posted July 22, 2012 08:56 PM            

Most of the important people in my life have either their moon in a fire sign like me, or in a feminine sign that sextiles my sun and trines either my pluto in scorpio or neptune in capricorn (both very sweet synastry aspects). I am especially drawn to moon in virgo people because it usually sextiles my cancer sun, while trining my uranus, neptune and saturn, while also possibly conjuncting my leo moon depending on their birth time.

Sun trine/conjunct/opp venus, sun trine, conjynct/opp mars, sun conjunct/sextile/trine moon, sun trine/sextile/conjunct jupiter, sun square pluto, moon trine uranus, moon trine neptune, moon trine pluto, and moon trine/conjunct moon, are pretty much all the most important aspects in synastry right there, so that explains why I almost always click better with masculine suns with either fire (trine my moon) or feminine moons (that aspect my other planets).

I usually feel tension with tauruses and scorpios, and when I checked our synastry...indeed, their sun squared all my leo placements. I tend to either clash with virgos right away or be drawn to them but find their criticism annoying after I get to know them. That's probably because leo is very sensitive to criticism and feels dampened by it. I tend to find the feminine signs to be downers who dampen my enthusiasm and who have a confusing and murky mental process whose sense of humor I don't really get. For some reason, I do get along with other cancers really well. I haven't checked the synastry reasons behind that, though. Our sense of humor really clicks as well, not sure why that is astrologically.
But I did want to clarify that I do have some feminine sign friends, just that...they are few and far inbetween Cheers

What about you!

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posted July 22, 2012 10:28 PM            

I really don't do well with people who have mainly masculine signs in their chart. I have mostly all Water in my chart, Mars in the 8th, Pluto in the 12th too. So I'm a very Watery person and therefore, totally aware of the little things Fiery people can brush off.

posted July 22, 2012 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Cynnared:
Female friends are mostly Earth/Water signs
I have Venus and Moon both in water signs
Male friends are mostly Fire/Air signs
I have Sun and Jupiter in Fire signs with Air rising

I hardly have any gal pals that are Fire/Air

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interesting!

posted July 23, 2012 12:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Maka:
My top three are in feminine signs, yet my three best friends are masculine fire signs: Aries, Leo, Sag. We've been friends for years.

Though the people I date are other feminine signs with feminine influences. I tried dating masculine sign men..but their "player smug" aura bugs the bejeebus out of me, except Aquarian males and I gel fine.

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posted July 23, 2012 12:37 AM            

all my major friends have been 2 gems, 2 sags, an aries and an aqua. and my doggie is a gem!!

No leos or libra though lol i dont ever meet leos or hit it off with libra.

Theres something about pisces and libra though, i have come into contact with a lot of guys with those signs and they seem to like me but its never mutual. But i got along better with the pisces guys in a friendship way. Not the girls tho its rough with them.

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posted July 23, 2012 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Loveless, we've talked about this before, about how we're both drawn to masculine signs yet they dont fully give us what we need since we have feminine suns. Well, the difference with me is I don't feel tension with them at all. I actually feel more tension with the feminine signs...just awkward silence and like they're bossy and critical, you know? That's how I feel around them. It's just that i do wish masculine signs were less free spirits and more stable and willing to admit their own faults...and more loyal lol. I dont understand how masculine signs can be such free spirits...have 5 million friends that they're only surface friends with

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posted July 23, 2012 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I actually feel more tension with the feminine signs...just awkward silence and like they're bossy and critical, you know? That's how I feel around them.

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posted July 23, 2012 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
two of my best friends for a while were aqua sun scorpio moon and aqua sun aqua moon, they were both about equally loyal. Was friends with an aqua sun cancer moon...she wasnt loyal at all...very confused individual. scorpio mooner had lots of saturn and neptune and aqua moon had lots of pluto so they were more loyal than the cancer mooner chick who was mostly venus and jupiter

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posted July 23, 2012 01:21 AM            

The Aries friend and I are like opposites attract, but we've been friends for about 16 years and it doesn't matter how much time or distance we are apart we can always come together and have a laugh. There's oppositions and sqaures in our synastry, so it's very mind boggling yet peaceful.

With the Leo it's more understandable. She has a Virgo stellium to my Virgo Sun/Mars and I have Leo Stellium to her Leo Sun. Plus we both have Capricorn Rising. Before I began studying astrology we would call each other "twins".

With feminine signs, I have so many in my family that I believe that I purposely seek out masculine energy for friendships, though Pisces are constant sign. Other Virgos do not particularly care for my fishy vibe (Pisces Moon/Neptune in the 1st house.) Capricorns hit or a miss. I don't know many Cancers outside my family, it seems like the Leos took over for them where I live. Scorpio is neutral.