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posted July 25, 2012 10:22 AM            

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Hey guys, sorry to start another thread I tried to continue an old one but no one answered. How did you guys deal with this aspect if you experienced it?

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posted July 25, 2012 10:31 AM            

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Impossible relationship or unrequited love IME. I didn't deal with it, I let it go.

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posted July 25, 2012 10:52 AM            

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But was the love present from both sides?

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posted July 25, 2012 10:56 AM            

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Sometimes, yes, but then it would be an impossible situation. But for most times, no, it was one-sided.

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posted July 25, 2012 11:06 AM            

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What about Sun opposite Saturn in composite? Saturn in 5th along with Venus, Uranus, Neptune.

Would it indicate that the relationship is impossible, though there might be mutual feelings?

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posted July 25, 2012 11:07 AM            

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I see! I read mixed opinions about it. I thought a venus/jupiter would smooth it out but I guess not!

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posted July 25, 2012 11:20 AM            

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hello. i have venus opposite saturn with my bf in synastry and composite chart. we have been together almost 2 years. i find him very restrictive of my personality - almost like he sucks the fun right out of me, if that makes sense. he is more heavily saturn-influenced than me, and is 9 years older so that adds to that overall feeling. the relationship is very solid, imo, but just from what i am going through (as the more venus-influenced) i would say that venus has the upper hand here. i think the venus person could easily walk away because of how restirctive saturn feels. i often feel like my bf is taking my fun away and definitely inhibits my more youthful experiences/attitude. but, the relationship feels safe and secure and we make plans well in advance (like booking vacays 6 months prior, etc.) so there is longevity here i think, and a lot of maturity in the realtionship because saturn kinda expects that somehow

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posted July 25, 2012 11:48 AM            

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Yes I feel I can't be as open as I am. He has venus sq saturn in his natal. I think that's why.

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posted July 30, 2012 03:26 PM            

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So why would saturn distant themselves from venus? is geniuine dislike or what is it?

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posted July 30, 2012 03:32 PM            

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On the bright side, if it's not harshly aspected, it could mean longevity and dedication. :-)

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posted July 30, 2012 04:13 PM            

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posted July 30, 2012 09:10 PM            

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Yes that's how it feels for me

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posted July 31, 2012 03:11 PM            

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I would really like hear from a saturn person in this aspect. How do you feel? How would you like venus to approach you?

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posted July 31, 2012 03:19 PM            

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Saturn here:

I feel that Venus can't be serious for more than 5 minutes at the time. I'm constantly having to readjust my attitude to be lighter and more carefree, more humorous. Venus makes me feel like a killjoy.

I'd like to be appreciated for my efforts to keep the channels of communication open, also, my efforts to keep things solid and together.

I am spontaneous and funny, just not as much as the Venus person.

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posted July 31, 2012 06:30 PM            

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just curious, would moon opp saturn composit be similar?

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posted July 31, 2012 06:50 PM            

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Thanks yin but in my case. I'm the one yearning to have a full convo while he just shuts me out like he doesn't want to talk while he talks to everyone else.

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posted December 22, 2013 03:49 AM            

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I have this aspect (a tight one) with someone. The main thing I noticed is that the main problem is the external factors that keep us away not the internal ones. Which in my opinion... SUCKS.

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