posted July 30, 2012 09:57 PM              

My MC is in Pisces but almost all of Aries is in my 10th house as well. I've read that at least with someone's sun in your 10th house, you may look up to them or see them as having the traits you want to be known for. Which is true, whatever our differences are, with all of my Aries friends/acquaintances I always look up to the way they seem so fearless and assertive in going after what they want. In dating I've had someone's moon in my 10th house and he is very supportive of what I'm doing in school and is always giving me suggestions...

posted July 30, 2012 11:15 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I find this interesting... What have your experiences been?

My MC is in Pisces but almost all of Aries is in my 10th house as well. I've read that at least with someone's sun in your 10th house, you may look up to them or see them as having the traits you want to be known for. Which is true, whatever our differences are, with all of my Aries friends/acquaintances I always look up to the way they seem so fearless and assertive in going after what they want. In dating I've had someone's moon in my 10th house and he is very supportive of what I'm doing in school and is always giving me suggestions...

Has anyone had experience with venus 10th house synastry or any other stories to share?

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posted July 30, 2012 11:20 PM              

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Did the guy you were dating have a Pisces moon or Aries moon?

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Aries

posted July 30, 2012 11:49 PM              

As far as whether they also look up to me, I guess it's hard to say, I think there is a mutual respect, but honestly I usually feel like they have the upper hand. Maybe it's just the nature of Capricorn/ Aries dynamics, but I usually see Aries as very confident and I admire the way they go after what they want without making any apologies for it... Something I'm not the greatest at. Although I am growing into my own confidence so things that used to intimidate me don't so much anymore...

But yeah I think ultimately with my Aries friends it's been the case that they take on sort of a mentor roll, as in they see that I hold back sometimes but they try to set an example... And yes with 10th house moon synastry it is a very nice connection...

posted July 31, 2012 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
It is really interesting

As far as whether they also look up to me, I guess it's hard to say, I think there is a mutual respect, but honestly I usually feel like they have the upper hand. Maybe it's just the nature of Capricorn/ Aries dynamics, but I usually see Aries as very confident and I admire the way they go after what they want without making any apologies for it... Something I'm not the greatest at. Although I am growing into my own confidence so things that used to intimidate me don't so much anymore...

But yeah I think ultimately with my Aries friends it's been the case that they take on sort of a mentor roll, as in they see that I hold back sometimes but they try to set an example... And yes with 10th house moon synastry it is a very nice connection...

What sign(s) are in your 10th house? What have your synastry experiences been with this house?

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It could be that your Aries sun sign friends have the upper hand because the Sun is exalted in Aries. What’s your sun sign? What aspects do you make to their suns, or did you make to your boyfriend’s moon?

As far as my synastry, I have Sagittarius on the MC, with a bit of Capricorn in there as well. I knew this one young woman who had about 5 or 6 planets, including her Sagittarius sun, spread out between my 9th and 10th houses over my MC. We met in an astrology chat on another site, someone started picking on her, I stood up for her out of principle, and from that point, she went head over heels for me. I was kind of taken aback by it all actually. She had her Venus in Capricorn in my 10th, and I think she had feelings for me for a brief period but had trouble fully expressing them (Capricorn). With another young woman I know who’s a good friend of mine, I have my Pisces Venus in her 10th, conjunct her Sun. So, her sun was conjunct my Pisces ascendant line, too. She invited to a cookout at her home to meet her husband and two female friends of her. At one point in the evening, she was telling her friends about me, how we’ve known each other since high school, and at one point (seemingly out of the blue), she says to them that I am “every girl’s dream.” I was too taken aback by that to even respond or ask her where she was coming from with that statement. I liked her, but not in that way or that intensely. Plus, she was married. With different experiences (one with her Venus in my 10th, the other with my Venus in her 10th, you’d think one would affect me, and I affect the other, but strangely, I ended up affecting both women. Part of me tries to figure out why it’s not going both ways, and another part doesn’t try to overthink it and just rolls with it.

posted July 31, 2012 05:12 AM            

My 10h is quite loaded with Pluto/merc/venus/nn0de and 2 supportive sextiles fr0m my chart ruler, uranus, and nept. My dad's Jupiter helps me financially climb the career ladder. My ex's mars/pluto transformed my public image in a n0t so g0od manner. Destructi0n, violence and it all happened publicly. I made a career choice at this point in time. My other ex's Saturn made me feel stable, relaxed, like there's s0me0ne I could depend on which in turn helped me c0ncentrate on studies. Venus meant relati0nship. When things began to stagnate and this pers0n's karmic duty to help me adapt to a new c0untry was over, the relati0nship t0o ended without much ado. I've a friend whose Venus falls in my 10th but I can't relate to it.

posted July 31, 2012 10:18 AM            

Also, I feel that the not-so-close people see you through a colored glass, and that color will be the MC ... It's the image you project directly into their mind without even knowing ...

Now I experienced someone having their moon falls in my 10H and directly conjunct my MC, he wasn't supportive at all. But you're right, I met someone in high school he had his sun exactly on my MC ( same exact degree except for the minutes ) and I have always looked up to him and I toook it way above and beyond that I started competing with him ( blame it on my sun ) and ended up exactly or even better.

I also had someone's venus right in my 10H, I was his HeadTutor, and he was 1 year younger than me ... But whenever I was with him I felt like I'm the most beautiful living woman - maybe another aspects were involved, he really used to see me as a beauty symbol.

posted July 31, 2012 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Interesting thread!
Now I think the Meduim Coeli is one of the most important things to look into. It represents more than your career, it's your aura, your public image and IMO when people see you for the first time, they see your MC and not rising / sun.
MC and ASC are always in an exact square so your outter presonality will be a combination of both, but with the ASC appearing in a clearer way.

Also, I feel that the not-so-close people see you through a colored glass, and that color will be the MC ... It's the image you project directly into their mind without even knowing ...

Now I experienced someone having their moon falls in my 10H and directly conjunct my MC, he wasn't supportive at all. But you're right, I met someone in high school he had his sun exactly on my MC ( same exact degree except for the minutes ) and I have always looked up to him and I toook it way above and beyond that I started competing with him ( blame it on my sun ) and ended up exactly or even better.

I also had someone's venus right in my 10H, I was his HeadTutor, and he was 1 year younger than me ... But whenever I was with him I felt like I'm the most beautiful living woman - maybe another aspects were involved, he really used to see me as a beauty symbol.

I would like to know how is it like to have someone's pluto in your 10H or conjunct your MC !

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