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frankie2912
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posted August 05, 2012 03:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you ever had a lover that you really hit it off with, but then lost touch for various reasons...then they come back into your life..then go away again..then come back? No drama, no fights that caused the separations, but just life..and you get back together like nothing ever happened.

I have a lover like this. Been thinking of him a lot lately. Apparently he has been thinking of me, too.

What synastry aspects did you have with your come-and-go lover? I'm really interested in why it's just no big deal with some lovers, and some you can never just have "come back into your life".

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depth
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posted August 05, 2012 07:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for depth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a partner like that. Crazy karma. C0me, go, c0me, go, c0me, B00M, go. The end.

Aspects,

His Sun/Mars/Pluto c0nj my Pluto/Merc.
Merc's in the next sign.

His Sun/Mars/Pluto sq my Saturn.

His Scorpio Sun/Mars/Pluto sext my 8h m0on.

His 9h aries m0on trine my Sag Sun/Mars c0njuncti0n.

His Saturn c0nj my asc and sextile my Venus/Mercury/nn0de.

His natally unaspected saturn sq my natally unaspected jupiter.

T-square in synastry,
His m0on opp his venus. Both sq my uranus(chart ruler) and neptune.

His Libra Venus sext my Sun/Venus c0njuncti0n.

His Merc c0njunct my Sun/Mars.

His Jupiter sq my Sun, trine my Ura/Nept.

He's a leo ascendant. My ascendant's in aqua.

C0mposite Sun on my nn0de.
My ura/nept on his nn0de.

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Belage
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posted August 05, 2012 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Such lovers usually come back during mercury retrograde, which is something we are going through right now...

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 05, 2012 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uranus-heavy synastry/composites

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FireMoon
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posted August 05, 2012 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FireMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah lol that's been exactly the situation with the guy I'm interested in for over 4 years now. Although it has come to a point where there is drama and this will probably be a turning point of some kind. It's easier to just post our charts than list all the aspects. When asteroids are included they make some really powerful aspects as well but I've left them out to keep it simple but can list if that seems relevant. I'm on the inside in synastry...
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Dreaming111
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posted August 05, 2012 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
Such lovers usually come back during mercury retrograde, which is something we are going through right now...


Do lovers generally come back in every retrograde?

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VenusDiSirius
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posted August 05, 2012 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Rx (and sometimes H5,7 ruler) gives fitting surrounding,transitions trigger progressions (usually mirroring aspects that were active for the first time,when the relationship begun,if not mirroring,that complimenting them)
Good to note that mirroring doesn't mean that the newly established relation will be equally doomed,or better. Just there is ...leitmotif of the past relationship that can go either way,and transition conditions the direction it takes.

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Aquacheeka
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posted August 05, 2012 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by frankie2912:
Have you ever had a lover that you really hit it off with, but then lost touch for various reasons...then they come back into your life..then go away again..then come back? No drama, no fights that caused the separations, but just life..and you get back together like nothing ever happened.

I have a lover like this. Been thinking of him a lot lately. Apparently he has been thinking of me, too.

What synastry aspects did you have with your come-and-go lover? I'm really interested in why it's just no big deal with some lovers, and some you can never just have "come back into your life".


I have a friend like this! She has been seeing a man who lives in Poland and works here all summer long (and leaves just before winter) for the last 8 years. He has a whole life back home, it's like he's living parallel lives. I know her chart but I'm not sure of his . She calls him her "annual."

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Belage
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posted August 06, 2012 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Do lovers generally come back in every retrograde?

No.

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Belage
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posted August 06, 2012 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have to look at where the retrograde is happening in your chart and if it touches that ex-lover's planets.

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