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From: My soul is all over the world! (aka vagabond)
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posted July 26, 2012 09:54 AM            

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Never really spent time with a gem as a friend or anything or had one as a good friend. But recently I did spend time with one, a lot. really liked it. wanna avoid being sappy, haha, but let them know how much their brief walk into my life was really meaningful to me and I will miss it!

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posted July 26, 2012 10:01 AM            

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Sms, emails, phone calls, a postal card from next door :-) normal gems like all kind of form of communication...but the details of the messages depend on venus.. Mars.. Moon etc..

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posted July 26, 2012 11:20 AM            

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they are leaving, I mean. like, in the moment, as they are leaving to go back home 1000s of miles away, how to let them know with words?

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posted July 26, 2012 12:03 PM            

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just say, "I am going to miss you! Why not just buy a new luggage bag and take me with you?! i'm sure i'll fit in there "

okay, just kidding! just tell them you'll miss them? and be like "we should still keep in touch. We should skype each other sometimes" or something like that.. And yes, e-mailing them, keeping them up to date on what is going in your place after your friend has left, any goss that you can possibly tell to them hehe, keep in touch on facebook

i have a gem friend and we always go on skype, sometimes we do it just to talk about absolutley nonsense LOL

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posted July 26, 2012 12:22 PM            

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Awwwwww, just tell them how you feel, don't hold back or think it's sappy. Let it all out.

Though I am not a Gemini.

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posted July 27, 2012 02:31 AM            

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Gemini sun/mercury
Cancer moon

Say youll miss them, give them a hug a neat souvenir, a photo album is neat or a cool book to read on the way back. or just send a poostcard a little bit later on after they are back home.

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posted July 29, 2012 05:22 PM            

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To Milly and Junethird:

Could you elaborate on what the messages would need to say? Esp if they are a Cancer Mercury/Mars (but Gemini Sun and Moon). I would think they would like written communication that would include some sort of emotions expressed (but not terribly heavy...due to the Gemini part). On my side his Mercury is Conjunct my Sun and Asc and I like talking to him (plus my Venus in 11th and Moon in 7th is ONLY attracted when I love the way they think and can have an interesting convo with them).

Carl:
One of my very good friends was a Gemini Sun/Mercury but with Cancer Venus...and she LOVED written communication and would communicate with just about anyone. She was a fun and lighthearted communicator (her Gemini Mercury was Sextile my Leo Mercury), BUT she also would like expressions of emotions (Venus in Cancer). Communications just had to be fun most of the time.

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posted July 30, 2012 09:48 AM            

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Hi :-) I am Sun/Mercury/Moon Gemini... Pisces asc though. I love written communication, I love poetry, I love to talk about mostly anything if I see the friendship is sincere and healthy.

The fact that they are leaving makes it easier :-). I think you can give your e-mail and facebook telling her that you would like to keep in contact as you enjoy her company a lot! And I also think a cancer moon would like a small farewell present?

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posted July 31, 2012 01:57 AM            

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Don't.

Keep'em guessing.

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posted July 31, 2012 02:53 AM            

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Some interesting keepsake, something they can display and when other people ask about it your memory will bring a smile to their face and they'll make some funny joke about it to the other person but inside they'll be all warm n cozy. That's if they really liked you back. NIX o with words u say...you can be genuine it's OK.

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posted July 31, 2012 04:23 AM            

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Just sandwich some funny in between the sap.

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posted July 31, 2012 10:10 AM            

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The best thing is to give them a humorous card and write that you'll miss them very much and hope to stay in touch. Provide your phone number, email, etc. Keep it simple and sweet. Don't give long speeches.

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