posted August 04, 2012 03:14 PM            

I actually just stopped dating someone who I had this synastry aspect with. He had Mars in Scorpio and I have the Moon there. There was an intense physical attraction but I could tell it wouldn't end up well. I've read that the Mars person often hurts the Moon and...yeah, that was essentially the dynamic. It became addictive after awhile. And I felt like too many mind games were being played. More so on his end because, for a lunar Scorpio, I can be very straightforward when it comes to matters of the heart. At least in my intentions.

Anyways, I got out while I still had my sanity. I just felt used and manipulated. But I'm sure the Scorpio energy of the conjunction played a part in that.

Not to discourage you because, with some good supporting synastry aspects, a Moon-Mars conjunction can last. But, without it, it tends to burn out quickly.

posted August 05, 2012 05:31 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
i feel he is playing mind games with me, he wouls talk to anyone near me but purposely ignore me just to get a reaction out of me.

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posted August 05, 2012 05:47 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagirl92:
I've heard this is a hot aspect for physical and emotional connections.
What are the perspectives on both the mars and moon person?

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i can only speak for the quincunx and trine aspects of moon-mars.

with the trine, i was the moon and she was the mars. i was uncomfortable with it, especially with my moon being in scorpio. but i don't deny the fact that it felt really warm and nice when i was able to relax. felt like i was letting my guard down but i was just not ready for it. happened too soon so i ran away. she had mars in cancer.

with the quincunx, it was my scorpio mars and her aries moon. there was a very strong attraction but i felt that i hurt her a lot and it wasn't my intention to. very unpredictable. for some reason, i'd want to see her one day and be totally indifferent the next.

great advice for the moon-mars conjunction in synastry:

http://sasstrology.com/2009/12/moon-mars-in-synastry-gender-differences -and-aspect-interpretations.html

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The Conjunction: We have a false idea of conjunctions as the ultimate in compatibility, but the truth is that the conjunction can sometimes be erratic and unstable, taking the planets to extremes. The Moon/Mars conjunction between charts will be an adventure into new emotional and sexual territory for both parties, as intense needs and intense desire combine, merge and conflict. The best way to handle the conjunction is to try and take in some of the qualities of the sign opposite the conjunction as a guide to how to handle it in a mature fashion. It can be a smooth ride or it can be a rollercoaster, depending on aspects and element. Earth and water may be more calm, where fire and air conjunctions may be more volatile.

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posted August 05, 2012 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagirl92:
I've heard this is a hot aspect for physical and emotional connections.
What are the perspectives on both the mars and moon person?

I"ve have this with someone (same degree) in aries??

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posted August 05, 2012 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
hey okay so i am going crazy here. so please help me. this guy that i keep talking about we share this aspect. he hurts me by ignoring me...or is he? i feel he is playing mind games with me, he wouls talk to anyone near me but purposely ignore me just to get a reaction out of me. his pluto also squares my sun. what can you say about this?

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Exact same thing was happening to me. It's not worth it. Anyone who treats you like that does NOT genuinely care about you, no matter what they may say. You're a human being with feelings, not a toy to be played with. You deserve someone who will treat you like it.

posted December 10, 2012 01:51 AM            

His passion for me was, and I think still is, intense. He could never keep his hands off me; he had to know every inch of me. We had a dual Mars/Mercury in Gemini & Aries, too, so we had this back-and-forth that was just incredible. (Oh, and he loved the dirty talk!) When I was happy, we were having sex 4-6 times a day, 3-5 or 6 days a week - for about a year. Aggressive Aries style! (His Cancer Sun/Moon & Taurus Venus meant he was, ahem, thorough and unafraid of fluids. Boy would swim.)
It was really co-dependent, though. Neither of us liked that, but both of us were too afraid to try to change it. And yes, he ended up hurting me in the end. I've long since stopped trying to be civil with him, as he always uses it as another chance to hurt me in any verbal way he can think of. The one time we ran into each other though was a strangely intense moment, though, so I'm pretty sure if I were to run into him again it would still be an intense emotion coming from him. I remember having this weird feeling like he suddenly remembered what it felt like to hold me, whereas all I wanted to do was run. So I did.