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aquagirl92
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posted August 05, 2012 07:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquagirl92     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
which ones are felt both ways and which ones are felt one way only?

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posted August 05, 2012 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gem-Gurl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Greaaaaaaaaaat question!!! *stays tuned for answers*

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posted August 05, 2012 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's a few but here's 1 other than Pluto...
Uranus sextile Moon from grupovenus:

  You feel open and uninhibited with each other, and can express your feelings spontaneously and without reserve. You enjoy joking and kidding around with each other. If both of you enjoy dancing or playing music, you make wonderful partners in dance and/or music. Sexual compatibility is also very high.

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posted August 05, 2012 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Take Your Sun, Moon and Venus, and combine it with Mars or Pluto. Classic sexual attraction aspects.

Sun-Mars
Sun-Pluto (depends on how Venus or Mars is doing)
Moon-Mars
Moon-Pluto (eh once again, depends on supporting aspects)
Venus-Mars (classic)
Venus-Pluto (Can be one-sided according to other's experiences)
Mars-Pluto

House overlays too. Mars in the 1st can be physical attraction, Mars or Venus in the 5th a romantic or physical fling or romance in general, Mars or Venus on the other person's 8th house. As far as whether both people feel it, as cliche and unhelpful as it sounds, it depends on the two people. I would say if they both have aspects going both ways (Like your moon trine his mars or his sun conjunct your mars) then yes, it helps mutuality.

I realize all of this is very generalized, yes. Someone more experienced can go into house rulership aspects and all that.

You would also look at your own chart to find the rulers of your 5th and 8th houses...for example my Aries 5th house ruler is Mars in Taurus...if someone aspects my Mars in an opposition, sextile, or even square there can be sexual attraction. It can even be interpreted as Aries suns being a romantic prospect (though not the case for me). The ruler of my Cancer 8th house is Moon in Aries...similarly, aspects to my Moon from the other person's planets can create physical or sexual chemistry. A more general way of looking at it is to say I find Cancer suns attractive.

This paragraph can be entirely wrong...with evidence of otherwise my opinion can change. But sometimes you got to look at your own chart to figure out what makes you "tick", as well as the other person's. Not everybody likes Venus conjunct Mars or Sun trine Moon and so on. Composite paints a picture of attraction too. Check for aspects above in the composite.

I know very little on asteroids. Someone can also elaborate on that...I have yet to really experience the validity of using them and what they mean. But others use Eros, Lust, Amor, Lilith, etc..as sexual attraction pinpointers too.

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posted August 05, 2012 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars-Pluto and Mars-Uranus are pretty effective in my experience. Also Venus-Juno

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posted August 05, 2012 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will add Venus-Eros, Mars-Eros, Eros-Pluto, and Eros-Psyche.

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posted August 05, 2012 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus-uranus

Venus will feel it more & the uranus person will experience "sudden" attraction that can be short lived.

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posted August 05, 2012 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars/moon..
Hot stuff..

Mars wants to seduce moon..

Mars chases moon around the desk, gimme gimme gimme...lol

Hopefully though moon will like mars back..

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posted August 05, 2012 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think if you're looking for aspect (or configurations) that trigger intense sexual attraction that could be felt on ONE side only, you should look at midpoints.
Venus-Mars
Venus-Pluto
Mars- Pluto
are the most intense and potent. If someone has their mars or venus triggering those midpoints you could feel an unexplainable and intense sexual attraction for them.
In terms of intensity, I believe it could beat the more common synastry aspects .

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posted August 05, 2012 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
Mars/moon..
Hot stuff..

Mars wants to seduce moon..

Mars chases moon around the desk, gimme gimme gimme...lol

Hopefully though moon will like mars back..


Hmmmmm like :


or


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posted August 05, 2012 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL... ail.

Its more like this..

Him Mars her Moon.


HEY WAIT FOR ME! YOU WANNA GO OUT! WHATS YOUR NAME, DO YOU COME HERE OFTEN??? I gotta met you. CAN I HAVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER???


HER..
Im a little busy..

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posted August 05, 2012 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the aspects are always felt by both parties. Or we're compelled to play whatever planet is aspected in a given dynamic. The key difference is the situation on the ground. If one person is married/parent/unavailable and the other is single, in a perfect world, nothing is going to happen.

If both are single and the other is their type, the aspects usually plays out.

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posted August 05, 2012 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone's Sun in your 8th or somone's Mars on your Sun, I have noticed in the past.

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posted August 05, 2012 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Take Your Sun, Moon and Venus, and combine it with Mars or Pluto. Classic sexual attraction aspects.

Sun-Mars
Sun-Pluto (depends on how Venus or Mars is doing)
Moon-Mars
Moon-Pluto (eh once again, depends on supporting aspects)
Venus-Mars (classic)
Venus-Pluto (Can be one-sided according to other's experiences)
Mars-Pluto

House overlays too. Mars in the 1st can be physical attraction, Mars or Venus in the 5th a romantic or physical fling or romance in general, Mars or Venus on the other person's 8th house. As far as whether both people feel it, as cliche and unhelpful as it sounds, it depends on the two people. I would say if they both have aspects going both ways (Like your moon trine his mars or his sun conjunct your mars) then yes, it helps mutuality.

I realize all of this is very generalized, yes. Someone more experienced can go into house rulership aspects and all that.

You would also look at your own chart to find the rulers of your 5th and 8th houses...for example my Aries 5th house ruler is Mars in Taurus...if someone aspects my Mars in an opposition, sextile, or even square there can be sexual attraction. It can even be interpreted as Aries suns being a romantic prospect (though not the case for me). The ruler of my Cancer 8th house is Moon in Aries...similarly, aspects to my Moon from the other person's planets can create physical or sexual chemistry. A more general way of looking at it is to say I find Cancer suns attractive.

This paragraph can be entirely wrong...with evidence of otherwise my opinion can change. But sometimes you got to look at your own chart to figure out what makes you "tick", as well as the other person's. Not everybody likes Venus conjunct Mars or Sun trine Moon and so on. Composite paints a picture of attraction too. Check for aspects above in the composite.

I know very little on asteroids. Someone can also elaborate on that...I have yet to really experience the validity of using them and what they mean. But others use Eros, Lust, Amor, Lilith, etc..as sexual attraction pinpointers too.


I think you did quite a good job of explaining things. Kudos. Uranus to Venus or Mars, and Mars/Mars, Venus/Venus, Moon/Venus, and Sun/Venus can create attractions to... Only the aspects that don't include Pluto or Mars are less raw, and more cuddly and sensual.

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posted August 05, 2012 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ail221:
I will add Venus-Eros, Mars-Eros, Eros-Pluto, and Eros-Psyche.

I've been wondering about Eros. It's only an asteroid but it more then likely enhances any already existing attraction synastry...

Have you had personal experience of Eros producing attraction? What aspects were they and how did it feel?... Did the other person respond to it as well?

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posted August 05, 2012 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lotis White:
I've been wondering about Eros. It's only an asteroid but it more then likely enhances any already existing attraction synastry...

Have you had personal experience of Eros producing attraction? What aspects were they and how did it feel?... Did the other person respond to it as well?


I have had Eros opposite Mars 4 degrees, Eros sextile Uranus 1 degrees. He had a Virgo sun +Moon/Leo asc and I a Cancer Sun/Gemini Moon/Taurus Asc. He was Eros and I was Mars; we had pure sexual chemistry but it was always a cat and mouse game with one another, each person trying to break the willpower of the other person to admit one was more attracted to the other person. We'd always find someway of torturing the other without really physically even touching one another; then conferring with our best friends and later on realizing we were doing the exact same something to one another. Then again it could have had something to do with his Juno 3 degrees trine my Eros and Psyche and his Eros conjunct my Juno 1 degrees.

The second person I have had these sort of aspect with was a older Cancer Sun with a Scorpio Moon with a Virgo asc. His Eros was conjunct my Moon at 1 degrees and conjunct my Eros and Psyche around 5 degrees but my Eros and Psyche was 3 degrees conjunct Chiron. When we first met there was mutual instant attraction but he was dating someone at the time and he even stated within the first hours of meeting each other "let me leave before I get in trouble". Afterwards we continued on as friends but there was always tension so we maintained only a email/text messaging friendship even after he and his gf broke up. Once we did meet up again months later at this meetup my friends the attraction was still there we couldn't get out of each other sight or touch.

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posted August 06, 2012 05:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
achtually I have a new relationship which is very very sexual - with lilith double whammy: his lilith on my venus and my lilith on his pluto. I never had such a hot mutual attraction with somebody (has lasted now for three months) and since we do not have the classical hot sexual synastry aspects, it is lilith.
we are very different, socially, intellectually, educationally, big age gap. I think it must be the "forbidden fruit"-thing....
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posted August 06, 2012 07:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
Hmmmmm like :


or


i love "Supernatural" and this is from one of my favourite episodes!

Funnily my Mars is actually conjunct Jensen Ackle`s Moon. lol

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posted August 06, 2012 07:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
a nice Venus Mars conjunction is pretty awesome

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posted August 06, 2012 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could Standard astrology give me a straight clear answer on why this specific guy 'out of thousands' was able to steadily put/set *every* fiber of my sensual body in motion?
No, not exactly. Confusing myself with a mars/moon conjunction, a venus/mars opposition, a mars/mars square.. yea somewhere somehow I knew it had something to do with those placements but I couldn't grasp that 'something'.

Well I simply needed a clear concept which I found with the MAGI.

SEXUAL CLASH GEOMETRY! (betw. juno/mars/venus/pluto)

At least 2 clashes (being INTER-ASPECTS) and preferable JUNO involved to make it the *Ultimate Super Sexual Linkage*

(that's sounds even more hot than a single Juno/Venus linkage which they call the *Super Sexual Linkage*).

So to determine the sexual attraction the first thing I look for is 'SEXUAL GEOMETRY' (clashes or not) as I'm pretty convinced now the more sexual planets involved the stronger the attraction.

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