posted July 13, 2012 02:01 AM            

Then I find out they are Scorpios.

What in my chart can point to the reason why?

They seem to be the only men who awaken me in every way.

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree
Sun Gemini 27°52'09 in house 12
Moon Taurus 29°31'58 in house 11
Mercury Gemini 7°46'37 in house 11
Venus Taurus 22°54'09 in house 11
Mars Libra 8°19'27 in house 3
Jupiter Scorpio 0°32'22 in house 4
Saturn Libra 15°29'54 in house 4
Uranus Sagittarius 1°34'37 in house 5
Neptune Sagittarius 25°36'24 in house 6
Pluto Libra 24°10'45 in house 4
True Node Cancer 13°22'33 in house 12

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 27°29'48
2nd House Leo 17°27'11
3rd House Virgo 11°17'51
Imum Coeli Libra 11°33'31
5th House Scorpio 18°15'37
6th House Sagittarius 25°34'35
Descendant Capricorn 27°29'48
8th House Aquarius 17°27'11
9th House Pisces 11°17'51
Medium Coeli Aries 11°33'31
11th House Taurus 18°15'37
12th House Gemini 25°34'35

posted July 13, 2012 07:05 AM            

You have the sign of Scorpio on your 5th house cusp.

The 5th house rules who you adore and fall in love with the most. This house has domain our lovers and children… Generally, the most important people in our lives at any given time are our children, and that special person who is our sweetheart. From an astrological perspective, the 5th house is the rules ROMANCE/COURTSHIP period of the relationship, where we fall in love, and observe how special and unique the other person is. People who put planets in your 5th house, or whose natal charts match the symbolism of the 5th house, are the ones who catch your attention, and who you become infatuated with. The 5th house also has to do with glory, and the feeling that someone or something is really impressive…. In your case it’s those with a strong Scorpio theme in their natal charts that stir up these type of feelings in you…

There’s More to the story though. Everyone has more then just the sun sign in their chart. So whenever you like someone I’m sure their chart matches your taste in more then just a 5th house kind of way. His chart will have more then just ‘Scorpio”.

Actually there are three houses most strongly associated with relationships in astrology… The 5th, 7th , and 8th houses. The signs of the cusps of these houses, the condition of the house rulers by sign, house, and aspect, and any planets located within these houses, describe the characteristics of our romantic ‘type‘. Now, within three houses, you can pull out a lot of information, but usually the partners people choose will fit all three of these houses in various different ways…. Through their personality temperament, their private interests, their relationship tendencies, and even their family background and career choices… And with the signs that pop up in their natal charts.

Each of these relationship houses add a different ‘flavor’ to the relationship.

The 7th house is the MARRIAGE/COMMITMENT period of the relationship, where we relate as individuals, exchange appreciation, and make agreements…

And the 8th house is the CONSUMATION/MERGING OF RESCOURCES period of the relationship, where after the being ‘united as one‘ officially, we become interdependent on each other through the sharing of ourselves and our stuff.

Here’s a more detailed guide for examining the symbolism of …THE THREE RELATIONSHIP HOUSES

THE 5TH HOUSE…
The 5th house cusp and ruler, plus planets in the 5th … Show who is romantically exciting to you, who impresses you, and who is the ’Apple of our Eye’. This house is the one in charge of romantic sparks, infatuation, adoration, and the epic saga of your personal love story… With a certain special someone.

THE 7TH HOUSE…
The 7th house cusp and ruler, plus planets in the 7th house…Show who gives you feelings of sweet affection, warmth, established acceptance, and completion…. As if they offer you what you ‘need’ in a partner. The 7th house is not always exciting like the 5th house, rather it represents
who you LIKE, and want relate to as a partner and friend in your daily existence.

THE 8TH HOUSE…
And last but not least, the 8th house cusp and ruler, plus planets in the 8th… Show who attracts you in an intriguing, magnetic type of way… Here you want to figure the other person out, and merge with them in the most deep, intimate way possible. This house is where we share ourselves, and what we have to offer, with another physically, emotionally, and financially… to the point where our lives are inextricably intertwined.

(Note: for all of these houses also take into account the sign next along after the cusp sign, if a large part of that sign falls into the 5th, 7th or 8th house.)

Beautiful Disaster,

In your case your have Scorpio on the 5th , Capricorn on the 8th, and Aquarius on the 8th house, the planets that rule your 5th and 7th houses, Pluto and Saturn, are both in Libra in the 4th house (the Cancer ruled house)… and Uranus is in Sag…

So when looking at a partner’s chart, apart from Scorpio, also look out for placements in Capricorn, Aquarius, Libra, Cancer, and Sagittarius…. And if your partner has planets aspecting your Pluto, Saturn and Uranus, this can heighten attraction, in the similar way to if they actually had planets in the 5th, 7th or 8th houses.

Also, because your have a Capricorn Dsc, which rules the 10th house, it might be worth looking out for Aries placement in your partner’s chart as well… This is because you have the sign Aries on the 10th house cusp, which, as I just said, is ‘ruled’ by Capricorn the sign on your Dsc (the 7th house of partnership and committed relationships).

Hope all of this answers your questions, and is helpful.

posted July 14, 2012 02:30 AM            

Every time I meet one they pounce on me and get crazy.

It's always the same attraction!

I love the aggressiveness in them.

I always thought it was the Taurus moon and venus of mine that attracted them.

posted July 14, 2012 02:35 AM            

I am a Gem/Cancer cusp.

I always attract cusps.

He is my daughters father and things ended 7 months ago.

Its a complicated story.

My daughter us 4 years old.

We keep away because my mars is in his 8th house.

posted July 14, 2012 04:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Thanks Scorpy-oh!

I'm thinking about doing a longer thread on this type of topic at a future time.

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posted July 14, 2012 10:24 AM            

They guy I'm dating now is a Scorp rising, Sun, Mercury, Mars, and Pluto.
And it's effing awesome!

This guy is seriously all water and earth.

I'm not, I have Gem rising, Aries Sun, Aquarius Mars. Other than that I am all water and earth.

Also his DC is Taurus and it conjuncts my Mercury by 2 degrees.

posted February 14, 2020 08:42 PM            

Omg, I CRAVE Scorpionic energy...and it's interesting, because most the women that I'm friendly with at work ARE Scorpios, but they're like...mothers to me.

My 7th house is Scorpio, but at 26 degrees, so the majority of the Scorpio energy falls into the 6th house (which is where my natal Pluto, in Scorpio, sits). My 5th house is Virgo (Mercury in Taurus in the 1st house), while my 8th house is Sagittarius (all my planets in the 8th house are in Capricorn because, again, the 8th house starts near the end of Sagittarius).

I had, in the past few years, come into contact with an Aries who had Scorpio Rising...and not just Scorpio rising, but also Scorpio NN, Pluto in Scorpio, and Jupiter in Scorpio! UGH! It was SO intense, especially as we both had our Plutos aligned with each other's Descendants and our angles were both opposing and conjuncting at the same time...but whew! I was ruined...and yet, reborn of such energy and love that I bore for him.

And yet, after all that heartbreak (we never got together - long story), I still find myself savoring tall, dark, mysterious, and intense Scorpios...*sigh* There's just something so dreamy about them. But I know I still need to do some inner healing and really learn to love myself and allow myself to be loved the way I need, want, and deserve to be loved.

posted February 15, 2020 03:14 AM            

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What in my chart can point to the reason why?

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The Yod? ... Pluto-Neptune base, with apex Chiron in Taurus/11th (at the mid-point of Venus and anaretic degree Moon).

"What could heal my Taurus/11th wound better than a 5th house relationship with a Scorpio" ... or a man with the child in his eyes. ... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olF5kBaKgQw

Then again, your Neptune might instinctively know Scorpio men tend to allow their vulnerability to be seen only by a partner that he knows he can trust. ... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjEq-r2agqc

And ... if you draw your chart (at astro.com) in Huber style, it has the following as the last of the additional tables :-

posted February 15, 2020 11:08 AM            

Moon-Venus not only highlights Taurus, but also Venus and Taurus with a Cancer Asc. The Sign that our chart ruler is in, gets more highlighted than typical for even that Planet (which Moon is already a highlighting factor to begin with). THEN having it conjunct the Taurus Venus REALLY highlights Venus energy in general both through the ruler of the chart being conjunct same, and a Planet being in the Sign it rules.

Taurus, and Venus energy to some extent, is in a natural opposition/complementary i.e. magnetically attracting, close partnership relationship with Scorpio.

Opposite Signs are like two puzzle pieces that fit together to complete each other.

Then both Moon and Venus are romance oriented in general, and Venus represents what we are attracted to in general (even stronger in a more straight than not male's chart, but still significant for straightish females).

When we have Jupiter in a particular Sign, it's quite common that when another person has that Sign connected to their Sun, Asc, Moon, and/or Venus, we feel a strong and often mutual "positive vibes" between them. Like hey, I really like this person, and while we might be different, I understand, accept, and tolerate all their idiosyncrasies and/or foibles. It's actually a form of higher kind of Love. Very accepting, very tolerant, very broad minded, bigger picture perspective, and basically kind of spiritual and love centered in essence.

Such a vibe/connection between people, naturally fosters mutually good feelings. It's sort of the opposite of Saturn and it's heaviness, insecurity, and control oriented tendencies.

So when you combine the factors of Moon Venus conjunction in Taurus with Venus being so highlighted/powerful (since it's conjunct the ruler of the chart, is in it's own sign), Taurus being quite highlighted, Scorpio 5th House, and Jupiter in Scorpio, I'm not at all surprised by a stronger attraction to men with strong Scorpio.

Also, the somewhat close Sun trine Pluto certainly doesn't hurt any of this. This shows that Pluto is at least somewhat consciously integrated into your psyche, and in a harmonious way. If there is harmony between Pluto and your deeper character, gestalt self (Sun) and Pluto, then there is likely to be harmony between you and at least some of those with Pluto highlighted in some way.

Harmony fosters attraction. The deeper law of creation is Like attracts, begets, resonates with, and likes Like. This is much more apparent on the Soul and Spirit levels (i.e. nonphysical). On the personality and material level, opposites also attract, but in the case of opposite Signs--these are better described as complementary Sign pairs--two interlocking pieces of the same puzzle or two sides of the same coin.

To add to all this, strong Gemini is innately attracted to strong Scorpio in an 8th House kind of way. When you put Scorpio on the Asc, the natural 8th House Sign relationship is Gemini. Having both Sun and Mercury in Gemini shows that you have a strong Gemini. When 8th gets involved, especially when along side strong opposition/complementary factors simultaneously, the attraction often becomes very powerful. If it was only this factor, I would say more you to them, but since you will tend to capture Scorpio planets in your 5th, and with the very strong Venus/Taurus combo, it will be more mutual. But on your side, it does show a very magnetically powerful attraction to those with Scorpio very highlighted.

There is an innate Yin-Yang strong attraction between Moon opposite Sun or Sun opposite Moon anyways, and to begin with, but this whole pattern gets super amplified in your particular chart with those with Scorpio Sun in particular.

posted February 15, 2020 11:21 AM            

Natally I have:
Taurus in the 5H.
Venus conjunct Mars in the 8H
Chart ruler Saturn in scorpio conjunct Pluto in Libra on the 10H

posted February 15, 2020 11:50 AM            

You may feel a need to "lose" yourself with another or blurr the distinction between them and you.

Infact, I would say that by extension,all water sign attractions are about that. Water is essentially emotional connection.

So if you find yourself drawn to Moon/Neptune energy too. You are looking to "dissolve" on one hand(Nep) or attach(Moon)to someone on the other.

I for instance find Sco energy too "invasive". I don't share the attraction. I have met a couple. They are very clingy imo.

And despite Ven in Scorpio and Pluto in 7th, I only like Venus in Scorpio.The rest? NO

I like structure,order and some distinction between myself & others I.e I like space, distinction and some detachment.

As a result, I like Earth and air signs as romantic partners. Or atleast someone who has a healthy mix of both dominant.

Yes, I paradoxically scream at them for being too "detached" at times. But I have a lot of water in my chart. I can't see myself aith someond who exemplifies the same energy. Too heavy!

posted February 15, 2020 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
If you are attracted to Scorpio. My guess is that you could have a strong desire to "merge" with the partner.

You may feel a need to "lose" yourself with another or blurr the distinction between them and you.

Infact, I would say that by extension,all water sign attractions are about that. Water is essentially emotional connection.

So if you find yourself drawn to Moon/Neptune energy too. You are looking to "dissolve" on one hand(Nep) or attach(Moon)to someone on the other.

I for instance find Sco energy too "invasive". I don't share the attraction. I have met a couple. They are very clingy imo.

And despite Ven in Scorpio and Pluto in 7th, I only like Venus in Scorpio.The rest? NO

I like structure,order and some distinction between myself & others I.e I like space, distinction and some detachment.

As a result, I like Earth and air signs as romantic partners. Or atleast someone who has a healthy mix of both dominant.

Yes, I paradoxically scream at them for being too "detached" at times. But I have a lot of water in my chart. I can't see myself aith someond who exemplifies the same energy. Too heavy!

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Does Uranus aspect your venus, moon or chart ruler?

Honestly just been a saggy with Aries rising would explain it but I feel Uranus is probably aspecting your moon or venus too....

Good points though....

posted February 16, 2020 02:02 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Does Uranus aspect your venus, moon or chart ruler?

Honestly just been a saggy with Aries rising would explain it but I feel Uranus is probably aspecting your moon or venus too....

Good points though....

With my ex we both had moon in pisces square Neptune conjunct each other. He had venus conjunct pluto, I have venus conjunct mars in the 8th sextile that and his sun trines my moon, my sun quindeciles his moon and we have a huge very tight libra stellium in composite in the 12H involving pluto, mars, Valentine, Sun falling between his natal venus/pluto and my natal pluto..the desire to merge was extremely strong, it was kiss at first sight literally.

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That latter part sounds beautiful hypatia238.

It takes a soul who is completely unafraid to "go the distance" with another(depth wise). Or to "merge" in the way that you spoke.

The depth you want to go into with another shows that you are more open and willing to be vulnerable.Trusting the connection that transcends the physical time/space "we just met, we can't do this. I don't know you" restrictions of societal rules.

Water energy is like that. On a cellular level,I feel this too. The same desire. But there is also great inhibition or self-restriant.A very strong "No,not just yet."

I think that it is the workings of Saturn in Scorpio. I was completely discouraged as a kid to "go" with my intensity. It takes courage to do that.

I was not allowed to go deep with how I feel,let alone act on it.I had to reason it all through and process it in a logical way.

Saturn in Scorpio sits on my Moon in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio and the 7th house natally.

The Moon in Cancer(water) square connection with Mars in Air(Lib) has the effect of me instinctively wanting to intellectualize what is happening (Mars/Lib) instead of responding to it in a "knee jerk" way.

That is further reiterated by Moon(ruler of the Ic) being in 3rd. This also goes to the heart of what I was saying with cusps on another thread. That there is a mix in my case with talking (3rd) about how I feel(Moon conj Ic).

That's where the detachment is also from I believe.Add to that,Mercury opposes Moon. There is an intuitive response of "mentally" processing feelings. Mercury also squares my Asc(I forget about that).

I have strong Mercury in my chart and Neptune/Uranus is a parallel Mc very tight but makes no aspects to Moon/Venus.But I get where you are going with that.

I think the restriction comes from good old Saturn 7th and its corresponding conjunction with Venus(as mentioned).

Uranus can work in two ways.There are those who are risk takers and risk seeking (like my ex) that just follow impulses without too much thought(much like Mars).

My ex has Venus/Uranus in Scorpio.He is very forward and will go after what he wants "in the moment".

Mars in Leo also squares both Venus/Uranus and to me,that adds to the urgency of the impulses he feels. In short, he is a bit of a "f***boy"

The other way that Uranus can work is through detachment. And I mean "DETACHMENT". Where the native seems oblivious to any impulses and can be quite "robotic".

This he also displayed near the end of our coupling by doing the disappearing act. This is classic Uranus "interruption"/the momentum of stability that is underway. Uranus is the great interruptor.

**To end off,there is this fantastic song by Bjork called "Big Time Sensuality". At some point in the song she says;

"We just met
And I know i'm a bit too intimate
But something huge is coming up
And we're both included.

It takes courage to enjoy it..."

And this I think speaks of the water energy meeting with another and then just wanting to "go with it" based on the instantaneous connection. Fire is similar(which I am also strong with)

BUT the part where she says ;

"I don't know my future after this weekend...And I don't want to."

That part alone just had me thinking of the intense risk taking that such connections can have one make.

But the native may not consider it "risk taking" at all.This especially when they TRUST the process and are not involved in the outcome. The outcome is irrelevant to the moment NOW. Very water/fire stuff.

For me that is classic water/fire on Venus/Moon or atleast some water/fire planets on the two. Perhaps even in the 7th/5th.

#sidenote : Interestingly, the amazing Bjork herself has Venus in earthy Cap. But the wide conj of Nep to Sun in Scorpio in 1st knows of this "mergence" conceptually. Add to that,sensitive Moon in 12th.

Plus Uranus is at the top of her chart conj her Mc. She certainly has taken the path less travelled in her career. Even to a point of being famous for being "weird".

BUT there is vulnerability in her art that I see. Maybe it's the Moon in 12th? Her Neptune in 1st? Or even the fact that Chiron in Pisces opposes her Uranus in Virgo Mc?

posted February 16, 2020 03:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
That latter part sounds beautiful hypatia238.

It takes a soul who is completely unafraid to "go the distance" with another(depth wise). Or to "merge" in the way that you spoke.

The depth you want to go into with another shows that you are more open and willing to be vulnerable.Trusting the connection that transcends the physical time/space "we just met, we can't do this. I don't know you" restrictions of societal rules.

Water energy is like that. On a cellular level,I feel this too. The same desire. But there is also great inhibition or self-restriant.A very strong "No,not just yet."

I think that it is the workings of Saturn in Scorpio. I was completely discouraged as a kid to "go" with my intensity. It takes courage to do that.

I was not allowed to go deep with how I feel,let alone act on it.I had to reason it all through and process it in a logical way.

Saturn in Scorpio sits on my Moon in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio and the 7th house natally.

The Moon in Cancer(water) square connection with Mars in Air(Lib) has the effect of me instinctively wanting to intellectualize what is happening (Mars/Lib) instead of responding to it in a "knee jerk" way.

That is further reiterated by Moon(ruler of the Ic) being in 3rd. This also goes to the heart of what I was saying with cusps on another thread. That there is a mix in my case with talking (3rd) about how I feel(Moon conj Ic).

That's where the detachment is also from I believe.Add to that,Mercury opposes Moon. There is an intuitive response of "mentally" processing feelings. Mercury also squares my Asc(I forget about that).

I have strong Mercury in my chart and Neptune/Uranus is a parallel Mc very tight but makes no aspects to Moon/Venus.But I get where you are going with that.

I think the restriction comes from good old Saturn 7th and its corresponding conjunction with Venus(as mentioned).

Uranus can work in two ways.There are those who are risk takers and risk seeking (like my ex) that just follow impulses without too much thought(much like Mars).

My ex has Venus/Uranus in Scorpio.He is very forward and will go after what he wants "in the moment".

Mars in Leo also squares both Venus/Uranus and to me,that adds to the urgency of the impulses he feels. In short, he is a bit of a "f***boy"

The other way that Uranus can work is through detachment. And I mean "DETACHMENT". Where the native seems oblivious to any impulses and can be quite "robotic".

This he also displayed near the end of our coupling by doing the disappearing act. This is classic Uranus "interruption"/the momentum of stability that is underway. Uranus is the great interruptor.

**To end off,there is this fantastic song by Bjork called "Big Time Sensuality". At some point in the song she says;

"We just met
And I know i'm a bit too intimate
But something huge is coming up
And we're both included.

It takes courage to enjoy it..."

And this I think speaks of the water energy meeting with another and then just wanting to "go with it" based on the instantaneous connection. Fire is similar(which I am also strong with)

BUT the part where she says ;

"I don't know my future after this weekend...And I don't want to."

That part alone just had me thinking of the intense risk taking that such connections can have one make.

But the native may not consider it "risk taking" at all.This especially when they TRUST the process and are not involved in the outcome. The outcome is irrelevant to the moment NOW. Very water/fire stuff.

For me that is classic water/fire on Venus/Moon or atleast some water/fire planets on the two. Perhaps even in the 7th/5th.

#sidenote : Interestingly, the amazing Bjork herself has Venus in earthy Cap. But the wide conj of Nep to Sun in Scorpio in 1st knows of this "mergence" conceptually. Add to that,sensitive Moon in 12th.

Plus Uranus is at the top of her chart conj her Mc. She certainly has taken the path less travelled in her career. Even to a point of being famous for being "weird".

BUT there is vulnerability in her art that I see. Maybe it's the Moon in 12th? Her Neptune in 1st? Or even the fact that Chiron in Pisces opposes her Uranus in Virgo Mc?

BUT I like the fact that she is so "out of the box". Its both water and air mixed together somehow.

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I love Bjork too!

That makes sense that saturn on your venus in scorpio would add fear to the idea of surrendering yourself to another and remind you that there is consequences to that and to move with caution. My moon in pisces square neptune did not understand anything about the consequences of merging with another and the leo energy that is so readily up for romance does not help either in been cautious.

I suspect my saggy rising is at 25-26 degrees which means my progressed AC has entered Aquarius which explains this need to break away from the past, this feeling of rebirth and feeling like a different person, and this disinterest in relationships/romance and increased interest on friendship and enjoying this dimension of human relationships more. Also needing more alone time and enjoying my own company more.

Like this desire to merge is not there for me any longer and I think is the progressed AC entering aquarius, along with tr uranus entering my 5H and also saturn reaching its maturity (this happens between ages 35-36) I think is playing into to it too bc merging does have consequences.

posted February 17, 2020 08:30 AM            

My current guy has Pluto conj Moon square Mars sextile ASC. Juno in Scorpio. His Moon/Pluto fall in my 5H.
My ex has Pluto square Sun sextile Moon/Mercury. I'm not sure of his ASC.
My first boyfriend has a Scorpio Venus and Pluto sextile Sun. He also likely has a Scorpio ASC based on his est. ToB.

My bestie is also plutonic - Pluto square 8H Moon trine Venus/Mars opp Mercury quincunx ASC + a Scorpio DSC.

My niece who's VERY clingy to me - Pluto conjunct Venus trine Moon. Mercury/Saturn in Scorpio.

And actually I've been raised by a strong Plutonian (haha) aka my dad... He has Sun/Mars/Jupiter in Scorpio with Venus/Mars/Mercury in 8H. Pluto square Sun trine Moon/Mercury/ASC. 😱