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Topic: Pursuing Sun Cap/Venus Pisces/Mars Pisces Man
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blissfulconfusion
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 25, 2012 05:39 PM
  
Hi all! I have a question about a guy that I have been very confused about for a while now. I've worked with him for about 9 months although we don't see each other too often because we work at a large company. We've occasionally had lunch at work and we do stop and chat (flirt?) for a bit if we see each other. Needless to say, I have developed a huge crush on him. I finally got the courage to ask him out after I felt like he was trying to hint at the idea. A couple weeks ago we got together for dinner and went out for drinks afterward at his suggestion. After being able to spend some time with him outside of work I felt pretty confident that he liked me from the way he acted. We haven't gone out since then though and haven't spoken too much. He texted me that night, just some small talk. I have texted him a couple of times and it's always me texting him first which doesn't seem like a good sign. On the other hand, when I do text him he helps to carry on the conversation so he seems interested in talking. Based on his placements, I'm wondering if I just need to keep pursuing him even though it's not a role I'm used to. I really want to go out with him again but I've been waiting for him to ask. However, I feel like it's very possible he is unsure of how I feel about him because it's hard for me to open up at first...my Sun/Mars/Mercury is in Cancer.  Any thoughts? IP: Logged |
redshift
Knowflake Posts: 249
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 25, 2012 07:48 PM
Oh boy. Sounds familiar... I've been posting endlessly about an elusive man, but never mind that. On your topic, just from the cap sun/venus sounds like a reserved and maybe hard nut to crack, plus mars in pisces-those pisces influences in any "masculine" energy planet seem to make men so elusive and slippery. Do you have a chart to post to see the bigger picture?IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 5453
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted July 25, 2012 08:17 PM
Those pisces placements would probably make him passive..
You would probably have to be the aggression one, w/o putting any pressure on him whats so ever..
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MadameButterfly
Knowflake Posts: 66
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 25, 2012 08:27 PM
Ask him out again. He could be afraid of coming on too strong and may have already made up his mind that you were going to come forward first (again). The Pisces in him is too reserved and his Cap Sun is too stubborn to budge. I'm sure he would be more than receptive to you asking him out again. IP: Logged |
blissfulconfusion
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 26, 2012 04:00 AM
Thanks for the input! Sometimes you just need to hear from someone else what you already suspect.@redshift Here is his chart if you're curious, unknown birth time:  IP: Logged |
blissfulconfusion
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 27, 2012 06:09 AM
Just a little update....I asked him to go out again tomorrow and he said yes.  I've got to trust my instincts more and ignore those negative voices in my head. IP: Logged |
Aeline
Knowflake Posts: 929
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 27, 2012 06:13 AM
Oh, those Venus&Mars in Pisces guys... lol. *facepalm* IP: Logged |
12thhouser
Knowflake Posts: 674
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 27, 2012 06:20 AM
I can only respond to having Venus in Pisces (in the same degree as this guy, too!). Lioness is probably right about you needing the initiate things, though it sounds like you already did.Whenever I've asked women out, it's rarely gone beyond a first date. The only time things went any further was when the woman asked me out. Still not sure why that is. Then again, that might not be all of Pisces' placements "fault." He has a lot of Capricorn activity. Of the Capricorns I've known, all were rather reserved. That combination shows he could simply be feeling out the situation with you (Capricorns I knew disliked risk-taking). I'll be curious as to what you post on how it works out. Best of luck! IP: Logged |
blissfulconfusion
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 03, 2012 06:13 PM
lol, the saga continues. We went out for a 2nd date a week ago. He paid for everything again, opened doors for me, we cuddled at the movie theater, then we went back to his place and ended up making out. All the physical moves were initiated by him. When we hugged and kissed goodnight, I said that we should do something again next weekend and he agreed but we didn't make any solid plans. The weekend has arrived and I haven't talked to him since the date night. I was wanting to resist texting him to see if he would and he hasn't so far. Ugh, once again I am utterly confused. IP: Logged |
5Gemini
Knowflake Posts: 110
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 03, 2012 06:24 PM
sounds to me like either he can't make up his mind if he wants to pursue a relationship or he's playing youIP: Logged |
violet7887
Knowflake Posts: 1055
From: maya
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 03, 2012 06:46 PM
yes i agree^^although he could just be a perfectly nice fellow thats just passive just keep your eyes open..dont over look that uranus-moon conjunction in sag. either. He also has moon square mars and venus...he might have friction between emotions and love. pursue it but just be careful as to he is on the same page as you and not looking at is as something your not... good luck IP: Logged |
hmm
Knowflake Posts: 571
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 03, 2012 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by Aeline:
Oh, those Venus&Mars in Pisces guys... lol. *facepalm*
why facepalm? IP: Logged |
5Gemini
Knowflake Posts: 110
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 03, 2012 08:28 PM
I happen to know someone who is born 2 days early, same year also. He is gorgeous, women throw themselves at him and he is a player. HOWEVER I am not saying the guy youre crushin on is a player but he does have an afflicted Venus...Venus square Moon, Conjunct Mars, Square UranusI have a heavily afflicted Venus myself and do have commitment phobia and being overly flirtatious which has gotten me into a big heaping mess. This is mainly cuz emotionally I am hard to please therefore I always struggle to maintain a content atmosphere in relationships IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 1281
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 03, 2012 09:58 PM
I recently met someone born the same month as your guy with that Venus/Mars in Pisces. I'm not interested...I think. I see what you mean about the passivity. I also know that if I wanted something to happen I'd have to make all the moves. Their Saturn excatly opposes my Venus, so I know better than to go there. IP: Logged |
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