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Topic: Lovers who come and go..and come again
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frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 620 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 05, 2012 03:44 AM
Have you ever had a lover that you really hit it off with, but then lost touch for various reasons...then they come back into your life..then go away again..then come back? No drama, no fights that caused the separations, but just life..and you get back together like nothing ever happened.I have a lover like this. Been thinking of him a lot lately. Apparently he has been thinking of me, too. What synastry aspects did you have with your come-and-go lover? I'm really interested in why it's just no big deal with some lovers, and some you can never just have "come back into your life". IP: Logged |
depth Knowflake Posts: 387 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 05, 2012 07:25 AM
I had a partner like that. Crazy karma. C0me, go, c0me, go, c0me, B00M, go. The end. Aspects, His Sun/Mars/Pluto c0nj my Pluto/Merc. Merc's in the next sign. His Sun/Mars/Pluto sq my Saturn. His Scorpio Sun/Mars/Pluto sext my 8h m0on. His 9h aries m0on trine my Sag Sun/Mars c0njuncti0n. His Saturn c0nj my asc and sextile my Venus/Mercury/nn0de. His natally unaspected saturn sq my natally unaspected jupiter. T-square in synastry, His m0on opp his venus. Both sq my uranus(chart ruler) and neptune. His Libra Venus sext my Sun/Venus c0njuncti0n. His Merc c0njunct my Sun/Mars. His Jupiter sq my Sun, trine my Ura/Nept. He's a leo ascendant. My ascendant's in aqua. C0mposite Sun on my nn0de. My ura/nept on his nn0de. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 754 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 05, 2012 12:37 PM
Such lovers usually come back during mercury retrograde, which is something we are going through right now...IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 4664 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 05, 2012 12:39 PM
Uranus-heavy synastry/composites------------------ "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." - Lao Tzu $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 442 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 05, 2012 01:40 PM
Yeah lol that's been exactly the situation with the guy I'm interested in for over 4 years now. Although it has come to a point where there is drama and this will probably be a turning point of some kind. It's easier to just post our charts than list all the aspects. When asteroids are included they make some really powerful aspects as well but I've left them out to keep it simple but can list if that seems relevant. I'm on the inside in synastry... http://i1174.photobucket.com/albums/r604/Addie009/333.gif http://i1174.photobucket.com/albums/r604/Addie009/AScomposite.gif IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 581 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted August 05, 2012 06:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: Such lovers usually come back during mercury retrograde, which is something we are going through right now...
Do lovers generally come back in every retrograde? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3861 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 05, 2012 06:43 PM
Venus Rx (and sometimes H5,7 ruler) gives fitting surrounding,transitions trigger progressions (usually mirroring aspects that were active for the first time,when the relationship begun,if not mirroring,that complimenting them) Good to note that mirroring doesn't mean that the newly established relation will be equally doomed,or better. Just there is ...leitmotif of the past relationship that can go either way,and transition conditions the direction it takes.IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 1629 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted August 05, 2012 07:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: Have you ever had a lover that you really hit it off with, but then lost touch for various reasons...then they come back into your life..then go away again..then come back? No drama, no fights that caused the separations, but just life..and you get back together like nothing ever happened.I have a lover like this. Been thinking of him a lot lately. Apparently he has been thinking of me, too. What synastry aspects did you have with your come-and-go lover? I'm really interested in why it's just no big deal with some lovers, and some you can never just have "come back into your life".
I have a friend like this! She has been seeing a man who lives in Poland and works here all summer long (and leaves just before winter) for the last 8 years. He has a whole life back home, it's like he's living parallel lives. I know her chart but I'm not sure of his . She calls him her "annual." IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 754 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 06, 2012 05:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: Do lovers generally come back in every retrograde?
No.
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 754 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 06, 2012 07:54 PM
You have to look at where the retrograde is happening in your chart and if it touches that ex-lover's planets. IP: Logged |