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Topic: Mars in Cancer and Friends with Benefits
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awakemer
Newflake Posts: 13
From: sherman oaks, ca,USA
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 09, 2012 08:13 PM
  
A woman with mars in cancer how would she go about having a friends with benefits relationship? Mars in cancer people need love to be caring and kind. I was just thinking I Have this position and i cannot do it.. just have sex with anybody.. mutual caring has to be there. how would you go about that?IP: Logged |
awakemer
Newflake Posts: 13
From: sherman oaks, ca,USA
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 09, 2012 08:15 PM
I mean mars in cancer people (or more likely women) would need sex to be with someone they care about. a one night stand is difficult if there is no caring and its just physical. Is this true or it just me?IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 462
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 09, 2012 08:15 PM
Mars in Cancer right here. Also Venus in Scorpio, which adds fuel to the fire.  I could never deal with friends with benefits. Ever. I'm extremely possessive of people, but even more so, I need the attention from my partner to feel complete. I would feel melancholic and brooding if I ever knew my partner was going about with other women when we'd been together. I'd not be able to stomach having sex with someone, and then not having any emotional connection. IP: Logged |
awakemer
Newflake Posts: 13
From: sherman oaks, ca,USA
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 09, 2012 08:20 PM
I have venus in the 8th house and moon in 8th house. Yeah i crave sex a lot (doesnt help i have sun and moon in leo) but i do not want commitment or a relationship. I can't imagine having sex with someone who is not my boyfriend... I want to do it but not sure how to go about it! I feel the same way as you.. i don't think i'm posessive i would just feel very hurt and jealous if he went off with some other girl... i'm not sure. I did have sex with my ex for a year with no emotional attachment but i don't know. IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 272
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 09, 2012 10:39 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Mars in Cancer right here. Also Venus in Scorpio, which adds fuel to the fire. I could never deal with friends with benefits. Ever. I'm extremely possessive of people, but even more so, I need the attention from my partner to feel complete. I would feel melancholic and brooding if I ever knew my partner was going about with other women when we'd been together. I'd not be able to stomach having sex with someone, and then not having any emotional connection.
high five there sweet-scorpion! I have the same placements as you!! omg! about the question, its definitely a big NO to me! IP: Logged |
yvetterocks101
Knowflake Posts: 117
From: New York
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 09, 2012 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by awakemer:
A woman with mars in cancer how would she go about having a friends with benefits relationship? Mars in cancer people need love to be caring and kind. I was just thinking I Have this position and i cannot do it.. just have sex with anybody.. mutual caring has to be there. how would you go about that?
Even though i never been in a relationship before i can relate someway if i was to ever get into one lol. I have Mars in cancer and Venus in pisces so imagine that. I guess i have to feel a sorta deep understanding or connection with someone not to the point that is needy but caring. I guess the formula for me even to have sex is that there haves to be a strong emotion between my partner and eye for me to even take the next step. So i cant imagine myself in a friend and benefit situation.
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