step back, carefully consider everything you are doing in your approach for love, and try a different method. If you do not face your challenges, Chiron will continue to give the same results. ------------------
Burning eyes since '95.
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vertiver
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From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 09, 2012 01:30 AM
Chiron is widely conjunct Venus in the 7th H in Cancer. I would say my opportunities to find a good relationship is more challenging then a typical person. First of all being a Venus in Gemini I'm not pushy, I go with the flow in relationships and often get pushed away because I lack the focus of say a Scorpio Venus. Its my priority to be easy-going and goofy. Yet deep inside I'm this sentimental romantic with a heart of gold. I constantly get hurt. I'm tired of it. I don't want to fit the Venus-Chiron stereotype anymore but it keeps reocurring. I attract aloof types that are unconvential. Thanks to Venus opposite Saturn/Uranus. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
Knowflake Posts: 1513
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 09, 2012 09:57 PM
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Originally posted by vertiver:
Chiron is widely conjunct Venus in the 7th H in Cancer. I would say my opportunities to find a good relationship is more challenging then a typical person. First of all being a Venus in Gemini I'm not pushy, I go with the flow in relationships and often get pushed away because I lack the focus of say a Scorpio Venus. Its my priority to be easy-going and goofy. Yet deep inside I'm this sentimental romantic with a heart of gold. I constantly get hurt. I'm tired of it. I don't want to fit the Venus-Chiron stereotype anymore but it keeps reocurring. I attract aloof types that are unconvential. Thanks to Venus opposite Saturn/Uranus.
Hey I have Gemini Venus opposite Saturn Uranus and Neptune. I think the fact I have Jupiter in my 7th house might be why it is easier for me. I was very hooked on a painful relationship until I finally broke free from it and now am happy with a new boyfriend. Thank you for sharing
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peachbeigeblue
Knowflake Posts: 1513
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 09, 2012 09:58 PM
Thank you everyone for your input!!IP: Logged |
hodad
Knowflake Posts: 88
From: tiburon ca usa
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 17, 2012 03:34 AM
A strong Mercury--then the sign,house placements and aspects will describe the style.I have found Sun/Mercury people to quite bright and verbal and natural storytellers,Moon/Mercury people process information in an emotional way so the overall emotional tone to the writing would be strong,Mercury/Neptune would be good at fantasy,etc.Mercury on the ascendant or any angle,Mercury as the ruler of the chart.I find people with strong Virgo and Gemini in their charts have really good mental and verbal skills that make for good writing.Gemini on the midheaven----there are a lot of others,that's all I can think of for now---IP: Logged |
hodad
Knowflake Posts: 88
From: tiburon ca usa
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 17, 2012 03:51 AM
It's like that song--'Looking for love in all the wrong places....'IP: Logged |
butterflyxoxxo
Knowflake Posts: 182
From: seattle
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 17, 2012 12:46 PM
I have chiron in the 7th house and saturn in the 1stOh where do I begin with the mess that is my love life? If you could even call it that. I like the saying "happy when you are near, sad when you are here, this is what its like to be alone" I want a Strong and confidant partner. If they show weakness its a turn off but at the same time I like it. Basically I go back and forth about whether I want to be with the person or in a relationship. The complicated thing is that I do this in my head, I would never actually leave them (loyal venus in scorpio) Also I want to dominate them. I try very hard to suppress that urge and am getting better,,,yay for me IP: Logged |
depth
Knowflake Posts: 341
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 17, 2012 02:59 PM
Venus in sag sq chir0n in virgo. I get serious with all the wr0ng people and reject those I should've treasured. I've been in love with love, n0t with the partner. Have had one crappy experience till n0w. But I learnt a lot fr0m it. I started as a terrible gf. I'm better n0w. B-) I gave my <3, that pers0n's hands didn't functi0n, he dropped it, it got bruised, I picked it up, nursed it, gave it to an0ther only to learn that this fellow's hands t0o didn't functi0n well. I guess the universe's refining me before it's time for Mr. Right to enter. Rough copies before the masterpiece. ;-DIP: Logged |
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