posted July 26, 2012 09:43 PM            

There still seems to be a lot of Sun sign or at least simplistic sign-based astrology out there that tends to perpetuate some half-truths or even outright falsehoods regarding people of the various zodiac signs and the general thrust of how they interact.

I’ll do a brief rundown here of the basic modus operandi of each sign (which can be applied either to your sun sign or rising/asc sign) and how they interact or ‘sympathize’ with the opposite sign. These aren’t meant to be complete relational assessments or complete assessments of these pairings, but good examples of how balance and integration can take place.

Aries & Libra

Aries is a mode in which expresses self through direct energy with definite aims. In being a basic “I am” self-promoting mode of expression it supports ego to a large degree and tends to direct others who appear to be aimless and to pull others along in its wake.

Libra types often don’t mind being pulled along and are there to soften, redirect, balance and bring in a notion of fairness to the headstrong Aries type. They interject fairness over bullying, which can be a distinct Aries tendency. For them relating IS the aim and many Aries types will find that after years of bossing them around it is actually the Libran that has done much if not most of the directing in a more subtle or carefully-negotiated way. Libra is the relating, balancing mode that sometimes gives joy in playing devil’s advocate for the kicks just to remind partner Aries to not be one-dimensional in thinking.

Aries helps the Libra become more certain and clear about personal interests so that decisions can be made instead of forever weighed. The Aries type can press them with, “Yes I know that’s what they think, just tell me what YOU think!” The Aries type learns to see both sides and develop the ability to go back and forth in a fuller consideration. The Libra type learns to not care so much about what others might think and instead determine their self-interest, make a decision and go forward. Aries is hell bent on their mission. Libra shows this is relative to others and cannot be accomplished without cooperation, particularly with those closest to you.

Continue reading: Zodiac types: how they compliment each other

posted July 27, 2012 02:54 AM            

I have:
venus aries
Mars libra
Saturn libra

Venus in aries is a huge detriment... So unsophisticated when ruffled lol and mars in libra is a total drag. Can never decide which way to proceed lol agree to disagree but to agree to nothing lol I think this placement is worse than being stubborn. Being able to play devils advocate is not all its cracked up to be.

Add my mercury in gemini and well the whole gang is here to add more fuel to the fire lol

I do play peace maker alot. But iam usually the one who lights the small fire lol my gemini cant help but ask endless questions out of curiosity not malice... A fine line of playing devils advocate. My mind is a beautiful disaster lol

Aries & Libra

Aries is a mode in which expresses self through direct energy with definite aims. In being a basic “I am” self-promoting mode of expression it supports ego to a large degree and tends to direct others who appear to be aimless and to pull others along in its wake.

Libra types often don’t mind being pulled along and are there to soften, redirect, balance and bring in a notion of fairness to the headstrong Aries type. They interject fairness over bullying, which can be a distinct Aries tendency. For them relating IS the aim and many Aries types will find that after years of bossing them around it is actually the Libran that has done much if not most of the directing in a more subtle or carefully-negotiated way. Libra is the relating, balancing mode that sometimes gives joy in playing devil’s advocate for the kicks just to remind partner Aries to not be one-dimensional in thinking.

posted July 28, 2012 01:35 AM            

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They interject fairness over bullying, which can be a distinct Aries tendency.

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This lol

Also. Really nice! I am glad you've explained this so well for those out there who don't really understand how opposites work. I love cafeastrology's north node explanations. It really describes the interplay of zodiac opposites for me. What does each opposite need to learn from each other at a deep soul level? It really explains it well, I think.
http://cafeastrology.com/nodesofthemoon.html

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posted July 28, 2012 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
I thought u meant how people give compliments! I was like, well, I use lots of flattery...

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posted July 28, 2012 08:46 PM            

I enjoyed reading through all the pairs, even the Virgo/Pisces where I have my NN/SN.

posted July 28, 2012 10:17 PM            

Just for fun...How the zodiac types compliment each other:

Aries: "Get outa my way, pretty boy."

Taurus: "No, I don't want to, but you're so nice to ask with your sweet voice, and all."

Gemini: "Wow, you talk even faster than me."

Cancer: "Mmmm, you're as sweet as mama's home cooking."

Leo: "You make me laugh. I love you within an inch of your life."

Virgo: "You keep things so nicely placed, you're so organized and with it."

Libra: "I'd like to flatter your gorgeous body all over."

Scorpio: (thinking to self)"you'd like to kiss me with that pretty mouth of yours, don't you (asking silently and rhetorically), yes, you do."

Sagittarius: "You are the most wondermous and generous person ever!"

Capricorn: "Why, working with you is a pleasure, no work at all."

Aquarius: "You can be one of my (long list of) best friends for-(disappearing leaving you wondering what for?)..."

Pisces: (doe eyes staring, eyelashes possibly fluttering, that's all)

posted July 28, 2012 10:22 PM            

Those are hilarious, Kannon!!!

Absolutely LOVE them!!!

posted July 28, 2012 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
BTW, I, Kannon am a 'he', complete with beard and everything.

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posted July 29, 2012 01:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
And thanks to RedScorp and especially to RunAroundScreaming for catching my rather un-Virgoan spelling error. (Brain now dedicated to astrology, no room left for my inborn spelling editor).

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Oh I caught it all right, but ...

... it would not have been complimentary to point out what was obviously a typo

posted July 29, 2012 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
My Virgo ASC caught it immediately, but I had to teach myself to ignore such errors here or go nuts. I can correct it in your subject if you want me to.

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posted July 29, 2012 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
My Virgo ASC caught it immediately, but I had to teach myself to ignore such errors here or go nuts. I can correct it in your subject if you want me to.

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