posted July 21, 2012 04:12 PM            

What shows what kind of friends you seek, and what kind of friend you are?

posted July 21, 2012 04:29 PM            

I like to have compatible moons, but I can get along with Aquarius and Libra moons. (Mine is Cancer).

Venus compatibility helps. Mine is Scorpio and I really like Venus Virgo and Venus Pisces.

As for what kind of friend I am, my biggest challenges in relationships are (a) being assertive, which I am working on--with some people I'm getting better, but I feel like I cannot be assertive with others, and holding back leads me to venting and also to anger and resentment. It may feel like dishonesty or two-facedness to some. It really isn't: sometimes, I just really feel like I cannot go to people and talk to them about things, as it would just make the problem worse. It's tough. (b) Feeling close to them/like I really matter a lot to them. (c) Communication--when people infrequently or inadequately communicate, or when they renege on promises, it's upsetting to me. (d) Keeping friends over a long period of time, which is what I want. I don't like 'come and go'. When I find a true friend, which is rare, or someone that has the potential to be one, I'd like to be lifelong friends, if possible.

I like friends that I can talk to about deeper things, but still spend time with and have fun with together. I like to have common interests, but be different enough to be interesting. I don't want to be ditched for a boyfriend/forgotten about if someone gets a boyfriend or gets married or something. I like to be able to talk to someone about anything. I need to feel like someone is reliable and really cares--security and stability are important. I need people to communicate, big-time, and to feel like people like me. I love to be able to share beauty with people and have them appreciate it (such as beautiful art or music).