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Topic: Venus square pluto and fated love?
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 04, 2012 11:53 AM
  
It always happens to me that I see a cute guy before he sees me and then when he does see me, we might or might not make eye contact(so he may not even know that i noticed him too), but its always that same guy that i thought was cute who ends up trying to talk to me. It makes me think that attraction does go both ways.Or is it just my natal venus square pluto? I've read that it causes fated relationships, or at least they feel fated. I think the logical way to think about it is something I learned in class---that people tend to go for others who are on the same level of attractiveness as they are. So probably two people who are on the same scale of level of attractiveness will gravitate towards the other? ------------------
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 05, 2012 08:15 PM
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ail221
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posted August 05, 2012 08:18 PM
[people tend to go for others who are on the same level of attractiveness as they are. So probably two people who are on the same scale of level of attractiveness will gravitate towards the other?]Not necessarily because self-esteem also governs how a person would measure their own "physical appeal" there some physically attractive people that don't see themselves the same as the outside world sees them. Plus there are always those couples that physically don't look compatible but then they have such great "chemistry" which could explain the venus-pluto aspect. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted August 05, 2012 08:18 PM
I dunno I guess even a non attractive person will be drawn to a good looking 1... I didn't always go for looks, I was aiming for a real true big heart lol  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 05, 2012 08:48 PM
Yeah but does this happen to anyone else? Is this a common occurrence? lolthank you guys =0) IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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posted August 05, 2012 10:26 PM
even in composite?IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 05, 2012 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
even in composite?
Hmm? What do you mean? IP: Logged |
Junethird
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posted August 05, 2012 11:49 PM
Natally i have the opposite problem IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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posted August 06, 2012 04:42 AM
if a couple has venus sq pluto in composite, would it feel fated as well for both?IP: Logged |
matt
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posted August 06, 2012 05:01 AM
Love relationships can be fated for the Venus/Pluto individual; however, I don't think this has any thing to do with mutual levels of attraction between two individuals possessing the same levels of attractiveness. How can you possibly quantify 'attractiveness' in the first place? After all, it's subjective. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted August 06, 2012 12:29 PM
When venus/pluto there seems to be more sexual tension, lust which can be positive or negative. Honestly when I think of fated love I imagine there would be a "Vertex" or "North Node" connection. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 06, 2012 09:26 PM
@ RAS.. I read somewhere, not sure where or if its true...
When you have natal venus/Pluto you are prone to love triangles and secret relationships.. These are the Karmic relationships set up for venus/pluto.
Learning lessons I would say.. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 06, 2012 10:11 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
@ RAS.. I read somewhere, not sure where or if its true...
When you have natal venus/Pluto you are prone to love triangles and secret relationships.. These are the Karmic relationships set up for venus/pluto.
Learning lessons I would say..
YES! Thank you, lioness
Totally agree with this. =) I was told by an astrologer that venus square pluto natally means your friendships/relationships feel fated, though. Wanted to see if anyone had also heard anything about this. ------------------
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Lioness
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posted August 06, 2012 10:14 PM
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YES! Thank you, lioness
Totally agree with this.=)
Yeah see we should know better...But the knowledge probably wont stop the lesson.. Btw.. me and fishy both have venus sq pluto and its a secret, cuz of work.. karma karma karma...
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 06, 2012 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Yeah see we should know better...But the knowledge probably wont stop the lesson.. Btw.. me and fishy both have venus sq pluto and its a secret, cuz of work.. karma karma karma...
lol agreed. not sure what the lesson is though
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Lioness
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posted August 07, 2012 11:22 PM
@ RASCan you describe how your natal venus/pluto has played out for you? I have a venus/pluto/jupiter t-square
from H4/H7/H10.. Pluto being the apex and mine is just crazy crazy crazy.... IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 08, 2012 02:06 AM
Hmm how has it been crazy for you? lolWell, for me, definitely lots of secret even taboo, i would say, relationships. Pretty much all my relationships had to be kept secret for one reason or another. Friendships and relationships always are both really intense and feel fated, like a soul bond. I dont have friendships like everybody else. My friends and I bond like crazy, and it usually burns up eventually out of jealousy and insecurity on both sides, jealousy of having other close friends who compete with them. And yes, i have venus square pluto in synastry with all 3 of the guys i would marry, as well as all of my best friends. One of those three guys was born in 1983, haha and we STILL have venus square pluto.
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Lioness
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posted August 08, 2012 08:37 PM
I admit I am prone to the secret relationships for one reason or another.. Look at me and fishy.. Its a secret because of work...
My H12 ruler which is uranus is in H7..
So I gotta the whole secret thing down.. LOL Even my ex husband started off as a secret thing... Its odd though I never have venus/pluto in synastry.. For what ever reason it repulses me.. I have only dated one guy my age.. That was Gem his late gem sun conjunct my venus, which is probably why I made the "exception" so to speak.. Every one else has been older with Pluto in Virgo.. Which really doesnt touch me... Im usually the "pluto" person in relationships..
I have noticed though Pluto in the composite is usually where its heavy at.. Thats when I fall...
There seems to be a reoccurring theme of suffering with my relationships..
The more I suffer, the more I fall (mars sq neptune)
You think I would have learned my lesson by now.. Well nope.. I havent.. LOL My worst relationship was actually my first long term relationship. I was very naive and young.. I ended up beaten, and then homeless with a baby..
I learned then not to ever rely on any man.. My relationships are like a bad back to school special learning thing.. Euhhh
I dont learn my lesson until its over.. Then its off to the next lesson... IDK what else to say about it...
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 08, 2012 10:25 PM
OMG!Lioness :OThats terrible. I havent had any difficult friendships or relationships, though. I make sure my friends, and especially my crushes, are super mega sweethearts. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 10, 2012 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
OMG!Lioness :OThats terrible. I havent had any difficult friendships or relationships, though. I make sure my friends, and especially my crushes, are super mega sweethearts.
Ahh you know... Dont worry... I havent learned my lesson... lol
Only this first guy was really really bad...
The men them selves arent bad, just weird things happen...
Its hard to explain. IP: Logged |
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