posted July 18, 2012 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Haha that's great... I guess I'd like to confess one of my fantasies is to have sex in a church. (while no one is there, but in the main front area). For all the Christians here please don't hate me lol I would never actually go through with it. But if that's not inappropriate I don't know what is lol

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posted July 18, 2012 11:12 PM              

I know... But that's what would make it so great haha

posted July 18, 2012 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
the most inappropriate attraction i have had was towards a much older married woman at church, lol i felt so wrong.

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posted July 18, 2012 11:29 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Ok I always regret responding honestly to some of the threads here and might come back to edit this later but... I can relate in some ways. (Although not to the virgins and older men part lol) I also have venus (in Aqua) in 8th house, and I have Mars opposite Pluto. I also have Venus square Mars by sign (but by over 11 degrees so maybe too wide to be considered). But yeah I'm not afraid of trying unconventional things with sex. A little violence or anything that adds an extra thrill (nothing taken to any extremes though) is preferable sometimes. Sex is something I see as natural and necessary for well being even, but I also have issues with it. Like I have repressed sexual energy but when it comes down to it it's hard to even enjoy sometimes because I'm too stuck in my head and have a really hard time completely letting go of control.

On a different note, I have Venus (me) square Pluto (him), as well as Venus square Mars with someone and it's pretty passionate. I believe there was a lamp broken at one point (accidentally of course)lol. I'm also down to try kinky things with him I wouldn't be so easily convinced of usually...

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posted July 18, 2012 11:50 PM              

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Also FireMoon, I posted those dates for you in the other thread.

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Thanks lazyscarecrow I appreciate it!!

posted July 18, 2012 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
Also what about black moon Lilith?

Another explanation of the lilith suggested by Marguerite Hafeman is that "where a Lilith point is located on a horoscope chart and the close aspects she makes to other planets by progression or transit can indicate quite precisely where one is to encounter the most frustration and difficulty in life, stemming from poor choices, succumbing to temptation or confused thinking. Also the reaping of karmic consequence for avoiding authentic expression of self and persisting in egocentric, inappropriately idealistic or exploitive behaviors that will bring about a downfall. Sexual perversion and mysogyny are other undesirable manifestations of a poorly aspected Lilith. "

She also goes on to suggest that all lilith troubles "spring from undeveloped portions of the self", which remain undeveloped because subconsiously we feel the need to repress the characteristics of the lilith. The soul reason for this, seems to be because those characteristics are viewed as societally wrong.

In a mans chart, the lilith would be viewed as the underlying qualities of a woman that a man craves but feels ashamed for craving. Therefore, he continually seeks to repress his weakness for the attributes, while still looking for the signs of a strong lilith in a partner. The more dominant the lilith, the stronger it's part in his chart. Whereas, in a womans chart, the placing of the lilith would be the qualities a woman hides from the world because she is ashamed of them. The stronger the lilith, the more she feels the need to express herself.
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=11390

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This is for BML right sand? and not Lilith? cause they are two different asteroids...

becasue they sound similar in the part that the stonger the lilith the more a woman feels to express herself...

posted July 19, 2012 03:22 AM            

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Originally posted by violet7887:
This is for BML right sand? and not Lilith? cause they are two different asteroids...

becasue they sound similar in the part that the stonger the lilith the more a woman feels to express herself...

this is still interesting though as I have BML DW with mars with someone and...hmmm...i feel very sexual towards...

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Yes I think so. I rarely see the asteroid Lilith discussed for the most part..

posted July 19, 2012 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have Mars quincunx Pluto, and Gemini ASC - I think it makes me a bit of a magnet for unwanted sexual attention. Men are often very forward with me without me knowing how it even got to that point or why they think it's okay and that I won't object. I'm a smart girl... I don't know what it is about me that says "please disrespect."

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posted July 19, 2012 03:46 AM              

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Originally posted by sand:
Venus Pluto??

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posted July 19, 2012 05:09 AM            

I have mars square pluto at 0'01 degrees and omgggg I hate all that weird bondage stuff. I also dont have any fetishes or fantasies. I really dont lol. I always felt you need all that stuff when ur not in love with ur partner. Like you need extra stimulation because ur partner doesnt provide it for u since he's not that exciting to u i guess. I dont really understand why people would like that. But i dont think it's related to mars square pluto. That aspect is the tightest in my chart, and i hate that stuff lol.

Hey sand, i saw in a canopus report that i have that lilith thing conjunct my sun or something. Well, when i read the description it really described me. Said i was strong willed and rebellious...yeah i feel that way about myself though i dont show it.

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posted July 19, 2012 05:10 AM            

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"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." - Lao Tzu

posted July 19, 2012 06:47 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Haha. Thank you sand. You got the ball rollinggg, I see!

I have mars square pluto at 0'01 degrees and omgggg I hate all that weird bondage stuff. I also dont have any fetishes or fantasies. I really dont lol. I always felt you need all that stuff when ur not in love with ur partner. Like you need extra stimulation because ur partner doesnt provide it for u since he's not that exciting to u i guess. I dont really understand why people would like that. But i dont think it's related to mars square pluto. That aspect is the tightest in my chart, and i hate that stuff lol.

Hey sand, i saw in a canopus report that i have that lilith thing conjunct my sun or something. Well, when i read the description it really described me. Said i was strong willed and rebellious...yeah i feel that way about myself though i dont show it.

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Me too always thought I could do those stuff if I didn't love the person but not coz I am bored or need stimulation lol! Just exploring in that manner I think my heart can't be all in.

posted July 19, 2012 08:34 AM            

It's gotten to the point that I try never to go anywhere alone and without something that I could use to defend myself. I never go out alone at night. I won't go walking alone at any time of day unless it is a crowded, well-lit area.

However, I've gotten more and more assertive over the years, and can be off-putting, aloof, and intimidating when need be.

posted July 19, 2012 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have Mars quincunx Pluto, and Gemini ASC - I think it makes me a bit of a magnet for unwanted sexual attention. Men are often very forward with me without me knowing how it even got to that point or why they think it's okay and that I won't object. I'm a smart girl... I don't know what it is about me that says "please disrespect."

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posted July 19, 2012 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Haha that's great... I guess I'd like to confess one of my fantasies is to have sex in a church. (while no one is there, but in the main front area). For all the Christians here please don't hate me lol I would never actually go through with it. But if that's not inappropriate I don't know what is lol

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in the "missionary" position?

sorry, I just could not resist making a lame church word/sex joke

In all honesty, I've known a few people who've also had that fantasy. I personally hope that no one at my church has ever done the nasty there. It would be awkward.

O_o

Some people at church seem so straight laced and 'decent', but have a bunch of kids, and I haven't been able to figure that one out. It's like, "how does that happen?" Obviously I know the 'technical details', but like I can't ever see them letting loose like that.

Has anyone else ever noticed that, too--that it's often the most prim and proper couples that have the most kids? The ones that you can't see ever being spontaneous or fun or being able to relax or anything? The ones that you can't even see laughing or smiling?

posted July 19, 2012 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
god hates when you pork in his church! lolz

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LMAO

Ugh, I'm probably going to think of that when I go to church now.

I'm imagining God saying that, but in more flowery language, like that of the King James Version, and saying it all Anglican-ish and proper, in an English accent--one of the more 'posh' ones.

posted July 19, 2012 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
LMAO

Ugh, I'm probably going to think of that when I go to church now.

I'm imagining God saying that, but in more flowery language, like that of the King James Version, and saying it all Anglican-ish and proper, in an English accent--one of the more 'posh' ones.

*sigh* I have problems.

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posted July 19, 2012 09:20 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
nope, thats exactly the way he would say it

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